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Thumbs Up, Thumbs Down: Author Interaction On Reviews

February 11, 2011 - Updated October 3, 2024 // 32 Comments

Thumbs Up, Thumbs Down is feature on my blog to promote discussion and the sharing of opinions because I’m curious what other readers/bloggers think about the topics I bring up.  Every other week I will give a topic to be discussed. You can give your vote on whether or not it is a thumbs up or a thumbs down for you and then explain why. The topics will cover anything related to reading, blogging, the book industry, etc. etc. Basically whatever is on my mind! This feature is NOT intended to be a place to bash anybody or start a nasty fight or controversy. It is a platform for a mature discussion and sharing of opinions. It is also NOT a feature in order to TELL you how you should blog or act or think. Just a discussion of ideas.

After observing something that happened recently in the blogging world (an author getting quite nasty on some comments and attacking a blogger who didn’t like the book) I started thinking about author interactions and how social media has really changed the dynamic in which authors and readers interact. Before blogs and Twitter it seems as the interactions were less personal (maybe at a signing or an event or by email) and there was this space that wasn’t breached where readers and authors just didn’t converse (about their books and other things) to the extent that they do now. If you didn’t like a book, you might have thrown a hissy fit and vented about what a pile of doody it was to a friend or sat down over coffee with a fellow reader and discussed the merits of the book and what you didn’t like about. Either way, you didn’t have to worry about the author walking up, mid rant, tapping you on the shoulder and trying to debate your opinion of their book with you. Conversely, social media has made authors and readers come together in a positive way where authors can become our friends and we can get excited with them about their books and share feedback. 

What I want to know: That being said– what I want to talk about is how you feel about authors commenting on your review of their book (or Goodreads/LibraryThing review). Do you feel comfortable with this? Do you enjoy when an author gives feedback about your review (good or bad) or do you think an author should just email you privately to talk about it? What experiences have you had with authors interacting with your review? As an additional question, what do you think about interaction with authors in general? Do you feel pressure if you become friends with an author and then review their book? Authors–do you like interacting on reviews of your books? Publishers– do you encourage your authors to interact or stay away? Let’s discuss!

So..take it to a vote!

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My Opinion:

I’ve only really had one or two experiences with an author interacting and they have been all positive. I do interact with quite a few authors and sometimes I do feel the pressure when I review their book. I’m honest. I have to be because I don’t want to falsely advertise something just because I didn’t want an author to yell at me. I think that social media CAN make these situations sticky because it makes everything so accessible and feelings can get hurt. These situations get sticky when authors get overly emotional about it and decide to fight back and these types seem to be few and far between (the same goes for bloggers who write really nasty reviews making fun of authors and petty stuff..not a lot of them around). But I’m going to say thumbs up for this–despite the complications. I’ve seen so many instances where authors and readers can have a really great dialogue even if a reader didn’t LOVE their book. I think most authors understand that a book can’t be everything to all people. I think the positive has far outweighed the good, in my experience, as I love when I get a nice comment from an author about a book I truly enjoyed, but I think authors do need to walk away from a negative reviews if it’s going to be disrespectful of a blogger’s opinion when they took the time to engage with the text and form the opinion.

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  1. Pam says

    February 11, 2011 at 5:19 am

    I have had several times an author has come to me after a so-so review and explained to me what they were thinking and I am so totally okay with that. They did it in the comments, I approved it and it is there for the world to see and have their side too. It wasn't mean spirited. Syrie James did this on my review of Dracula, My Love and I loved her explanations.

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  2. Jamie says

    February 11, 2011 at 5:24 am

    That's awesome! That is the type of interaction that I think should (and CAN!) exist. These situations that keep happening where bloggers are attacked do NOT need to happen. I think it's great if an author can start a dialogue like that. I would definitely appreciate that if an author did that on a review of a book that was just meh for me.

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  3. Ash says

    February 11, 2011 at 5:33 am

    I've had mostly positive experiences with authors commenting on my reviews so I say thumbs up. I was just talking to my parents about this the other day and I actually really enjoy it when the author is involved. It makes me feel like they actual appreciate what we do as bloggers and they are looking to improve their work based on what others say. I see Pam mentioned Syrie James and she is really great about that.

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  4. Ashley says

    February 11, 2011 at 5:41 am

    I don't mind author interaction. Authors are my rock stars, so having an author express interest in my site and reviews is great.

