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Used (Maybe Abused)…But Such A Delight To Me!

February 13, 2013 - Updated May 7, 2019 // 42 Comments

While I love shiny new books with clean, crisp pages that have never been touched as much as the next book lover, I have to admit I have a big spot in my heart for used/old books. I very briefly mentioned it in this Top Ten Tuesday post but I wanted to elaborate and see what you all think!

I love the character that comes with a used book. Ok, perhaps I don’t that huge chocolate stain or the boogery looking thing isn’t completely charming, but still. I love the knowledge that someone else had an experience with this book: that they may have furiously turned the pages in anticipation until 3am, swooned or perhaps even wept on these pages — feelings just poured out upon these pages which my own tears may one day also fall.

I love old books because I love finding treasures hidden within the pages — notes, scraps of paper, receipts that give a glimpse into a very small window of someone’s life. I remember finding the sweetest paper Valentine (one of those cute ones you gave in 2nd grade) from a husband to his wife. I remember finding a post-it note that contained a do-to list. I’m pretty sure she was planning a wedding. I found a sketch for a dress in a fashion design book. I found a picture of a girl with great style on the beach in a book about Edie Sedgwick I bought circa 2005 and  I wanted to be friends based on her style! I once found a boarding pass for an international flight ( I can’t remember where to) and I sat there wondering why they were going there — for vacation? What if for a funeral? Did they live there?

I love finding these little mementos! They leave little clues to the person who read this book before me. I find myself wondering what they are like, if they enjoyed the book, if the book was personal to them, if they threw it across the room. Is that strange?

Sidebar of things I DON’T like finding in books: condom wrappers (good job on the safe sex though!), dirty tissues, pages that you mistook for a tissue, candy wrappers, REALLY gross food stains…I mean like a piece of a noodle really? ALSO. Do not annotate shit. Unless I have found an early manuscript I don’t want to see notes in the margins (of a used book that I am buying…do what you will with books you keep!).

I love old books because of the memories attached. There’s something very sentimental, as I shared in my bookish memories post, about having my mom’s old Nancy Drew books and finding her childhood books and seeing her handwriting as a young person …a time in her life I obviously never got to see. It makes me wonder what she was like as a  child and if we were alike. Those books are special to me, because even if she’s not here with me, these books were a part of her.

In all, I just freaking loved used/old books. There’s that history of another reader who, at one time, was experiencing the same words you were. Gripping the pages as you were. Crying all over the same pages you were. Maybe I’m romanticizing it but it gives me the chills thinking about the person, their life, what that book meant to them (maybe it changed their life, maybe it made them laugh on a bad day!) and pretty much what else is on their bookshelf.

Sigh..these are the things I daydream about.

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So let’s talk: Do you like used books or do you tend to go towards the new? If you do like used books, do you prefer them over new? Do you ever think about the weirdo things that I think about in relation to used/old books? What’s the coolest/sweetest/grossest/most memorable thing you’ve ever found in a book? Do you have any instances in which you have an older book that was passed down from someone you care about and you found something special in it or just feel such connection to that loved one?

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  1. Emily @ Forever Literary says

    February 13, 2013 at 12:17 am

    Oh my goodness, have you really found those things in books? The best I’ve ever gotten is someone else’s cheap bookmark, although, while shelving a book at my school library where I volunteer, I once extracted what may or may not have been some kind of feminine hygiene product. I promptly threw it away, barely glancing at it, though, so it remains unsure. I do love romanticizing about the other lives a book has seen, as well. Whenever I check out a book from the library, I breifly think about all the other people who have read it and how it may have affected them, which really is interesting to consider.
    I love this discussion post topic and I’ll have to check back to read the other people’s comments and find about their experiences. 🙂

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  2. Johannah says

    February 13, 2013 at 1:25 am

    I had a friend order a used book on amazon once. She opened the book to find a little clear baggy of crystals in it. We guessed it meth and throw it away. So some used books have a scary story hidden in the pages. Lol.

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  3. Grace Lo says

    February 13, 2013 at 1:30 am

    Sometimes, I get the best things in library books. I remember getting one of those anonymous “Have a great day” notes that someone stuck in a book once upon a time. And a few to-do lists. At times some things I find totally iff me out, but I still love the pure memories one can find in a book. To be honest, I’m in the middle with what types of books I prefer. If they’re used, but in considerably good shape and not gross, I’m happy to take it, but otherwise I’d rather get a new copy.

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  4. Ashley says

    February 13, 2013 at 2:35 am

    I really love old books that have been passed down from my parents or grandparents. It just makes them that much more special. Used books otherwise, don’t hold a lot of appeal for me though. I’ve normally just come across the gross, finding a memento would probably change my opinion because I do love the idea of used books holding memories.

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  5. Chelsea says

    February 13, 2013 at 4:17 am

    I’m not sure which I prefer – I love both. Lets face it – I love books. New, used, borrowed, found. Books I don’t want to keep I’ll either pass on to someone I think will enjoy it, or take to the Salvos/Op Shop so someone else can benefit from them, or I actually really like taking a pile to the hospital – I work in the Cancer ward where patients can stay for weeks and sometimes months. We have a patients/relatives room with a wall of books & dvds the patients can access. Anyway. Off topic.

