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Before & After #13 : How I Picked What Books I Read

September 18, 2013 - Updated May 7, 2019 // 30 Comments

So you guys. Since early 2012 I’ve been working on this post I wanted to do about the differences between myself as a reader before I was a blogger and after I became a blogger because my habits have changed SO MUCH. I kept putting it off because of wedding plans. I wanted to make this cute graphic that was a list but, when I finally started to work on it this year, it was just looking TOO crowded with about 30 different things and overwhelming and not AT ALL what I had in mind. Then I decided…why not make it a series? The more I thought about it — it would lend to a better discussion if I just give you one at a time. I’m kind of glad my original idea didn’t work out because I’m liking this better. Check the end of the post for previous Before & After’s.

I said I would bring this series back up when I felt like it after taking a break for a while so I’m dusting it off for a couple weeks.

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 I didn’t have many ways of getting recommendations. I mostly browsed those tables at Barnes and Noble and then would just go browsing through the shelves if I didn’t find anything worthy on the tables to buy. I would also browse the library a lot. I didn’t have A LOT of people who read so personal recommendations were limited. In 2008 I joined Goodreads and then that became where I found all my recommendations because I became active in the groups on there until I joined blogging in 2010. So basically I did lots of browsing to find books, both in stores, libraries and on Goodreads, so I relied a lot on the summaries and sometimes the covers.

YA-book-bloggerI pick up books now based on blogger recommendations and already knowing what’s out. I’m always aware of what is coming out each season so I guess I still do a lot of browsing but now it’s of publisher catalogs. On occasion I’ll still browse the library (mostly for adult fiction) but mostly I find my books because I’m so involved in this community. I like having a ton of options because sometimes I just had no idea what to pick up before blogging but I do miss that feeling of going in blind and not having heard about a book SO MUCH (I mean, because really, in blogging we hear about books MONTHS and YEARS before they are released so by the time they are in store I’ve already heard SO much about it).

 

 

Let’s Talk:

If you are a blogger — Has the way you picked up books changed before/after blogging? How did you used to find out about books?  If you aren’t a blogger — Before reading book blogs how did you find out about books?

Previous Before & After’s:

The Time In Between Two Books – 2/27
Being Up On New Releases — 3/6
Book Real Estate — 3/15
Re-reading — 3/20
Meeting Authors + Myths About Them — 3/27
The Number of Books Read Per Year — 4/5
Recommending Books — 4/10
Chunky Books —   4/17
Reactions To Books — 4/24
Having People To Talk Books With– 5/8
Knowledge of the Publishing Industry — 5/15
The Variety of Genres — 5/22

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  1. Mel@thedailyprophecy says

    September 18, 2013 at 7:44 am

    Before I was a blogger, I always used the library and – like you – the tables in bookstores. I don’t know anyone who reads, so I had to find things on my own. After I joined Goodreads, I found THE place for me. Goodreads is sacred <3 Every book I want to read comes from that website and I also try to pick book based on reviews I've read from trusted bloggers 🙂

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  2. Leah @ The Pretty Good Gatsby says

    September 18, 2013 at 8:22 am

    I’d say my way has changed in much the same way yours has. Prior to Goodreads (’07) & blogging (’11) I basically picked up whatever looked good or interesting. If I liked one book by an author I’d search for the rest of their stuff or simply see what covers looked good – I know judging by the cover is THE cardinal sin in the literary world, but it’s how I came across one of my all-time favorite books ever, so there! 🙂

    Once I discovered GR things became SO much easier, if not a bit overwhelming! Suddenly I had all these choices laid out before me and I could read what other people though, it was wonderful. Blogging came along, then publisher’s catalogs and publicists themselves.

    These days I tend to read my books & ARCs according to pub date – especially if the date is quickly approaching! hahaha I’m so lazy sometimes. I still love browsing bookstores and libraries though. 🙂 I’ll even browse GR and see if anything sticks out. I’m well aware of the current releases, but what about books that are a few years old? WHAT HAVE I MISSED? Every once in a while I like making room for an older title too.