    I have no problems with authors commenting on my reviews, although it is a little… awkward when the review is less than favorable. But as long as authors are classy when they comment, I think it's great!

    The only time I have a problem with author interaction is when they take it the way the author that started this mess did. She was petty and mean, and came across as a petulant child. I could imagine her stamping her foot and saying "But that's not FAIR!"

    That is not an okay response, but I think I'm okay with almost any other author response. And, I think it's really neat when I'm reading the comments on the blog and I see a (good/polite) comment from the author.

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  5. thebookwurrm says

    February 11, 2011 at 6:33 am

    I'll be honest. When I read a book, I am entirely focused on the book and forget that there is a person behind the book. So when I review a book, it's the book I'm commenting on and not the author themselves. If, however, there is a question or observation in the review that they want to clarify or answer, then I'm cool with it. But if it's just to say that my opinion is stupid because it's negative, then I'm sorry, it's not going to work.

    I sort of don't like being too friendly with authors simply because if I have to write a bad review, I will feel guilty and I hate that feeling. Haha. But I have friends I had creative writing classes with and when you workshop your works together, I have no problem telling them that some of their stuff sucks just like they tell me about mine. I guess, what I'm trying to say is… I think I can't generalize. It depends on the author I am being friendly with.

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  6. Jennifer (An Abundance of Books) says

    February 11, 2011 at 6:39 am

    The way I see it, the author put their book out there, I can talk about it be it over coffee or on my blog. I put my thoughts out there for the world to see, the author has every right to comment on my review. Should either of us be nasty, no. We're all entitled to our opinion and I think it would be really cool to have a book discussion with other bloggers and readers as well as authors.

    Jennifer (An Abundance of Books)

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  7. Jackie says

    February 11, 2011 at 6:45 am

    I am honestly baffled about the certain events that unraveled this week. As someone who studying English in college and as someone who took writing workshops, I learned that I needed to develop thick skin fast! I guess I just assumed writers in general had done the same.

    If a writer can remain objective and respectful about a less than positive review, then I think author interaction should be encouraged. No doubt it makes the blogger feel great since they may look up to said author.

    If the author isn't able to remain objective, then it's probably in their best interest to just leave the subject alone. They can't expect to please everyone when the reception of writing/art is so subjective!

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  8. R says

    February 11, 2011 at 10:38 am

    As a relatively new book blogger, I haven't actually had any interaction with authors as yet. Actually, a number of the books I've reviewed are by people who are no longer alive… so if they were to somehow comment on my reviews from beyond the grave, I would be really freaked out!

    Actually, like thebookwurrm, I feel that I wouldn't want to get too close to authors, because otherwise I would definitely feel horrible if I had to give a negative review. As it is, I give my honest opinion on books I review – as I think pretty much every book blogger does!

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  9. Foodie Fictionista says

    February 11, 2011 at 12:45 pm

    As an author, it's very humbling to see the tough reviews. I keep in mind, however, that each reader is different. In the end, a well critiqued review might save another reader w/ similar taste the money/time of deciding NOT to read my book and therefore, saving me another critical review. That being said, I often read the Amazon Discussion boards and have seen authors react horribly to bad reviews. You would think it's not in the author's best interest, however, after reading this lengthy author/reviewer conversation, I was surprised to see the public argument actually led to more sales for the author!
    Here's the link – if you like reality TV, it's quite entertaining!
    http://www.amazon.co.uk/review/R323EFRY8ACVKV/ref=cm_cr_pr_viewpnt#R323EFRY8ACVKV

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  10. Sarah says

    February 11, 2011 at 1:22 pm

    I am all about author – reviewer interaction. Overall, I think that talking with an author is just cool, and you both can learn something.

    I've had a good and a bad experience. Once on Goodreads I posted a review about a memoir written by 3 women, and one of the women kind of rubbed me the wrong way in the book. And I said in my review that I enjoyed her parts the least and gave reasons why. The woman I was talking about saw my review and left kind of a snarky comment on it. I just shrugged it off – I don't take it personal. But it definitely didn't change my mind, it only confirmed my original feelings – that she was melodramatic.

    The good experience I've had was when I posted a review on my blog about another memoir (written by three Lost Boys from Sudan). Their co-author, a woman who helped them when they came to the US, sent me an email thanking me for reviewing the book and recommending another book about Sudan to further my interest – before she even read the review. She just got a Google alert about it and thanked me before she even went to read it.