    I like reading used books, and finding (nice, non gross) things, notes, bookmarks etc. And I actually disagree with you about writing in books. I really like reading other people’s thoughts and opinions. Provided it’s not someone’s grocery list! Can give a different spin/angle on a paragraph I hadn’t thought of, just generally makes me think a little more about what I’m reading, feels kinda like a discussion with someone! Interesting, as I don’t often write in my own books, I get too swept up in the story and turning pages rather than putting my own thoughts down during the reading of the book – I write afterwards.

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  6. Dragana @ Bookworm Dreams says

    February 13, 2013 at 4:21 am

    Yes to the used and old books. I actually don’t like to read new books, because some paperback are hard to ‘break in’ (I hope that’s the right expression). I love the old editions because I always irrationally feel that those books are smarter – because they are older. 🙂
    I didn’t buy any used books but I sure got a lot of interesting ‘presents’ in library books. My favorite is postcard from Venice (empty) – I glued it to the wall above my desk and then it became a custom for me, to add postcards from all the places I want to visit. 🙂 Second best thing I found are bookmarks – I actually also started to collect them too because of this. :o)
    I did not find anything gross if you ignore food & coffee mug stains.

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  7. Lolita says

    February 13, 2013 at 6:03 am

    I prefer new books, I love the smell of new books. And actually I just can’t stand abused books, I hate dog ears or cracked spines and often used books have all this. And writing in a book that is just awfull. For me new books are better.

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  8. Diana says

    February 13, 2013 at 6:55 am

    Ah, that’s a hard question…I’ve been reading just ebooks for so long. (SO much easier to slip a Kindle in a bag than a 400 page book!) Still, I’m a book purist at heart–nothing beats the feel of pages. I love used books and new books, but I think my favorite is probably the library book; they’re kinda in between. They’re library books, so few people will stick their food in there, but you can find all sorts of bookmarks and things. It makes me want to start putting little notes in library books (not ON the pages, but on a slip of paper inside the pages). And I kind of love annotations. They give the book soul.

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  9. Lily says

    February 13, 2013 at 8:02 am

    I have this sort of dream where one day ill go around and buy a bunch of my favourite old and used books and have my own book case dedicated to them! I think every book lover has a sort of fetish for old books, there’s a mystery element in there we all just love!
    Lily

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  10. Christina (A Reader of Fictions) says

    February 13, 2013 at 8:48 am

    Though I haven’t found much as interesting as you have in all of my Goodwill book shopping, I do love when I come across bookmarks, and once there was a photo of the previous owner, which was interesting. With library books, it can be cool when they leave their check out slip in the book and I can judge what they checked out other than the book I’m holding.

    I also get a perverse joy out of the books that have personal messages in the front of them that you pick up at used bookstores.

    Dear Jimmy,
    I think you will love this book and that it will help you become a fine man. Keep it with you always,
    Grandma

    And then it’s on the shelf at Goodwill. Then I wonder what happened. Did Jimmy forget it at a hotel? Donate it because he doesn’t care? Did he die? Did grandma and he couldn’t bear the pain of seeing it anymore? Did he pass it on to a child who unloaded it?

    Basically, used books have more stories than just the one unfolding in the printed text between their covers, and it’s delightful to think about. Though not so much when the story is that the previous owner used it as a flyswatter.

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  11. Brittany @ The Book Addict's Guide says

    February 13, 2013 at 9:07 am

    I have a soft spot in my heart for used books! Of course I can’t afford to buy ALL of them new, and yes! Those little treasures are exactly what makes them so special.
    Have you ever seen the movie Definitely, Maybe? That’s what I think of each time I buy a used book – Where Isla Fisher’s character is on a life-long hunt for the copy of Jayne Eyre that her dad gave to her an wrote a personal note it? THAT’S what I think. I almost feel bad because it’s like, what if I get that copy of someone’s book and they’re looking for it? Mostly I don’t worry, but in the movie she did the same thing — She kept all those books with personal notes in them because she knew that it meant so much to someone else!
    Okay, that aside – I LOVE finding things in books. Once I found a stub for a plane ticket and it was from yeeears ago but on my mom’s birthday which was WEIRD. My boyfriend’s dad let me borrow one of his Jack Reacher books (which I haven’t read because he gave me book 10 in the series LOL), but he’s an international businessman so he’s always going on trips and this book was filled with plane tickets and receipts. It was like finding a whole treasure tucked between the pages!!! I always want to keep those things and create a little box of memories or something. Okay, that sounds weird, but I think you know what I mean haha. I’ve always been a memory-hoarder (scrapbooker, ticket-saver, you name it (seriously. I’ve saved all my movie stubs since 1998!)) so those things are really special for me to find! <3

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  12. Em (Love YA Lit) says

    February 13, 2013 at 9:48 am

    One of the tweens that I do a radio show with brought a stack of books to me the other day, tied up with a ribbon and a cute little label, for me to send to our former co-host who has moved across the country. What’s funny is that while these books were dressed up all pretty as a gift, they were absolutely MANGLED! And I know they were both in perfect condition when she got them because one I bought for her and the other was an advanced copy that she picked up at a book event. I’m sure her friend will love them anyway, but they are definitely of the “maybe abused” variety of used books.