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  3. Alexa Y. says

    September 18, 2013 at 9:16 am

    I usually pick up books based on blogger recommendations and recommendations from loved ones now! I do miss the days when I would just stroll on over to the bookstore or the library and find a book that interested me. Now, I usually check ratings and reviews before I even decide to pick something up! Hmmm. Thinking about this has me thinking I should challenge myself to do otherwise…

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  4. Jenna says

    September 18, 2013 at 10:45 am

    I was never a big browser. I haven’t been to a library in probably 10 years and I almost always know what I want when I enter a store. I used to get a lot of books recs on Livejournal, but that place is pretty much dead now. Then I turned to Goodreads and Amazon, but I tended to stick with the familiar. I’m much more likely to branch out to different genres and authors now that I’m blogging. I still use Goodreads the most, though, even more than other blogs. I’ll see a book on someone’s blog, go to GR to add it, then end up clicking links and add 10 more. It’s a good thing I’m not committing myself to buying all of those.

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  5. Quinn @ Quinn's Book Nook says

    September 18, 2013 at 11:19 am

    Well, I’ve been a children’s librarian for the last five years. Two of my main responsibilities were to order all the children’s materials, and provide readers’ advisory to kids and teens. The books I ended up reading were usually based on the professional reviews I read while ordering children’s materials. When I provide readers’ advisory (basically recommending books to patrons) I always start off by asking them to tell me some books they read recently that they liked (so I get an understanding of the types of books they like). That is another way I would find books to read.

    Now, as a blogger, I usually pick out books based on reviews from other bloggers, too.

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  6. Rachael @ Rachael Turns Pages says

    September 18, 2013 at 11:36 am

    Before I was a blogger I mostly just read books by authors I already new. I would find a new author when I finished the one authors books. Now I always have a list of books I want to read next whether I found the book on goodreads, my sister, or the blogger world.

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  7. Heather says

    September 18, 2013 at 12:06 pm

    Absolutely! Ever since I started blogging a short 9 months ago, I’ve heard about so many books and authors that I might never have read before blogging. I also feel like I have read more genres I never would have explored other wise. Before blogging…I read the same authors and such, rarely branching out.

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  8. Kaley @ Books Etc says

    September 18, 2013 at 12:08 pm

    I always had a way to hear about books before I was a blogger. When I was in high school I worked at my public library so I got to see all the new books that were coming in and could put in a reserve for them because I knew they were coming. I loved processing the new books! Then, once I was in university/college and just after I graduated, I worked at a bookstore. While there I knew all the new books and tons of the backlist. The 30% discount helped fill my bookshelves, too! Interacting with customers, hearing their recommendations and helping them find a book to read, was my favourite part of the job. Starting a blog was a way to sort of carry that on. Now I have an interesting mix of knowing what’s coming out way in advance because of looking at other blogs, Goodreads, paying attention to publishers, and so on. I have some going in blind moments but also have lots of knowledge. I like where I am in my knowing about books 🙂 Great post!

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  9. Rachel says

    September 18, 2013 at 12:58 pm

    I’m probably in the minority here, but I learn about and pick out books the same way I did before I was a blogger. Though I do hear about releases A LOT sooner than I did in the past, I very much prefer finding books on my own, whether it be online, at the store, or at the library. I don’t always need to be reading the latest release. I’m a mood reader, so I tend to search more for books that fit whatever I’m feeling and read those.

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  10. DeAnna @ Mommy's Reading Break says

    September 18, 2013 at 2:02 pm

    I absolutely agree with you. I probably didn’t read as much before because I didn’t have many friends that read, and it was so hard to find books that I’d like. Now with Facebook, Goodreads, Twitter, and blogging, it’s so much easier to find book recommendations. Almost too easy, since my TBR list seems to be growing at an exponential rate! lol

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  11. Ruby says

    September 18, 2013 at 5:34 pm

    I was lucky to have friends who loved reading more than I did, so I always asked them about book recommendations. I’d just tell them what I was in the mood for, either comedy, drama, romance or whatever, and they’d say “here, read this”. Then I went on my own and bought some vampire books and that’s how I got into reading paranormal. Now that I’m a book blogger I have a pretty chaotic way of choosing what books I read. Either I read books that are recommended by fellow bloggers with somewhat similar tastes to mine, or I read about them in some newsletter I get from various authors. Oh, and I’m also always checking out charity shops/flea markets for used books that “call to me”.
    I know what you mean about going in blind and getting the book that calls to you and I certainly wished I had the time to experiment like that again. It is a fun way of discovering books.