    Personally, I wish authors would keep any interaction between reviewers private – that way they don't seem tacky to the whole world if they're rude or complain. Either way though, I'm honest in my reviews – I'll clearly state what I did and didn't like about the book. If an author privately emails or messages me and they are super polite (like the Sudan book author), I might mention online how cool they are and encourage their work. If an author privately messages me and complains or is kind of rude, I'll ignore it – I won't give them bad publicity if they keep it between us. But an author complaining to the whole world about a bad review is just sad.

    That author that started this all is infuriating. Not only did she complain about getting a bad review and criticize the person who reviewed it, she also criticized ALL book bloggers. You can be damn certain I'll never buy, read, or in any way support her work. And of course I'll tell any one who will listen about how childish she is. Ugh. Disgusting.

    ANYWAYS, so I vote thumbs up for author / reviewer interaction, as long as both sides remember their manners and basic respect. It's sad that because of all the non-personal ways of communicating these days (twitter, email, etc.) that people feel it's okay to forget decency and politeness.

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  11. Tara says

    February 11, 2011 at 3:19 pm

    I interact with authors on Twitter and Goodreads but have not had any respond to a review I have done of their book. I think if both sides remain respectful and courteous it can benefit both the blogger and the author.

    I think soical media makes it so easy to have this interaction the people forget there is a real live person behind the Twitter handle. I think before you say anything, you have to ask yourself if you would say this to someone's face. If not, then you probably shouldn't say it 🙂

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  12. Jenn says

    February 11, 2011 at 3:23 pm

    I gave this a thumbs up. I'm all for author/blogger interaction as long as both parties are civil and professional. You can have differing opinions and that's fine and encouraged, but as long as both sides are polite and express themselves in a manner that does not include name calling, bashing, etc.

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  13. Jen (Makeshift Bookmark) says

    February 11, 2011 at 4:13 pm

    I've had several interactions with authors regarding reviews of their books. The majority of them are positive and usually the author thanking me for a positive review and retweeting it or something. I usually don't bring the negative reviews to the author's/publisher's attention when it auto-posts to Twitter. There was one time where I accepted a self-published book and got a tiny bit of backlash and attitude from the author, telling me that it was a "good… no, GREAT book" and that they were bummed out that I only gave it a three-star rating. I was baffled because I don't think three stars is bad by any means and thought it was actually a pretty generous rating. I thoroughly explained the reason why the book didn't work for me in a constructive and non-insulting way, but that didn't matter, apparently.

    I was pretty upset by this, but these things do happen.. so I'm definitely going to have to give a thumbs up. It's incredible to hear from an author and to hear that your glowing review put a smile on their face. Author interaction is one of the more rewarding aspects of blogging and I'm all for it!

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  14. Jasmine (The Reading Housewives) says

    February 11, 2011 at 4:34 pm

    Since I am still new to the blogging community I haven't had a TON of interaction with authors. I have had some, though, and it has all been positive. I do get nervous when I start to read a book from an author that maybe follows me on Twitter. I know I'll eventually post my review of the book, and I hope that I don't offend them if I didn't like it, and on the other hand I hope I did the book justice if I loved it.

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  15. Annette says

    February 11, 2011 at 4:38 pm

    Thumb way up. I've only had positive reactions from authors, but even if they were negative, I think I could handle it. Of course, I don't ATTACK authors if I don't like their books, so I'm not expecting any vicious responses, but I guess you never know…. I'll take it as it comes.

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  16. Erica says

    February 11, 2011 at 5:24 pm

    For the most part, any of our authors who have commented on reviews have done so politely, even if it was a less than stellar review. I think a lot of authors make a point of thanking bloggers for good reviews but resolve to just not comment on bad reviews, which I think is totally reasonable.

    We did have one author who basically freaked out over a lukewarm review and left a very nasty comment–but luckily it was so clearly unhinged that the blogger took it in stride.

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  17. Bella says

    February 11, 2011 at 5:34 pm

    I've only had the positive reactions from authors. I don't have a traditional review style, but I've had a few authors comment and it's nice to know they appreciate what I have to say about their books.

    I love authors & the great books they write, so its always nice to know that they read what we think about their books.

    THUMBS UP!