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  13. michelle_etc says

    February 13, 2013 at 9:53 am

    I’m sort of a germophobe, so I don’t buy used books as much as I’d like to. (Although I use the library A TON, so make sense of that!) But I totally agree with everything you’ve mentioned above. There’s something romantic about picking up a book that someone else owned and, hopefully, cared for.

    My favorite part is probably finding handwritten notes in the pages, too. I had a used copy of Diana Gabaldon’s OUTLANDER that must have been given as a gift at one point. There was a really sweet inscription where the giver hoped their friend would love the book as much as she did. It made the book even more special!

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  14. Rebecca @ Love at First Book says

    February 13, 2013 at 10:52 am

    I like both. I love new books, knowing that they are so fresh, clean, and open to me reading them! They’re just ready to be explored.

    But I also love old books. Although I do tend to get creeped out sometimes about all the germs on/in them!!! Like when you find that random stain in a book. Blech! But besides that, they have so much character. Who read them before you? They’re fun!

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  15. Rachel says

    February 13, 2013 at 11:15 am

    I’m the complete opposite. I hate used books. I’m kind of weird in that when I buy a new book, I want it to be new because then I know it belongs to me and only me. I tend to form personal connections with books, and I don’t really feel like it’s mine if it’s belonged to someone before me, if that makes sense? It is neat finding notes and things in used books, though. I always love finding bookmarks people leave behind because I can never have too many of those.

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  16. Bonnie says

    February 13, 2013 at 11:48 am

    A noodle. lol Wow. I’m actually quite partial to used books as well… I tend to frequent my used indie bookstore far more than B&N. I actually can’t remember the last time I bought a brand new book. My favorite part is about finding all the (good) mementos too. Receipts, boarding passes, new bookmarks, notes. 🙂

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  17. Julie@my5monkeys says

    February 13, 2013 at 12:43 pm

    I have notes in my library books but nothing as interesting as what you have found. I do enjoy those finds for good deals at stores.

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  18. Anna (Big Sky, Mountains of Books) says

    February 13, 2013 at 1:32 pm

    I’m pretty shallow when it comes to books: I care a LOT about how they look, at least when I bring them home. I’ll buy used books that are in like-new or close to like-new condition, but not the ones that are all broken spine’d, with bent covers and mussed pages. I’m even picky about new books, agonizing over which of the available copies are the MOST new looking! It’s kind of ridiculous.

    At the same time, the books I own that I bought new but have since become used—like my paperback copy of Wild Magic, which was the first Tamora Pierce book I ever read way back when—are some of my favorite books, because like you describe, they tell a story in their appearance. I just prefer that a used book tell my story vs. someone else’s.

    Gawd, I sound like a pretentious twit. :p

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  19. Justine says

    February 13, 2013 at 3:46 pm

    I like new books, but I don’t always like the price associated with new books…so I mostly buy used.
    I have absolutely no problem with a used book, even if it’s not in the greatest condition. I’m just going to read it and then maybe leave it in my car for a few weeks or try to cram it into an overflowing bookshelf anyway (if I want to hold on to it that is, if I don’t want to I’ll try to re-sell to amazon if they’re offering money for it).
    If I’m buying a ‘classic’, I almost prefer the old worn-in versions to a shiny new one, ESPECIALLY if it has a move tie-in cover.

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  20. Rissi says

    February 13, 2013 at 5:14 pm

    Generally I prefer new books. However, I do order from Amazon quite often and will order used novels so long as they are in good condition.

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  21. Karen says

    February 13, 2013 at 6:41 pm

    I like new books in the sense that I am the first to read it, I get to break it in and all that but at the same time, I feel like I have to take overly good care of it and it is kind of stressful. With old books, I don’t have that stress.
    Still, overall I prefer new books just because newness is awesome!

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  22. Lea B says

    February 13, 2013 at 7:24 pm

    I love used books too. I do not love people who smoked while holding the used book (or library book) and left behind the unmistakable smell.
    I love finding mementos in books – even if it’s a receipt. I always leave them in there – whether I keep, giveaway or trade in the book. It always makes me want to leave things in books, but I haven’t, at least I don’t remember doing it.

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  23. Amanda @ Late Nights with Good Books says

    February 13, 2013 at 8:04 pm

    I can totally see the appeal of having used books and being able to witness how others used the book. I have this one book I bought for a class that has a sweet note from a husband to his wife on the intro page (although it makes me wonder why they then decided to sell it). But I am too much of a neat and clean freak overall to really appreciate used books. I don’t like my books to be bent or smell less than fresh.