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  12. Angie says

    September 18, 2013 at 5:56 pm

    Before I was a active on the internet I lived at the library and just grabbed whatever sounded good/had a cover I liked. And then when I started getting active online, originally through the LionLamb Twilight community on Livejournal, I got all my recommendations from a couple of friends I met through that. Since becoming a blogger I just get my recommendations from Goodreads or other bloggers. Goodreads has both been the best and worst thing that happened to my tbr list.

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  13. Sarah K says

    September 18, 2013 at 7:03 pm

    Before I got really into book blogs and booktubers I mainly found books the same way you used to, by checking out the stacks at my local book stores and on Goodreads. Now that I’m much more active on the internet I find myself going directly for the books recommended by bloggers and not spending as much time browsing the stuff I haven’t heard of. It’s kind of a shame, but an easy way of weeding through stuff I probably won’t have time to read anyway.

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  14. Jess says

    September 18, 2013 at 8:42 pm

    Yes, blogging has changed how I approach books. Like you I would just wander the shelves and pick whatever had a nice cover or what sounded cool. Now I look at books and I already know what they are about or I’ll be like “I’ve seen good stuff about that” or “that’s gotten pretty good reviews” before I read. Sometimes I wish I could go back to being less informed, but mostly it helps me always get a book I like.

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  15. Rebecca @ The Library Canary says

    September 19, 2013 at 2:09 pm

    Before I was a blogger, I was like you, browsing the library, shelves at Barnes and Noble and also looking through the recommended pages on Amazon. Now that I started blogging, I use Goodreads and fellow bloggers! It’s amazing how the blogging community has helped me find books to read. I now know all about all the awesome books that are coming out and just pre-order everything! I also have a sister who loves to read so we are constantly giving each other book recs!

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  16. Jen @ Pop! Goes The Reader says

    September 19, 2013 at 2:51 pm

    I’ve always enjoyed this feature, Jamie, and I particularly liked this week’s topic! 😀 Like you, before I was a blogger and discovered the world of book blogs, I was largely left to my own devices when it came to deciding which books to read next. I knew of Goodreads, but wasn’t an active member until the launch of Pop! Goes The Reader. I would essentially spend hours wandering through bookstores and picking up a random assortment of novels I thought might interest me along the way.

    Now that I’m a blogger, my to-be-read list is dictated almost entirely by the blogging community and reviews I’ve read, and I think there’s both pros and cons to this shift in my book buying and book browsing habits. On the one hand, it’s nice to learn a little more about a novel beforehand in order to gauge whether or not it sounds like something I would enjoy. On the other hand, however, I do miss being excited about a new discovery and going in blind without any preconceptions about what a story might entail. I miss the mystery and element of surprise that I would sometimes experience when I discovered a book I had never heard of before or read one that was truly spectacular. Now, chances are that if I’ve purchased a book, I’ve likely already read five-ten reviews on it beforehand and have a good idea what it’s about. I must admit, it can take a little of the fun out of it.

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  17. Abria @ Read. Write. Discuss. says

    September 19, 2013 at 7:25 pm

    I find I’m more susceptible to peer pressure since becoming a blogger. I’m more likely to pick up books that “everybody” likes, even if I’m not completely sold on the synopsis, just because the book is popular. I’ve stopped doing that, but there was definitely a phase. I also over-acquired books after I started blogging, like this was some sort of rat race. Before I was a blogger I would borrow from the library and keep caught up on what I own. Now that’s almost impossible.

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    • Jamie says

      September 20, 2013 at 7:53 am

      YES peer pressure. There are definitely books I would have never picked up if it weren’t for the pressure. Sometimes that’s been AMAZING because I’ve loved it but other times I’m like SAD..I could have read a book I really wanted to read.

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  18. Kristie @ Lost in Ever After says

    September 20, 2013 at 1:31 am

    I remember when I was younger and I was picking books, I was doing a lot of it on gut. None of my friends at the time had the same interests in genres as me. So, I do have some books that I wished I didn’t get, but whatever. But now that I’m in blogging and got to know a lot of bloggers over the past 2 years before I started my blog. I can now see what other people have to say about a book before I decide on buying, borrowing or ignoring. The down side is that now what was a manageable TBR pile, is now unmanageable. Thanks guys. Love y’all too!