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  18. Jenni Elyse says

    February 11, 2011 at 6:39 pm

    As long as the author isn't mean-spirited, then I'm okay with their disagreement of my review in a public forum. I always try to be nice in my book reviews, but I'm going to say what I thought of the book. If I didn't like it, I'll explain why. If I do like it, I'll explain why. I'm not going to like every book I read so some negative reviews are too be expected.

    However, I always love positive reviews from authors. I think it's awesome that they take time out of their schedule to read my review and comment on it.

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  19. Jacinda (The Reading Housewives) says

    February 11, 2011 at 7:06 pm

    So far any author interaction has been positive, one author even commented on my review on my blog (that was a good day!). As long as it is positive interaction and not negative I love it. Talking and interacting with them usually can be great.

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  20. Tahleen says

    February 11, 2011 at 7:55 pm

    I think author/blogger interaction is a good thing, provided everyone keeps their tempers and are courteous. I really wish I had read that post everyone is talking about—I don't know what happened except for the basics!

    I haven't really had any interaction after reviewing a book, but I've talked to authors beforehand or on Twitter. I really enjoy it.

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  21. TNBBC Super Mod says

    February 12, 2011 at 1:23 am

    Jamie, great post, and so many questions to answer!

    I have been hooked on author interaction ever since David Maine reached out to me on Goodreads quite a few years ago to thank me for reviewing his novel. He was headed out to NYC for a reading shortly after that, and I had emailed him to let him know I was coming. Turns out there was a mix up in dates and location, but David showed up anyway, and spent an entire hour with little ole me – discussing his novels, his influences, his teaching gigs… It was awesome!!!

    Since then, I have built lots of wonderful relationships with authors. I don't let my personal interactions twist my reviews of their novels or color the way I view their work.

    I've had my share of authors who didn't care for my reviews of their work, and that have contacted me to discuss things, but always in a polite, informative way.

    I think it amazing how social media sites allow such easy access to bloggers and authors and publishers alike! It's really a great time to be doing what we do.

    We shouldn't let one or two "bad eggs" put a sour taste in our mouths. Be true to what you review. Own your feelings, and give it to your readers straight. If it's going to be a less than favorable review, do the right thing and offer constructive examples of what didn't work.. Give the author something to take away from it!

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  22. Jennifer Lane says

    February 12, 2011 at 2:04 am

    This is a wonderful discussion! I'm an author and I sometimes feel uncomfortable commenting on reviews–it feels a little bit like crashing the party. Sure, it stings to get a negative review, but in the end I'm really interested in an honest opinion of my work, and I don't want to exert any unintentional influence on the process. Sometimes I do comment because I'm often thankful for folks taking the time to read and review my novel.

    We're talking about authors commenting on reviews, but how do bloggers feel about authors joining in on a discussion like this one? I know I love to receive comments on my blog so I'm hoping it's okay to weigh in here.

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  23. Jenny says

    February 12, 2011 at 4:32 pm

    In general I think it's cool to have author interaction but at times, esp. when I don't care for a book, I start to feel bad. I have had one specific author who left a nasty comment and one author & publicist combo who caused issues "behind-the-scenes". I think that's the exception though and that most author involvement is awesome.

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  24. Jenny says

    February 12, 2011 at 4:33 pm

    Jennifer – I know I personally love when authors get involved in discussions!

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  25. Jamie says

    February 12, 2011 at 5:33 pm

    Jennifer– I love it when authors get involved in conversations like this. That was my hope that it would be a good dialogue between bloggers and authors!

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  26. Pam says

    February 12, 2011 at 5:51 pm

    Mentioning again my above comment I really have had at least five times where I have been a tad bit critical but over all liked the book and the author leave a comment saying Pam you kinda just didn't get that part, here is what I meant. I really love that explanation, then the readers of the review see it too. I have often thought about taking it and putting it in the post. I have also had my good reviews commented on and quotes taken and put places on the web and blurbed and I have had emails bad bad emails but over all I have had a good experience 😀

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  27. Jamie says

    February 12, 2011 at 5:55 pm

    Pam — I think that is totally awesome where an author is willing to constructively take what you said but also explain what they intended and dialogue with you about it..NOT try to fight with you and change your mind. I wish some of these authors who attack reviewers would take note and see how wonderful the blogger/author relationship could be. Attacking is never the way to go.