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  24. Sara says

    February 13, 2013 at 9:31 pm

    I buy a lot of my books used because I live finding a book I have been hunting for at a bargain price

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  25. Erin says

    February 13, 2013 at 9:49 pm

    Ya know, I love used books for the reasons you mentioned. It’s awesome finding tokens and momentos left from others. Well, for the exception of that used bandaid I found one time 🙁

    I love shiny new books and their smell too, though. Different ones for different reasons

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  26. Janita (Book, Interrupted) says

    February 14, 2013 at 12:08 am

    I’m going to be a cheapskate and say that I love old books because they’re inexpensive 😛 Value Village and thrift stores are my book go-to place. If new books were so cheap, I would only buy them.

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  27. Leah @ The Pretty Good Gatsby says

    February 14, 2013 at 12:09 am

    Used books is how I make my living. And trust me, I’ve seen it all: condom wrappers, dildos and vibrators (!!!), even a butt plug somehow “forgotten” about in a box of books someone wanted to sell. Do these people not look through their things first??

    I personally love finding photos and notes tucked between the pages. I see each one and daydream about the life this person must have – perhaps I’m the strange one! Once I came across a really personal note written by a man to his estranged/ex-wife and that was a little uncomfortable. ..but also totally thrilling, like I was in on their secret.

    My favorite discovery is definitely a handmade bookmark a young girl made. She colored it and in bright purple marker wrote “Leah’s Awesum Bookmark.” Clearly it was fate that brought that bookmark to me :D!

    Even though I sell used books and love finding mementos from the previous owner(s), when it comes to buying my books, I’m far pickier. Yes I’ll buy them used of course, but they have to be pristine and definitely NO writing or inscriptions.

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  28. Christine @Buckling Bookshelves says

    February 14, 2013 at 1:10 am

    Let’s be honest, I love all kinds of books. I love the excitement of a pristine new release as much as I love the excitement of uncovering a hidden gem at my favorite used bookstore. I always pick the “best” copy, but a book that’s a little worn in doesn’t bother me. Although I was kind of annoyed when my latest “very good condition” Half.com purchase arrived with pen scribbles on the cover and a damaged spine — a little wear and tear is OK as long as you’re honest about it!

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  29. Gaby @ Queen Ella Bee Reads says

    February 14, 2013 at 6:02 pm

    I feel like I don’t have very many used books. I think it’s because my OCD tendencies get overwhelmed and even a little offended whenever I go into a used bookstore. In theory, though, I would love to have a giant pile of worn, used books, mostly for the reasons you list – wondering where they’ve been, finding interesting artifacts and making up a story around them… I feel like I should force myself to be more adventurous, just for that. But yeah. Torn between the romance of the old and the prettiness of the new. Ugh. Such is a bookish life.

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  30. rebeccaromney says

    February 15, 2013 at 1:26 am

    Samuel Johnson was notoriously cruel and disgusting to his books. I believe his copy of Shakespeare’s First Folio-let me repeat: his First Folio–has a number of food stains in it (one author surmises Johnson had a taste for gravy) and a large mark clearly made by a tea saucer through Measure for Measure.

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  31. Lulufrances says

    February 15, 2013 at 3:26 am

    Don’t mind wetting obviously used books from the library but when I buy books the should be new 🙂 grossest story I heard or read somewhere: a librarian found a piece of ham as a bookmark in a book 😀 haha sooo disgusting! I recently found a mom’s to do list for her daughters in a library book that was cute!

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  32. Carla says

    February 15, 2013 at 4:39 am

    I have a really big soft spot for used books. they have history and character that new books lack. I love imagining how the other people felt reading the book that I now have. did they love it? what are they called? where do they live? I love the mystery of finding little mementos inside and wondering who ARE you? I just love it.

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  33. Candice @ The Grown-Up YA says

    February 15, 2013 at 1:35 pm

    Our library has a used book store and, while it’s not huge, it has a great selection of random books. I love perusing the shelves and finding little treasures among them! The absolute best though is finding little treasures INSIDE the books – one of the best ones I’ve found (didn’t buy the book though) was a note a husband had written to his wife. It said something like “Happy 50th anniversary! To celebrate I’m giving you this book and taking you on a cruise! I love you!” Like how sweet is that? Granted, not sure why the book ended up in a used book store. Maybe they divorced. My favorite thing to look for in used bookstores is, hands down, OLD books. Ones that are from 50 years ago. I love thinking about all the hands that have touched the book (minus gross germs), the emotions the words within it created for those who have read it… it’s like you’re adding something to the book’s legacy when you read it yourself! Love this post Jamie!

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  34. Natalie says

    February 15, 2013 at 4:36 pm

    I love reading used books. I’ve never found anything too exciting in an older book, just the occasional bookmark 😛 But I have a lot of my grandpa’s old books in the house, and flipping through those I see little notes he’s added, or his bookmarks made from newspaper clippings from close to 60 years ago! Finding those little things is so meaningful, especially since he passed away 13 years ago when I was only 5. It feels like finding little pieces of his bookish soul.

