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Book Talk: Just Visiting by Dahlia Adler

December 7, 2015 - Updated May 7, 2019 // 8 Comments

 

 

 

Want an “at a glance” look at what I thought? Check out my Review On A Post-It or my “Final Thought”

 

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Reagan and Victoria both cannot wait to graduate and leave their small town where Reagan won’t be ostracized because of a past relationship or have to deal with her parents and where Victoria won’t stand out for being Mexican and where she can pursue her dreams to do fashion design. They are in it together and started planning the post-high school life of their dreams by going on a series of college visits to choose together where they will end up. The college visits prove to be interesting. Reagan falls hard for a boy after keeping her heart pretty guarded over the past couple years but it seems like it could end in heartbreak and Victoria starts to really doubt if the path they are choosing is right for her future — something that could change the future of this friendship especially when faced with certain parts of their past they’ve kept from each other the whole time.

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I really enjoyed Dahlia’s debut Behind The Scenes but Just Visiting blew me away and is definitely one of my most favorite contemporary YA books I’ve read this year! It’s just such an authentic story about friendship and love and that confusing time when that next stage (post-high school) is staring you right in the face. So compelling and so compulsively readable! I really just want to follow the next few years of their lives if I’m honest!

4 things that made this book such a win for me:

1.Exploring the feeling of approaching that “next stage” of your life: I feel like not enough YA books really get into the nitty gritty of the post high school tornado that happens in junior and senior year. When that next stage of your life is right before you and it’s terrifying because there are all these endless possibilities it seems and you don’t want to make the “wrong” one. Through Reagan and Victoria we see how tumultuous this time can be. Who are you? Who do you want to be? What do you want your future to look like? It’s overwhelming and I loved how Dahlia portrayed that through these two most vividly and I almost felt like I was thrown back to 2003/2004  standing on this precipice myself feeling like I’ve been thrown out into the middle of the galaxy without a map. Is college the right choice? Which one? What major? If not college, then what? Stay close? Go far away? ALL THE POSSIBILITIES.

2. The college visit shenanigans: I love road trip books and I really did find the college visits super fun and wished that I did my college visits with friends and not my parents. My own college stay in a dorm was SO not eventful at all (the girl set up me up with movies and left me alone in her room) so I was living vicariously through all their fun mishaps and adventures.

3. The bffship: OMG I loved Reagan and Victoria and how their friendship changed and grew in this book to become even stronger and better friends even if they had to have some hard growing pains in their relationship. It was SO PAINFULLY realistic. I just kept thinking of my own experience feeling like the future was pulling myself and a friend apart and throwing us on different paths and destroying the future we envisioned always. I loved how they learned to balance their own needs and desires with their friendship and also learned that important lesson of how to cope when you both are changing and figuring out who you are.

4. THE SHIP IS THE MOST SHIPPABLE SHIP IN ALL OF SHIPTOWN: Seriously I have not had such flailing shippy feels in a while. Greaaaaat kissing and tension and swoony moments and sexy moments (Oh Dahlia can write the sexy) but also like depth and exploration of serious things that can come up in a relationship. I really liked how Dahlia explored sex in a REAL TALK way in this book.

 

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factors+ characters, writing, plot, romance
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Would you re-read or buy the book for your collection? As I was writing this post I reallyyyy wanted to reread it already so I’m a yes, I think. I definitely want to hand it to my 3 teen cousins and a niece who are in high school!! Think they would relate so hardcore.

a5contemporary YA lovers, fans of authors like Emery Lord/Morgan Matson/Sarah Dessen, readers who are wanting a book to explore college and post-high school decisions, people who are looking for a great ship to root for, fans of strong friendships, readers looking for sex positive books

a8I adore this book and wish I could follow these characters all through their post-high school lives. It was one of those books where I was just so HAPPY after reading it. Literally not one thing I would change about it — everything was so well done in this book and I loved some of the things that Dahlia explores in this novel without ever being heavy-handed! It was just one of those reads where you blink and suddenly you’ve devoured the whole thing.