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  28. Jenna Blum says

    February 12, 2011 at 6:22 pm

    Hi! I think it's a moot point by now: because social media has made our lives more permeable, authors & readers *can* interact and *do* interact. What I love in this discussion is people's insistence that this be done civilly. Yes, when you write a book and send it out into the world, you then step up onto a platform and put your head & hands in the stocks. Readers can throw all sorts of things at your book and you're really not allowed, via good manners & the rules of the game, to say anything about it. That's the way it goes. Authors have to have a skin like the rind of a grapefruit!

    But one thing I've seen with the rise of internet commentary is this: it's so easy to give an opinion that people sometimes *do* get carried away and say nasty things just because they can. What's going to happen, your laptop screen's going to rise up and smite you? I'm not talking well-thought-out reviews here; I'm talking direct attacks on the author, her point of view, her "stupid" story, etc.

    In these instances–and ONLY in these instances–I do sometimes feel justified in stepping in and commenting on my reviews. If a reader doesn't like my books, that's a reader's right. But if a reader says "Blum's style is straight out of grad school; she should stop showing off all the 20 dollar words she learned in her MFA program already," I will tell that reader: hey, Iw as using obnoxious $20 words when I was four–and I do so now as a craftsperson when the $20 word expresses a nuance most concisely than an equally valuable 5-cent word. Or if a reader says, "It's clear Blum did not do her research for this novel," I gently correct that assumption.

    I do this to remind everyone, readers and writers alike–and I am a reader, a voracious, violently opinionated one!–that behind the curtain of profile picture & words, there are PEOPLE. It's an increasingly important lesson to learn and remember in an increasingly pixilated world, and we should all remember, when providing commentary, that somebody's heart and soul went into what you're reading. Be thoughtful & respectful accordingly.

    ~ Jenna Blum, author of THOSE WHO SAVE US and THE STORMCHASERS

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  29. Lisa Yarde says

    February 12, 2011 at 6:40 pm

    I wear both hats, as a reviewer and writer. I like interacting with other writers and have built a great rapport, even with ones I didn't review too favorably. When my own work is reviewed, I try to thank the reviewer for their time spent, even if they didn't like my book. Reviewers should feel at liberty to give theur honest opinion; it's all subjective and there is no right or wrong view. It's where reviewers get nasty that authors get testy in return. Doesn't mean we should stoop to flaming someone over an unfavorable review. Sometimes, it's better to just ignore it.

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  30. Jennifer says

    February 15, 2011 at 6:49 pm

    I think that author interaction definitely has the opportunity to be great. Reviewers and author have to be aware though that not everyone is going to like what you say/write. True, feelings can get hurt, but I think that's a risk that we all take when we put our personal opinions out there. And it can be easy to be misunderstood in print so why shouldn't authors get the opportunity to defend their work after an especially brutal bash? I know I would want that opportunity.

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  31. Avid Reader says

    February 15, 2011 at 9:31 pm

    So far I've only had good author interactions and I think that's a valuable part of the social media aspect of publishing. I think that as long as the author and the reviewer are both being respectful that it's wonderful. It can open up new discussions and can benefit both parties. I do think that some reviewers can forget how personal a book is for an author (especially a new one) and that authors can forget that the book isn't necessarily personal for the reviewer. It can be tricky, but still I give it a thumbs up.

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  32. wandy says

    January 19, 2012 at 6:39 am

    In short, I like seeing the comments crop up so much more. That's what gets me all warm and fuzzy inside.divorce papers

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Will and I FINALLY started Ted Lasso this weekend. It is a damn delight!! For all the hype and praise, it has overdelivered for me which is kind of shocking because normally hype is scary. I told Will that I feel like all the praise hasn’t even come close to how much I could love it. We are only 7 episodes in so no spoilers!⁣
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I’m kinda mad we sat on starting it for so long but at the same time I think the timing is right to help me see my way out of this February funk I have found myself in the past couple weeks.⁣
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Anyways, hope everyone is having a good weekend! Have you read Black Cake or The Dry? Where are my Ted Lasso fans at? I’m happy to join your ranks! Also please tell me your fave character bc I am finding it impossible to pick this far!
No but seriously every year I contemplate organizi No but seriously every year I contemplate organizing a search party for one Katjay Millay who wrote one beautiful and amazing book and then...vanished.

Like for real. She wrote a tweet in 2015 that she was taking a few weeks off and then.... no tweets, no new books. Radio silence.

I hope she’s okay, for real, and that she knows I obsessively stalk Goodreads/Twitter/the internet to make sure I haven’t missed new book news from her at least twice a year. 🥺

Is there any author who you’ve been waiting forever for a new release from??