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  35. Heidi says

    February 15, 2013 at 7:38 pm

    I LOVE used books, Jamie! I’m notorious for leaving things in books and finding them years later. This Christmas while home, I picked up my old beloved copy of Little Women and in it found a bookmark my mother (who has since passed away) had made for me as a little girl. OMG THE FEELS!!! I also always had a weird love for library books back when they got stamped–I’m sad they don’t anymore. I just loved to look at all those due date stamps and think about how often that book had been read, or how long since someone had seen those pages. I’ve also found freakin adorable notes from little kids in the middle grade books I read, which always makes my day. Thanks for giving us freaks an outlet to share these weird FEELS. <3

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  36. Alyssa @ Books Take You Places says

    February 16, 2013 at 2:44 pm

    LOVEEE used books. There is a store here called The Book Barn (you might remember, I blogged about it a few months back) and I am OBSESSED with it. Is it weird that I love the smell of old books even though I am 98% sure that smell is mold? I love finding old pictures and things!!

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  37. Sarah (saz101) says

    February 17, 2013 at 5:23 pm

    I love OLD used books. Where you can smell the old paper smell and they have old covers and and and… I’m only sad it means the author’s not getting money for my purchase, you know? 🙂

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  38. Anne says

    February 23, 2013 at 11:57 am

    For me, it depends on the book. I love going to the used bookstore and browsing, but at the same time, if I want a copy of my absolute favorite books, I want a new one – that way when it gains the character from multiple readings, it’s all MY character, you know? But used books are also great, especially when I’m looking for something to take on trips etc. Plus, our nearest used bookstore is also a coffee shop, so the books always smell SO GOOD! 🙂

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  39. Alexa Y. says

    February 26, 2013 at 12:28 pm

    In all honesty, I used to be one of those people who just had to have new books all the time. There was something magical about the pretty new covers, and the perfection of new books. It used to be such a big deal because I liked feeling like I was the first person to read a book.

    BUT ever since I moved to the US, I’ve found that I don’t mind trolling used bookstores for books. There’s something beautiful and poignant about buying a book that someone has already experienced – and sometimes, it’s fun to find things inside. One of my favorite things to read are the personalized dedications that are written in used books when they’re given as gifts.

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  40. Anya says

    March 12, 2013 at 10:44 pm

    I love love love used books, but I don’t find sweet momentos in mine D: So jealous 😉 Honestly though, I love used books because they are such a good deal most of the time. When I can buy a used book for half the price (or less!) of the new price, I’m there! I love the adventure of used book shopping too, you never know what treasures you are going to find! When buying new books, you are pretty sure that the store will have a copy of what you are looking for, but with used books you have to go in with an open mind and just see what the universe presents for you to read 😀

    Anya @ On Starships and Dragonwings

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Truly felt like there were zero things more joyful than the warm sun on my face after colder, dreary days and remembering how much I love the feel of reading a mass market paperback. It’s probably a very specific little joy of mine and I definitely reveled in it today.⁣
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But the real big joy has been rereading this book and experiencing it all over again before @bridgertonnetflix season 2 — especially the Pall Mall scene. And something to do with a 🐝 😅 iykyk⁣
⁣
With all the joy I’m getting out of this reread it makes me wonder why I don’t prioritize rereading like I used to before I started blogging 10 years ago.⁣
⁣
In my head I just want to experience all the new stories and try to make a dent in my TBR but I forget, until I do it, the genuine pleasure in revisiting old companions and how it’s a different side of reading one can experience — the nostalgia, the person I’ve become since reading the book and the way I approach a book already knowing what happens. Well the general sense of what happens because my memory is 💩!⁣
⁣
Anyways that’s what I’m up to currently. Trying to finish this up so I can pack my books for a short trip I’m going on later this week. My first ✈️ since 2019!⁣
⁣
Whatcha reading? Do you reread often? And tell me a little teeny tiny joy from your day.
If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow m If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow mash up the “screaming, crying”  Blank Space clip with the “emotional damage” refrain to the Bastille’s Pompeii to let you know how I feel after the last few chapters of #TheGildedCage !!⁣
⁣
And if you don’t understand what that means, I’m sorry 😅⁣
⁣
But woo boy do I need the third installment of this series!!! But I also think I’m going to be even more emotional damaged after that one soooo.⁣ 
⁣
Seriously, one of the best simple joys of my life is the feeling of being so wholly and totally invested in a series that you have to remind yourself it’s fiction lest you spend all day in bed crying about the devastated look a character had on their face — a face you didn’t even see with your own two eyes but you are so invested that you feel nauseous and gutted like you sure did.⁣
⁣
Just me orrrrrr?⁣
⁣
No but for real. If you love YA fantasy, go start #theprisonhealer so you can be caught up when The Blood Traitor comes out in June (and be my emotional support person for the duration of reading it). I love these characters and I dying to see what happens next. 