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a8j* Have you read this one? What did you think? Similar or different from me? I would LOVE to hear regardless!
*If you haven’t read it, does it feel like something you’d be into?

 

 


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  1. Maryam Dinzly says

    December 7, 2015 at 4:02 am

    Oh, this seems like a book that I would relate to, especially the part about college. I agree with you when you said that most books don’t really have that nitty-gritty part of graduation. I think people should realize that that part of every teenager’s life is scary as hell, and that sometimes we just get lost in the midst of trying to go to the “right” college, or trying to just please our parents.

    So, yes, I’m gonna pick up this book real soon 😀

    Reply
    • Jamie says

      December 7, 2015 at 8:56 am

      YES exactly! And that’s definitely one of the themes in this book — making that decision for YOU and not for anybody else. It’s a scary time! SO MANY CHANGES. Everything at your possibility and it’s overwhelming. I feel like Dahlia portrayed it so well…even 10+ years later for me I could feel how real it was.

      Reply
  2. Michelle @ Pink Polka Dot Books says

    December 7, 2015 at 4:41 am

    I’m SO glad you loved this!!! Now I know I can read it… LOL. I was debating about it, but now that I’ve read how it’s about the whole “what do we do after HS” stuff, I am really pumped to get it! There are SO not enough books about college stuff. And I love road trips and BFFness. So YAY!!!

    Reply
    • Jamie says

      December 7, 2015 at 8:57 am

      YES it was nice to see characters go through the process and really try to work out what they can do and explore these options and start to realize they can truly CHOOSE what path they take. I really think you will enjoy it!

      Reply
  3. Amberley says

    December 7, 2015 at 8:43 am

    I saw a similar review raving about this book on Thoughts on Tomes vlog. I can’t wait to pick it up 😊 Thanks for the review!!!

    Reply
    • Jamie says

      December 7, 2015 at 8:58 am

      It’s so great and so underrated!!!! Hope you enjoy it too!

      Reply
  4. Lefty @ The Left-Handed Book Lover says

    December 7, 2015 at 12:10 pm

    Oh this is super exciting. I’d never heard of this book but now I NEEDS IT. I have been all about contemporary YA lately, so I definitely need to get my hands on this book. Thank you so much for the fabulous review. Adding this to my TBR immediately. I am all about shiptown and bffship. Also, I totally agree that not enough books cover the whole “I have to decide my entire future now” thing, and it’s really important.

    Reply
  5. Alexa S. says

    December 7, 2015 at 12:52 pm

    I really enjoyed Just Visiting, and for all of the reasons you’ve highlighted! The way Dahlia portrayed the uncertainty of what happens after high school was BRILLIANT, as was her portrayal of their friendship. So, so good, and I’m so glad you felt the same way!

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A book recommendation for all my historical fictio A book recommendation for all my historical fiction readers - The Briar Club by Kate Quinn. My holy grail historical author came through for me again. I can’t express how much I cared for and was pulled into the lives of these women living in a boardinghouse in DC during the McCarthy era just as much as I was racing to find out what happened in this house. The tension mounted as we got to what actually happened?? Masterful. Truly. #historicalfiction #bookrec #bookrecommendation #historicalfictionbooks @williammorrowbooks
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The Trouble With Anna — I enjoyed this delightful little historical romance about a heroine who is carving out her independence only to find out, when her grandfather dies, that he tied her inheritance/future to marrying her best friend’s brother — a not-so-happy surprise for both of them. I could understand why they both had some guardness/walls up and I enjoyed watching them slowly start to lower them.

Mayhem and the Mortal - I’m not too far into this romantic fantasy but it is one of my most anticipated that came out last month and I’m excited to dig in more.

Hamnet — I know, I know. For April I decided not to make a traditional TBR list of books I wanted to read but instead give myself some prompts to guide my reading (bc I’m overwhelmed with all my choices at hand) without feeling rigid. One of the prompts was to read a book I HAD TO BUY but is still unread. So going to finally get to it. Have you read this one or watched the movie?