I’d also like to add YA author Sarah Ockler to this list! Last release was 2015 😭😭
Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are becoming movies/tv shows soon! And one of them is out TODAY!⁣
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The Sky is Everywhere — it’s out today on AppleTV+ and I can’t wait to sob my brains out. One of my absolute most favorite books ever by one of my all time favorite authors. It’s gorgeous and heartbreaking in its poignant depiction of grief, first love and healing — all woven together in Jandy’s signature gorgeous, lyrical writing.⁣
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Along For The Ride (out April 22) — one of a handful upcoming @sdessen books being adapted in the near future and I can’t wait! These books are so near and dear to my heart.⁣
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No release dates yet for The Summer I Turned Pretty tv series (the ultimate coming of age summertime story!) or The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight (the cutest meet cute of all meet cutes all set in 24 hours) but I am HYPED and have all my fingers crossed for 2022 🤞🤞

Have you read any of these? Anyone else hyped for these adaptations.

Also, for the past few years, I’ve kept a running list of books becoming movies/tv shows for the year. Head to my bio to check out the list! I try to update it weekly and keep on top of it all but life ya know 😆 but I try!
Is this a book club? I think we just started a boo Is this a book club? I think we just started a book club. Or maybe just a @jenniferesmith appreciation club?? (partner @randomhouse )⁣
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Either way, after loving Jennifer E. Smith's YA books for years, it's been a real treat to also read her debut picture book with Riley (we loved!!) as well as her adult debut out in 3 weeks!⁣
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⁣So let me tell you about that adult debut — The Unsinkable Great James!!

This one just was the perfect warm-hearted read for a cold and gloomy January.

A perfect setting to escape into (Alaska), a tender-hearted meet cute and a poignant look at the shared grieving experience of those left behind.

I was initially drawn, like I always am, to the daughter losing a mother storyline and an exploration of that grief but I was so taken by the father/daughter relationship between two people who were left untethered by losing the person who held their family together.

Greta and her father don't see eye-to-eye on basically anything when they are thrown together on this Alaskan cruise, a trip Greta's father and mother were supposed to take, and you can feel the tension of their long-standing tumultuous and fractured relationship -- a relationship that feels like its hanging in a balance and could not recover.

The two are both hurting so much from this loss  and it took my breath away at times in how true it rang to be in your own grief bubble and feeling like the loss is yours and yours alone while forgetting about the others shouldering their own piece of this loss. I loved watching them very slowly SEE one another.

I can't say enough good things about this one -- great setting, Greta's music, the meet-cute, the messy and imperfect nature of family and love. Definitely recommend!⁣
I was on a hot reading streak and now for the past I was on a hot reading streak and now for the past few days I get all cozy in bed to read at night and am asleep by 4 pages in. Will got a kick out of waking up to me basically spooning my kindle. Ebbs and flows, y’all.⁣
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Let’s do a little reading update with an edition of Last, Current & Next.⁣
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Last - The Girl With the Louding Voice: Adunni is by far one of the most memorable voices I’ve read in a book in a very long time. Her hope and resilience in the face of some awful situations kept me turning the pages and rooting for her. I can’t believe it took me so long to finally read it. Highly recommend!⁣
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Now - Deep in Providence (thank you @fiercereads ): I’m about halfway through after I carved out some time to read early this morning and I’m enjoying this story of grief, love and magic. I’m nervous about these girls trying to resurrect their dead friend though! When I put it down today I was getting a little creeped by some things happening.⁣
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Next - The Kiss of Deception: I’m rereading the first book in this YA fantasy series because it’s been forever and I really wanna finish the trilogy. I’ve been really wanting to go through series I’ve left unfinished for years (not for lack of interest but because I suck at juggling all the series I start) so this is one of them. I remember loving it so I’m excited to dive in and binge. 