Have you read this series yet? Last book series that had you SCREAMING CRYING THROWING UP because of the EMOTIONAL DAMAGE it inflicted?
A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be bothered to make it pretty — mismatching fuzzy sucks, coffee almost gone and Christmas pajama pants that are super old.⁣
⁣
But y’all Black Cake is so good!! I’m almost halfway through and I know it’s A Choice to declare it one of the best books I’ve read all year but I’m feeling bold based on how it’s going.⁣
⁣
I love a good family story (especially one with a family secret!) and this is top notch. The writing is 👌🏻 and I know I’m going to be screaming when the pieces come together!⁣
⁣
In other news, I’m 65% of the way through The Dry by Jane Harper and I’m enjoying it so much that I ended up staying on the treadmill twice this weekend after my allotted time was over just so I could keep listening.⁣
⁣
Will and I FINALLY started Ted Lasso this weekend. It is a damn delight!! For all the hype and praise, it has overdelivered for me which is kind of shocking because normally hype is scary. I told Will that I feel like all the praise hasn’t even come close to how much I could love it. We are only 7 episodes in so no spoilers!⁣
⁣
I’m kinda mad we sat on starting it for so long but at the same time I think the timing is right to help me see my way out of this February funk I have found myself in the past couple weeks.⁣
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Anyways, hope everyone is having a good weekend! Have you read Black Cake or The Dry? Where are my Ted Lasso fans at? I’m happy to join your ranks! Also please tell me your fave character bc I am finding it impossible to pick this far!
No but seriously every year I contemplate organizi No but seriously every year I contemplate organizing a search party for one Katjay Millay who wrote one beautiful and amazing book and then...vanished.

Like for real. She wrote a tweet in 2015 that she was taking a few weeks off and then.... no tweets, no new books. Radio silence.

I hope she’s okay, for real, and that she knows I obsessively stalk Goodreads/Twitter/the internet to make sure I haven’t missed new book news from her at least twice a year. 🥺

Is there any author who you’ve been waiting forever for a new release from??

I’d also like to add YA author Sarah Ockler to this list! Last release was 2015 😭😭
Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are becoming movies/tv shows soon! And one of them is out TODAY!⁣
⁣
The Sky is Everywhere — it’s out today on AppleTV+ and I can’t wait to sob my brains out. One of my absolute most favorite books ever by one of my all time favorite authors. It’s gorgeous and heartbreaking in its poignant depiction of grief, first love and healing — all woven together in Jandy’s signature gorgeous, lyrical writing.⁣
⁣
Along For The Ride (out April 22) — one of a handful upcoming @sdessen books being adapted in the near future and I can’t wait! These books are so near and dear to my heart.⁣
⁣
No release dates yet for The Summer I Turned Pretty tv series (the ultimate coming of age summertime story!) or The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight (the cutest meet cute of all meet cutes all set in 24 hours) but I am HYPED and have all my fingers crossed for 2022 🤞🤞

Have you read any of these? Anyone else hyped for these adaptations.

Also, for the past few years, I’ve kept a running list of books becoming movies/tv shows for the year. Head to my bio to check out the list! I try to update it weekly and keep on top of it all but life ya know 😆 but I try!
Is this a book club? I think we just started a boo Is this a book club? I think we just started a book club. Or maybe just a @jenniferesmith appreciation club?? (partner @randomhouse )⁣
⁣
Either way, after loving Jennifer E. Smith's YA books for years, it's been a real treat to also read her debut picture book with Riley (we loved!!) as well as her adult debut out in 3 weeks!⁣
⁣
⁣So let me tell you about that adult debut — The Unsinkable Great James!!

This one just was the perfect warm-hearted read for a cold and gloomy January.

A perfect setting to escape into (Alaska), a tender-hearted meet cute and a poignant look at the shared grieving experience of those left behind.

I was initially drawn, like I always am, to the daughter losing a mother storyline and an exploration of that grief but I was so taken by the father/daughter relationship between two people who were left untethered by losing the person who held their family together.

Greta and her father don't see eye-to-eye on basically anything when they are thrown together on this Alaskan cruise, a trip Greta's father and mother were supposed to take, and you can feel the tension of their long-standing tumultuous and fractured relationship -- a relationship that feels like its hanging in a balance and could not recover.

The two are both hurting so much from this loss  and it took my breath away at times in how true it rang to be in your own grief bubble and feeling like the loss is yours and yours alone while forgetting about the others shouldering their own piece of this loss. I loved watching them very slowly SEE one another.