What are you currently reading?
I had been waiting for the perfect time to read th I had been waiting for the perfect time to read this one after Random House sent me a finished copy as TJR is a longtime auto-buy author.  I found myself caught up in all the space joy and wonder and feeling quite parasocial about the Artemis crew...I decided now was the time.

I had no idea what I was getting into.

I hadn’t really known what it was about but I didn’t really need to given its TJR & the fact it was 1980s NASA & astronauts.

But this book was about love to me - romantic love, platonic love, familial love, love for something bigger than yourself, love for the person you are & are becoming, love in the face of obstacles, love for what lights you up.

Having been invested in real life astronauts & their journey lately really made this book even more vivid to me — seeing the bonds of the crew so deeply, feeling the fragility that exists while they are doing this wondrous & crazy thing that often still boggles my mind that we can do.

And, hardest to put into words, that feeling of awe in the expansive nature & capabilities of love & the universe that I felt when a husband named a crater after his late wife which doubly helped me understand how Joan & Vanessa felt looking back at earth.

It made me sob & feel everything about being a human so deeply basically from that Frances/Joan phone call at 86% of the way through until the final words. Like could not breathe.

*might be a tiny bit spoilery so beware:

I think the way she wrote this was so impactful bc we start out knowing something bad happens &it’s not even that far when we know that some of them def won’t make it back & some are alive in peril.

I was like “oof” when *it* happens early on. But each and every chapter where we learn more about these ppl & their relationships felt agonizing & I was retroactively grieving for them more deeply every turn of the page.

The hurt and grief just compounds from a moment that was sad from the jump to something that had dug in deep to me.

To know what happens right before this mission makes the mission control bits even more excruciating. Makes the peril a character is in hit even harder than just “oh that must be scary!”. 

I loved it. I needed it bad.
The theme of Q1 was “just go with it” — it being m The theme of Q1 was “just go with it” — it being my reading whims, quirks and troubles.

Interesting things:

1. January started out rough. I only read 1 physical book and leaned very heavy into audiobooks only. At first it was distressing that my brain -thanks to current events and their effect on my mind - couldn’t work out how to sit down and read with my eyeballs but I was like…let’s just roll with it and wait for it to pass. So I waited and enjoyed a ton of audiobooks.

2. I don’t think I’ve ever read so many thrillers and mysteries in a quarter. It’s a genre I love but I’m normally quite more balanced. However, it’s what I was craving and what my brain was tolerating so…I just went with it.

3. I have always been a reader led by my moods (both how I feel reading wise and personally). This quarter was FERAL. Like the most feral mood reading ever. I couldn’t even categorize it. I’d decide on one book enthusiastically and suddenly I was like…absolutely not that.

4. I read way less fantasy than normal which was WEIRD but I felt like I also wasn’t surprised given my brain space.

5. I really started to resent people even more who said “it’s a book account stop talking about politics etc”. Babe, I’m a human who gives a shit but ALSO this has and always been an account of MY reading life. And my reading life was profoundly affected by the things that were going on in this country. Like they have been before - whether it’s been current events or things like having a kid, being depressed, slumps, etc.

6. I return to the fact that, for me, I am happiest when I pay attention to my reading whims. The end of the month I had a very specific reading mood (wanted time travel element but not a heavy time travel book) and I decided to pick up A Rip Through Time at the end of the month and I’m now halfway through book 4. Having the best time ever!!! 

Anyways, tell me how your reading life was in Q1! Fave books? Biggest surprises??
New historical fiction books on my radar for April New historical fiction books on my radar for April and I feel like there is quite a bit of variety. Any of these on your TBR? #historicalfictionbooks #historicalfiction #newbookrelease #newbookreleases
Being someone who reads based on their ever shifti Being someone who reads based on their ever shifting reading moods (sometimes very feral) makes library holds and tbrs very hard. It’s the worst when 5 weeks ago I would have gobbled the library hold up but now when the hold comes in I’m like…I think not. #readersofinstagram #readerproblems #librarylife #librarybooks #moodreader

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