Whatcha reading? Have you read any of these? Anyone else on the struggle train with reading at night right now?
Braved the downpour to get my library holds. I hop Braved the downpour to get my library holds. I hope they are worth it! Please tell me they are!⁣
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This is also, before I get to the stack,  an appreciation post for my tiny library and wonderful librarians.⁣
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They normally open at 9am during the week —except Fridays. Did I remember that? Nope. So I was I was SO proud of Riley and I for getting our butts in gear to be for around opening time to drop off a stack and get my new ones.⁣
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And alas, I go to open the door and it’s locked. Now I’m holding Riley’s hand, two tote bags full of books, an umbrella that I’m trying to keep over the both of us, mind you. I’m thoroughly confused until it hits me that it’s Friday.⁣
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So I’m like, welp, guess we are just dropping off in the bin so I try to grab my books out and put them in one-handed while juggling the umbrella and less than enthused Riley.⁣
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Mercifully the door opens and  our children’s librarian takes pity on us and lets us in to drop off and pick up the holds.⁣
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Is this what being a VIP as a celebrity feels like?? Sure feels like it to me 😆 for real though, it pays to be a regular and have a cute kid in tow who is being pelted with rain.⁣
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Anyways excited about this stack but especially Wahala, Daughter of the Moon Goddess and How High We Go In The Dark the most.⁣
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Also have been meaning to snag The World Gives Way after @jordys.book.club recommendation!⁣
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Have you read any of these? Any that you think were definitely worth the rain-soaked journey for??⁣
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Alright now I’m off to curl up and read on this rainy, dreary day which is really what I think a day like this is meant for.
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“Why is it so hard to pick my next read?” — “Why is it so hard to pick my next read?” — she says as she is surrounded by piles on piles of books on the floor and desk and packed on her bookshelf and book cart. (Partner @berkleypub - thanks for the review copy).⁣
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I managed to pick my next read, as chronicled in these photos, but it was not easy with so many options! 

Decided to go with a most anticipated book of 2022 for me from an author who has written books I’ve really enjoyed.
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I am about halfway through and cruising along because I NEED to figure out if Joseph is the worst or what really is going on here in this story that starts with 3 women being stood up by the same guy on Valentine’s Day.  I feel like there is something more to this one but I can’t quite put my finger on it yet! ⁣
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Hoping to finish it this weekend! What are you reading this weekend? And do you have trouble picking your next read? How do you choose amongst all the options?
Sunshine on my face and a mass market fitting perf Sunshine on my face and a mass market fitting perfectly in my hands.⁣…
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Truly felt like there were zero things more joyful than the warm sun on my face after colder, dreary days and remembering how much I love the feel of reading a mass market paperback. It’s probably a very specific little joy of mine and I definitely reveled in it today.⁣
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But the real big joy has been rereading this book and experiencing it all over again before @bridgertonnetflix season 2 — especially the Pall Mall scene. And something to do with a 🐝 😅 iykyk⁣
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With all the joy I’m getting out of this reread it makes me wonder why I don’t prioritize rereading like I used to before I started blogging 10 years ago.⁣
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In my head I just want to experience all the new stories and try to make a dent in my TBR but I forget, until I do it, the genuine pleasure in revisiting old companions and how it’s a different side of reading one can experience — the nostalgia, the person I’ve become since reading the book and the way I approach a book already knowing what happens. Well the general sense of what happens because my memory is 💩!⁣
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Anyways that’s what I’m up to currently. Trying to finish this up so I can pack my books for a short trip I’m going on later this week. My first ✈️ since 2019!⁣
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Whatcha reading? Do you reread often? And tell me a little teeny tiny joy from your day.
If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow m If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow mash up the “screaming, crying”  Blank Space clip with the “emotional damage” refrain to the Bastille’s Pompeii to let you know how I feel after the last few chapters of #TheGildedCage !!⁣
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And if you don’t understand what that means, I’m sorry 😅⁣
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But woo boy do I need the third installment of this series!!! But I also think I’m going to be even more emotional damaged after that one soooo.⁣ 
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Seriously, one of the best simple joys of my life is the feeling of being so wholly and totally invested in a series that you have to remind yourself it’s fiction lest you spend all day in bed crying about the devastated look a character had on their face — a face you didn’t even see with your own two eyes but you are so invested that you feel nauseous and gutted like you sure did.⁣
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Just me orrrrrr?⁣
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No but for real. If you love YA fantasy, go start #theprisonhealer so you can be caught up when The Blood Traitor comes out in June (and be my emotional support person for the duration of reading it). I love these characters and I dying to see what happens next. 