I can't say enough good things about this one -- great setting, Greta's music, the meet-cute, the messy and imperfect nature of family and love. Definitely recommend!⁣
I was on a hot reading streak and now for the past I was on a hot reading streak and now for the past few days I get all cozy in bed to read at night and am asleep by 4 pages in. Will got a kick out of waking up to me basically spooning my kindle. Ebbs and flows, y’all.⁣
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Let’s do a little reading update with an edition of Last, Current & Next.⁣
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Last - The Girl With the Louding Voice: Adunni is by far one of the most memorable voices I’ve read in a book in a very long time. Her hope and resilience in the face of some awful situations kept me turning the pages and rooting for her. I can’t believe it took me so long to finally read it. Highly recommend!⁣
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Now - Deep in Providence (thank you @fiercereads ): I’m about halfway through after I carved out some time to read early this morning and I’m enjoying this story of grief, love and magic. I’m nervous about these girls trying to resurrect their dead friend though! When I put it down today I was getting a little creeped by some things happening.⁣
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Next - The Kiss of Deception: I’m rereading the first book in this YA fantasy series because it’s been forever and I really wanna finish the trilogy. I’ve been really wanting to go through series I’ve left unfinished for years (not for lack of interest but because I suck at juggling all the series I start) so this is one of them. I remember loving it so I’m excited to dive in and binge. 

Whatcha reading? Have you read any of these? Anyone else on the struggle train with reading at night right now?
Braved the downpour to get my library holds. I hop Braved the downpour to get my library holds. I hope they are worth it! Please tell me they are!⁣
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This is also, before I get to the stack,  an appreciation post for my tiny library and wonderful librarians.⁣
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They normally open at 9am during the week —except Fridays. Did I remember that? Nope. So I was I was SO proud of Riley and I for getting our butts in gear to be for around opening time to drop off a stack and get my new ones.⁣
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And alas, I go to open the door and it’s locked. Now I’m holding Riley’s hand, two tote bags full of books, an umbrella that I’m trying to keep over the both of us, mind you. I’m thoroughly confused until it hits me that it’s Friday.⁣
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So I’m like, welp, guess we are just dropping off in the bin so I try to grab my books out and put them in one-handed while juggling the umbrella and less than enthused Riley.⁣
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Mercifully the door opens and  our children’s librarian takes pity on us and lets us in to drop off and pick up the holds.⁣
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Is this what being a VIP as a celebrity feels like?? Sure feels like it to me 😆 for real though, it pays to be a regular and have a cute kid in tow who is being pelted with rain.⁣
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Anyways excited about this stack but especially Wahala, Daughter of the Moon Goddess and How High We Go In The Dark the most.⁣
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Also have been meaning to snag The World Gives Way after @jordys.book.club recommendation!⁣
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Have you read any of these? Any that you think were definitely worth the rain-soaked journey for??⁣
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Alright now I’m off to curl up and read on this rainy, dreary day which is really what I think a day like this is meant for.
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“Why is it so hard to pick my next read?” — “Why is it so hard to pick my next read?” — she says as she is surrounded by piles on piles of books on the floor and desk and packed on her bookshelf and book cart. (Partner @berkleypub - thanks for the review copy).⁣
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I managed to pick my next read, as chronicled in these photos, but it was not easy with so many options! 

Decided to go with a most anticipated book of 2022 for me from an author who has written books I’ve really enjoyed.
⁣
I am about halfway through and cruising along because I NEED to figure out if Joseph is the worst or what really is going on here in this story that starts with 3 women being stood up by the same guy on Valentine’s Day.  I feel like there is something more to this one but I can’t quite put my finger on it yet! ⁣
⁣
Hoping to finish it this weekend! What are you reading this weekend? And do you have trouble picking your next read? How do you choose amongst all the options?
Sunshine on my face and a mass market fitting perf Sunshine on my face and a mass market fitting perfectly in my hands.⁣…
⁣
Truly felt like there were zero things more joyful than the warm sun on my face after colder, dreary days and remembering how much I love the feel of reading a mass market paperback. It’s probably a very specific little joy of mine and I definitely reveled in it today.⁣
⁣
But the real big joy has been rereading this book and experiencing it all over again before @bridgertonnetflix season 2 — especially the Pall Mall scene. And something to do with a 🐝 😅 iykyk⁣
⁣
With all the joy I’m getting out of this reread it makes me wonder why I don’t prioritize rereading like I used to before I started blogging 10 years ago.⁣
⁣
In my head I just want to experience all the new stories and try to make a dent in my TBR but I forget, until I do it, the genuine pleasure in revisiting old companions and how it’s a different side of reading one can experience — the nostalgia, the person I’ve become since reading the book and the way I approach a book already knowing what happens. Well the general sense of what happens because my memory is 💩!⁣
⁣
Anyways that’s what I’m up to currently. Trying to finish this up so I can pack my books for a short trip I’m going on later this week. My first ✈️ since 2019!⁣
⁣
Whatcha reading? Do you reread often? And tell me a little teeny tiny joy from your day.
If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow m If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow mash up the “screaming, crying”  Blank Space clip with the “emotional damage” refrain to the Bastille’s Pompeii to let you know how I feel after the last few chapters of #TheGildedCage !!⁣
⁣
And if you don’t understand what that means, I’m sorry 😅⁣
⁣
But woo boy do I need the third installment of this series!!! But I also think I’m going to be even more emotional damaged after that one soooo.⁣ 
⁣
Seriously, one of the best simple joys of my life is the feeling of being so wholly and totally invested in a series that you have to remind yourself it’s fiction lest you spend all day in bed crying about the devastated look a character had on their face — a face you didn’t even see with your own two eyes but you are so invested that you feel nauseous and gutted like you sure did.⁣
⁣
Just me orrrrrr?⁣
⁣
No but for real. If you love YA fantasy, go start #theprisonhealer so you can be caught up when The Blood Traitor comes out in June (and be my emotional support person for the duration of reading it). I love these characters and I dying to see what happens next. 