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    • Jamie says

      September 20, 2013 at 7:52 am

      TOTALLY unmanageable hahah. So many pros and cons. Totally WAS based on gut feeling back then as I browsed the tables and tried to decide.

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  19. Christina (A Reader of Fictions) says

    September 20, 2013 at 9:46 am

    I used to be SO picky about choosing books to read. Like, I would wander the aisles of the library for an hour and leave with a couple books I wasn’t sure about. Now I want to read EVERYTHING. ALL OF THE THINGS. I wasted so much good reading time in my pre-blogging days. Haha.

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  20. katy says

    September 20, 2013 at 10:32 pm

    At the library, if I don’t have certain books in mind, I just look around and pick what looks/sounds interesting. I do find a lot of books from bloggers and the internet in general, but I still go in blind sometimes. Sometimes I avoid reviews of certain books so I can go in blind. I haven’t been blogging that long, and I’m not as familiar with upcoming releases. The way I choose books has changed a bit, but not drastically, I think!

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  21. Chri @ Fathomless says

    September 21, 2013 at 8:38 am

    Before I was a blogger, most of my books came from the English book corner in my local (Japanese) bookstores. Most of them were YA PNR NYT Bestsellers, like Fallen, Hush, Hush, Twilight… And of course, there was Harry Potter and Game of Thrones, but that was about it. I used to re-read books really often. But after discovering Goodreads and book blogging, I’ve gone from owning a handful of paperbacks and re-reading constantly to hoarding books and eBooks and wishing I could read AAAAAALL THE BOOKS xD

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  22. Amanda says

    September 22, 2013 at 12:37 pm

    I think I was very similar before I started blogging. I used to read a lot more classics. Then I joined GoodReads and my to-read list blew up. Now I get a lot of recommendations from blogs and publisher emails. Also a lot of review books.

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  23. Hannah @ So Obsessed With says

    September 22, 2013 at 1:45 pm

    I feel like my Before & After for this topic would be really similar! I almost always just chose books at random. Based on a cover or summary I liked, from browsing around the bookstore, from another author’s blurb, randomly from a friend if they ever got around to reading anything… And now it’s the opposite! I feel like I’m inundated with recommendations and don’t know what to read next just for the sheer number of possibilities!

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  24. Karen says

    September 28, 2013 at 12:27 am

    I don’t even know how find the majority of my books, but I rarely get word of mouth recommendations…it just happens! I always go for sequels and any other books the author has written as well as books with buzz and books I see on my dashboard on Goodreads.

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  25. Michelle says

    September 30, 2013 at 3:50 pm

    Yeah I definitely don’t ‘go in blind’ as much as before. It’s a little strange. I worry that I miss out on hidden gems.

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Now - Deep in Providence (thank you @fiercereads ): I’m about halfway through after I carved out some time to read early this morning and I’m enjoying this story of grief, love and magic. I’m nervous about these girls trying to resurrect their dead friend though! When I put it down today I was getting a little creeped by some things happening.⁣
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Next - The Kiss of Deception: I’m rereading the first book in this YA fantasy series because it’s been forever and I really wanna finish the trilogy. I’ve been really wanting to go through series I’ve left unfinished for years (not for lack of interest but because I suck at juggling all the series I start) so this is one of them. I remember loving it so I’m excited to dive in and binge. 