Have you read this series yet? Last book series that had you SCREAMING CRYING THROWING UP because of the EMOTIONAL DAMAGE it inflicted?
A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be bothered to make it pretty — mismatching fuzzy sucks, coffee almost gone and Christmas pajama pants that are super old.⁣
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But y’all Black Cake is so good!! I’m almost halfway through and I know it’s A Choice to declare it one of the best books I’ve read all year but I’m feeling bold based on how it’s going.⁣
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I love a good family story (especially one with a family secret!) and this is top notch. The writing is 👌🏻 and I know I’m going to be screaming when the pieces come together!⁣
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In other news, I’m 65% of the way through The Dry by Jane Harper and I’m enjoying it so much that I ended up staying on the treadmill twice this weekend after my allotted time was over just so I could keep listening.⁣
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Will and I FINALLY started Ted Lasso this weekend. It is a damn delight!! For all the hype and praise, it has overdelivered for me which is kind of shocking because normally hype is scary. I told Will that I feel like all the praise hasn’t even come close to how much I could love it. We are only 7 episodes in so no spoilers!⁣
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I’m kinda mad we sat on starting it for so long but at the same time I think the timing is right to help me see my way out of this February funk I have found myself in the past couple weeks.⁣
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Anyways, hope everyone is having a good weekend! Have you read Black Cake or The Dry? Where are my Ted Lasso fans at? I’m happy to join your ranks! Also please tell me your fave character bc I am finding it impossible to pick this far!
No but seriously every year I contemplate organizi No but seriously every year I contemplate organizing a search party for one Katjay Millay who wrote one beautiful and amazing book and then...vanished.

Like for real. She wrote a tweet in 2015 that she was taking a few weeks off and then.... no tweets, no new books. Radio silence.

I hope she’s okay, for real, and that she knows I obsessively stalk Goodreads/Twitter/the internet to make sure I haven’t missed new book news from her at least twice a year. 🥺

Is there any author who you’ve been waiting forever for a new release from??

I’d also like to add YA author Sarah Ockler to this list! Last release was 2015 😭😭
Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are becoming movies/tv shows soon! And one of them is out TODAY!⁣
⁣
The Sky is Everywhere — it’s out today on AppleTV+ and I can’t wait to sob my brains out. One of my absolute most favorite books ever by one of my all time favorite authors. It’s gorgeous and heartbreaking in its poignant depiction of grief, first love and healing — all woven together in Jandy’s signature gorgeous, lyrical writing.⁣
⁣
Along For The Ride (out April 22) — one of a handful upcoming @sdessen books being adapted in the near future and I can’t wait! These books are so near and dear to my heart.⁣
⁣
No release dates yet for The Summer I Turned Pretty tv series (the ultimate coming of age summertime story!) or The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight (the cutest meet cute of all meet cutes all set in 24 hours) but I am HYPED and have all my fingers crossed for 2022 🤞🤞

Have you read any of these? Anyone else hyped for these adaptations.

Also, for the past few years, I’ve kept a running list of books becoming movies/tv shows for the year. Head to my bio to check out the list! I try to update it weekly and keep on top of it all but life ya know 😆 but I try!
Is this a book club? I think we just started a boo Is this a book club? I think we just started a book club. Or maybe just a @jenniferesmith appreciation club?? (partner @randomhouse )⁣
⁣
Either way, after loving Jennifer E. Smith's YA books for years, it's been a real treat to also read her debut picture book with Riley (we loved!!) as well as her adult debut out in 3 weeks!⁣
⁣
⁣So let me tell you about that adult debut — The Unsinkable Great James!!

This one just was the perfect warm-hearted read for a cold and gloomy January.

A perfect setting to escape into (Alaska), a tender-hearted meet cute and a poignant look at the shared grieving experience of those left behind.

I was initially drawn, like I always am, to the daughter losing a mother storyline and an exploration of that grief but I was so taken by the father/daughter relationship between two people who were left untethered by losing the person who held their family together.

Greta and her father don't see eye-to-eye on basically anything when they are thrown together on this Alaskan cruise, a trip Greta's father and mother were supposed to take, and you can feel the tension of their long-standing tumultuous and fractured relationship -- a relationship that feels like its hanging in a balance and could not recover.

The two are both hurting so much from this loss  and it took my breath away at times in how true it rang to be in your own grief bubble and feeling like the loss is yours and yours alone while forgetting about the others shouldering their own piece of this loss. I loved watching them very slowly SEE one another.

I can't say enough good things about this one -- great setting, Greta's music, the meet-cute, the messy and imperfect nature of family and love. Definitely recommend!⁣

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