Have you read this series yet? Last book series that had you SCREAMING CRYING THROWING UP because of the EMOTIONAL DAMAGE it inflicted?
A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be bothered to make it pretty — mismatching fuzzy sucks, coffee almost gone and Christmas pajama pants that are super old.⁣
⁣
But y’all Black Cake is so good!! I’m almost halfway through and I know it’s A Choice to declare it one of the best books I’ve read all year but I’m feeling bold based on how it’s going.⁣
⁣
I love a good family story (especially one with a family secret!) and this is top notch. The writing is 👌🏻 and I know I’m going to be screaming when the pieces come together!⁣
⁣
In other news, I’m 65% of the way through The Dry by Jane Harper and I’m enjoying it so much that I ended up staying on the treadmill twice this weekend after my allotted time was over just so I could keep listening.⁣
⁣
Will and I FINALLY started Ted Lasso this weekend. It is a damn delight!! For all the hype and praise, it has overdelivered for me which is kind of shocking because normally hype is scary. I told Will that I feel like all the praise hasn’t even come close to how much I could love it. We are only 7 episodes in so no spoilers!⁣
⁣
I’m kinda mad we sat on starting it for so long but at the same time I think the timing is right to help me see my way out of this February funk I have found myself in the past couple weeks.⁣
⁣
Anyways, hope everyone is having a good weekend! Have you read Black Cake or The Dry? Where are my Ted Lasso fans at? I’m happy to join your ranks! Also please tell me your fave character bc I am finding it impossible to pick this far!
No but seriously every year I contemplate organizi No but seriously every year I contemplate organizing a search party for one Katjay Millay who wrote one beautiful and amazing book and then...vanished.

Like for real. She wrote a tweet in 2015 that she was taking a few weeks off and then.... no tweets, no new books. Radio silence.

I hope she’s okay, for real, and that she knows I obsessively stalk Goodreads/Twitter/the internet to make sure I haven’t missed new book news from her at least twice a year. 🥺

Is there any author who you’ve been waiting forever for a new release from??

I’d also like to add YA author Sarah Ockler to this list! Last release was 2015 😭😭
Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are becoming movies/tv shows soon! And one of them is out TODAY!⁣
⁣
The Sky is Everywhere — it’s out today on AppleTV+ and I can’t wait to sob my brains out. One of my absolute most favorite books ever by one of my all time favorite authors. It’s gorgeous and heartbreaking in its poignant depiction of grief, first love and healing — all woven together in Jandy’s signature gorgeous, lyrical writing.⁣
⁣
Along For The Ride (out April 22) — one of a handful upcoming @sdessen books being adapted in the near future and I can’t wait! These books are so near and dear to my heart.⁣
⁣
No release dates yet for The Summer I Turned Pretty tv series (the ultimate coming of age summertime story!) or The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight (the cutest meet cute of all meet cutes all set in 24 hours) but I am HYPED and have all my fingers crossed for 2022 🤞🤞

Have you read any of these? Anyone else hyped for these adaptations.

Also, for the past few years, I’ve kept a running list of books becoming movies/tv shows for the year. Head to my bio to check out the list! I try to update it weekly and keep on top of it all but life ya know 😆 but I try!
Is this a book club? I think we just started a boo Is this a book club? I think we just started a book club. Or maybe just a @jenniferesmith appreciation club?? (partner @randomhouse )⁣
⁣
Either way, after loving Jennifer E. Smith's YA books for years, it's been a real treat to also read her debut picture book with Riley (we loved!!) as well as her adult debut out in 3 weeks!⁣
⁣
⁣So let me tell you about that adult debut — The Unsinkable Great James!!

This one just was the perfect warm-hearted read for a cold and gloomy January.

A perfect setting to escape into (Alaska), a tender-hearted meet cute and a poignant look at the shared grieving experience of those left behind.

I was initially drawn, like I always am, to the daughter losing a mother storyline and an exploration of that grief but I was so taken by the father/daughter relationship between two people who were left untethered by losing the person who held their family together.

Greta and her father don't see eye-to-eye on basically anything when they are thrown together on this Alaskan cruise, a trip Greta's father and mother were supposed to take, and you can feel the tension of their long-standing tumultuous and fractured relationship -- a relationship that feels like its hanging in a balance and could not recover.

The two are both hurting so much from this loss  and it took my breath away at times in how true it rang to be in your own grief bubble and feeling like the loss is yours and yours alone while forgetting about the others shouldering their own piece of this loss. I loved watching them very slowly SEE one another.

I can't say enough good things about this one -- great setting, Greta's music, the meet-cute, the messy and imperfect nature of family and love. Definitely recommend!⁣

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