Whatcha reading? Have you read any of these? Anyone else on the struggle train with reading at night right now?
Braved the downpour to get my library holds. I hop Braved the downpour to get my library holds. I hope they are worth it! Please tell me they are!⁣
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This is also, before I get to the stack,  an appreciation post for my tiny library and wonderful librarians.⁣
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They normally open at 9am during the week —except Fridays. Did I remember that? Nope. So I was I was SO proud of Riley and I for getting our butts in gear to be for around opening time to drop off a stack and get my new ones.⁣
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And alas, I go to open the door and it’s locked. Now I’m holding Riley’s hand, two tote bags full of books, an umbrella that I’m trying to keep over the both of us, mind you. I’m thoroughly confused until it hits me that it’s Friday.⁣
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So I’m like, welp, guess we are just dropping off in the bin so I try to grab my books out and put them in one-handed while juggling the umbrella and less than enthused Riley.⁣
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Mercifully the door opens and  our children’s librarian takes pity on us and lets us in to drop off and pick up the holds.⁣
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Is this what being a VIP as a celebrity feels like?? Sure feels like it to me 😆 for real though, it pays to be a regular and have a cute kid in tow who is being pelted with rain.⁣
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Anyways excited about this stack but especially Wahala, Daughter of the Moon Goddess and How High We Go In The Dark the most.⁣
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Also have been meaning to snag The World Gives Way after @jordys.book.club recommendation!⁣
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Have you read any of these? Any that you think were definitely worth the rain-soaked journey for??⁣
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Alright now I’m off to curl up and read on this rainy, dreary day which is really what I think a day like this is meant for.
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“Why is it so hard to pick my next read?” — “Why is it so hard to pick my next read?” — she says as she is surrounded by piles on piles of books on the floor and desk and packed on her bookshelf and book cart. (Partner @berkleypub - thanks for the review copy).⁣
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I managed to pick my next read, as chronicled in these photos, but it was not easy with so many options! 

Decided to go with a most anticipated book of 2022 for me from an author who has written books I’ve really enjoyed.
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I am about halfway through and cruising along because I NEED to figure out if Joseph is the worst or what really is going on here in this story that starts with 3 women being stood up by the same guy on Valentine’s Day.  I feel like there is something more to this one but I can’t quite put my finger on it yet! ⁣
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Hoping to finish it this weekend! What are you reading this weekend? And do you have trouble picking your next read? How do you choose amongst all the options?
Sunshine on my face and a mass market fitting perf Sunshine on my face and a mass market fitting perfectly in my hands.⁣…
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Truly felt like there were zero things more joyful than the warm sun on my face after colder, dreary days and remembering how much I love the feel of reading a mass market paperback. It’s probably a very specific little joy of mine and I definitely reveled in it today.⁣
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But the real big joy has been rereading this book and experiencing it all over again before @bridgertonnetflix season 2 — especially the Pall Mall scene. And something to do with a 🐝 😅 iykyk⁣
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With all the joy I’m getting out of this reread it makes me wonder why I don’t prioritize rereading like I used to before I started blogging 10 years ago.⁣
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In my head I just want to experience all the new stories and try to make a dent in my TBR but I forget, until I do it, the genuine pleasure in revisiting old companions and how it’s a different side of reading one can experience — the nostalgia, the person I’ve become since reading the book and the way I approach a book already knowing what happens. Well the general sense of what happens because my memory is 💩!⁣
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Anyways that’s what I’m up to currently. Trying to finish this up so I can pack my books for a short trip I’m going on later this week. My first ✈️ since 2019!⁣
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Whatcha reading? Do you reread often? And tell me a little teeny tiny joy from your day.
If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow m If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow mash up the “screaming, crying”  Blank Space clip with the “emotional damage” refrain to the Bastille’s Pompeii to let you know how I feel after the last few chapters of #TheGildedCage !!⁣
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And if you don’t understand what that means, I’m sorry 😅⁣
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But woo boy do I need the third installment of this series!!! But I also think I’m going to be even more emotional damaged after that one soooo.⁣ 
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Seriously, one of the best simple joys of my life is the feeling of being so wholly and totally invested in a series that you have to remind yourself it’s fiction lest you spend all day in bed crying about the devastated look a character had on their face — a face you didn’t even see with your own two eyes but you are so invested that you feel nauseous and gutted like you sure did.⁣
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Just me orrrrrr?⁣
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No but for real. If you love YA fantasy, go start #theprisonhealer so you can be caught up when The Blood Traitor comes out in June (and be my emotional support person for the duration of reading it). I love these characters and I dying to see what happens next. 

Have you read this series yet? Last book series that had you SCREAMING CRYING THROWING UP because of the EMOTIONAL DAMAGE it inflicted?
A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be bothered to make it pretty — mismatching fuzzy sucks, coffee almost gone and Christmas pajama pants that are super old.⁣
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But y’all Black Cake is so good!! I’m almost halfway through and I know it’s A Choice to declare it one of the best books I’ve read all year but I’m feeling bold based on how it’s going.⁣
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I love a good family story (especially one with a family secret!) and this is top notch. The writing is 👌🏻 and I know I’m going to be screaming when the pieces come together!⁣
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In other news, I’m 65% of the way through The Dry by Jane Harper and I’m enjoying it so much that I ended up staying on the treadmill twice this weekend after my allotted time was over just so I could keep listening.⁣
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Will and I FINALLY started Ted Lasso this weekend. It is a damn delight!! For all the hype and praise, it has overdelivered for me which is kind of shocking because normally hype is scary. I told Will that I feel like all the praise hasn’t even come close to how much I could love it. We are only 7 episodes in so no spoilers!⁣
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I’m kinda mad we sat on starting it for so long but at the same time I think the timing is right to help me see my way out of this February funk I have found myself in the past couple weeks.⁣
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Anyways, hope everyone is having a good weekend! Have you read Black Cake or The Dry? Where are my Ted Lasso fans at? I’m happy to join your ranks! Also please tell me your fave character bc I am finding it impossible to pick this far!
No but seriously every year I contemplate organizi No but seriously every year I contemplate organizing a search party for one Katjay Millay who wrote one beautiful and amazing book and then...vanished.

Like for real. She wrote a tweet in 2015 that she was taking a few weeks off and then.... no tweets, no new books. Radio silence.

I hope she’s okay, for real, and that she knows I obsessively stalk Goodreads/Twitter/the internet to make sure I haven’t missed new book news from her at least twice a year. 🥺

Is there any author who you’ve been waiting forever for a new release from??

I’d also like to add YA author Sarah Ockler to this list! Last release was 2015 😭😭
Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are becoming movies/tv shows soon! And one of them is out TODAY!⁣
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The Sky is Everywhere — it’s out today on AppleTV+ and I can’t wait to sob my brains out. One of my absolute most favorite books ever by one of my all time favorite authors. It’s gorgeous and heartbreaking in its poignant depiction of grief, first love and healing — all woven together in Jandy’s signature gorgeous, lyrical writing.⁣
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Along For The Ride (out April 22) — one of a handful upcoming @sdessen books being adapted in the near future and I can’t wait! These books are so near and dear to my heart.⁣
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No release dates yet for The Summer I Turned Pretty tv series (the ultimate coming of age summertime story!) or The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight (the cutest meet cute of all meet cutes all set in 24 hours) but I am HYPED and have all my fingers crossed for 2022 🤞🤞

Have you read any of these? Anyone else hyped for these adaptations.

Also, for the past few years, I’ve kept a running list of books becoming movies/tv shows for the year. Head to my bio to check out the list! I try to update it weekly and keep on top of it all but life ya know 😆 but I try!
Is this a book club? I think we just started a boo Is this a book club? I think we just started a book club. Or maybe just a @jenniferesmith appreciation club?? (partner @randomhouse )⁣
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Either way, after loving Jennifer E. Smith's YA books for years, it's been a real treat to also read her debut picture book with Riley (we loved!!) as well as her adult debut out in 3 weeks!⁣
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⁣So let me tell you about that adult debut — The Unsinkable Great James!!

This one just was the perfect warm-hearted read for a cold and gloomy January.

A perfect setting to escape into (Alaska), a tender-hearted meet cute and a poignant look at the shared grieving experience of those left behind.

I was initially drawn, like I always am, to the daughter losing a mother storyline and an exploration of that grief but I was so taken by the father/daughter relationship between two people who were left untethered by losing the person who held their family together.

Greta and her father don't see eye-to-eye on basically anything when they are thrown together on this Alaskan cruise, a trip Greta's father and mother were supposed to take, and you can feel the tension of their long-standing tumultuous and fractured relationship -- a relationship that feels like its hanging in a balance and could not recover.

The two are both hurting so much from this loss  and it took my breath away at times in how true it rang to be in your own grief bubble and feeling like the loss is yours and yours alone while forgetting about the others shouldering their own piece of this loss. I loved watching them very slowly SEE one another.

I can't say enough good things about this one -- great setting, Greta's music, the meet-cute, the messy and imperfect nature of family and love. Definitely recommend!⁣

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