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My Blogging Manifesto

April 23, 2011 - Updated May 7, 2019 // 41 Comments

 This post is mostly for me — I need things in writing sometimes.

I’ve talked recently about my blogging slump and how I really want to refocus and keep blogging as what it is…a hobby. I’m the type of person who sometimes just needs to write a list or a mission statement to help myself redefine what my purpose is for blogging. Especially with recent drama and negativity, I especially wanted to sit down and lay out why I started blogging and create my personal blogging manifesto.

Why I Started Blogging: My friends don’t read and I don’t enjoy recommendations from newspapers, Oprah or any other sort of impersonal medium. I joined Goodreads and started the College Students group in 2008 to indulge in some bookish conversations and get recommendations from real readers. In June of 2010, after following several of my Goodread’s friends blogs (April from Good Books And Good Wine and Liz from Consumed By Books) I decided to start a blog with some people from the CS group (enter the Broke and the Bookish). I loved it so much that I started my own as well a few weeks later…in this space right hurrr! Basically, I blog because I love keeping a blog, I love finding new recommendations and chatting about books and topics related to books. I love the community and the void that it fills since I don’t have bookish friends IRL. I blog for me…I know, selfish right?



My Blogging Manifesto:

My blog will not define me. It is merely an extension of who I am.
I will do what I can, when I can and if I can — real life comes first.
I will always blog with integrity in a way that I can be proud of.
Passionate, honest and unique — the three cornerstones of this space.
I will not allow myself to become involved in drama or negativity as it accomplishes nothing.
When issues in blogging arise, I will weigh my opinions carefully and only participate in constructive discussions that will lead to understanding.
I will never allow blogging to become a burden. It’s a hobby that I enjoy.
I will step away for a little break the moment it becomes a chore.
I will never take shortcuts to grow my blog nor will I obsess over its growth.
I will be happy with my followers, stats and will not compare myself to others.
I will not be concerned with how other blogs operate, no matter how much I disagree with it, I will only worry about how I’m blogging and that I’m true to myself.
I will treat my readers kindly because they keep my spirits high.
Above all, I will blog because I love to read and share that love with others.

Do you have a blogging manifesto of sorts? What do you value when it comes to blogging? How do you help yourself refocus?

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  1. picky girl says

    April 23, 2011 at 5:16 pm

    this is fantastic. i wholeheartedly agree with your manifesto. you're right, though, that sometimes you need reminding. i don't have huge amounts of traffic. sometimes my reading/blogging/both is erratic. i blog on a very odd variety of books (i think). and i'm ok with every bit of that. i love talking to other readers, and i love that i can do it in a space i'm proud of.

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  2. IndieReader says

    April 23, 2011 at 5:20 pm

    I started with a manifesto, though I think it could stand revising. I read it from time to time, reminding myself why I started the whole thing. It's comforting.

    Here's a link if you want to take a look: http://indiereaderhouston.com/blog/the-indie-reader-manifesto

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  3. Jenn says

    April 23, 2011 at 5:47 pm

    I agree with you completely! My blog is still new and I have only a few followers, but I love them all so much because of how wonderful they are.

    I blog because I love it and I read so much, it helps me keep track of what I've read and what I thought about each book because I do get asked for recs quite often. But I can never think of things on the spot. I'd rather blog the way I want, with honestly and a little sarcasm and keep my loyal follows then compromise what I love to have hundreds of followers.

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  4. Jordyn says

    April 23, 2011 at 7:23 pm

    This is so good; now I feel the need to write my own blogging manifesto.

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  5. Ashley says

    April 23, 2011 at 8:28 pm

    What a great post Jamie! I love it! Go you!!

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  6. Rebecca Rasmussen says

    April 23, 2011 at 8:53 pm

    You know I love ya honey — and this manifesto is exactly why — you are so smart and unique and honest to write it! I love following you 🙂

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  7. Michelle says

    April 23, 2011 at 8:56 pm

    Go you! Sounds like you have a healthy attitude towards it. 🙂

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  8. Carla says

    April 23, 2011 at 9:05 pm

    you know it may be all those cocktails i drank today, or the fact that i hit my head pretty hard when i walked into the patio door but DAMN IT JAMIE this post made me cry because this, this right hurrrrr is why i love you and your blog oh so very much. peace out.

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  9. Annette says

    April 23, 2011 at 9:20 pm

    I love this. I agree with everything — this could be me. And, I think writing it down is an excellent idea — just as a reminder once in a while. Wonderful! Thanks!

    And, have fun reading and blogging!

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  10. The Sandtray Coach says

    April 23, 2011 at 9:24 pm

    I think this is terrific. As a new blogger writing to help people establish or maintain a writing practice and pass on what I know about the craft, I have a slightly different mission. But I love this manifesto about integrity and keeping it immediate and and not obssessing about stats, etc., is what keeps your blog fresh and compelling. A model for me. Many thanks.

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  11. Ginger @ GReads! says

    April 23, 2011 at 10:04 pm

    "I will never allow blogging to become a burden. It's a hobby that I enjoy." — I see this mentioned quite a few times through out blogs. About how they feel like they HAVE TO get a post up, or participate in a book tour. No you don't. And it makes me very sad. Didn't we all start our book blogs because we love to read? And isn't reading a hobby? Well, maybe not to everyone, but I'd like to think the majority of us feel that way. I hope I never lose sight of why I choose to do this. I understand things can become overwhelming & every one needs breaks now & then. But the second any of this begins to feel like a chore, it will come across that way to your readers as well. You have so much life & passion in your posts Jamie. Don't ever let that die out!

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  12. Sarah says

    April 23, 2011 at 11:30 pm

    Awesome. It should be something that all book bloggers keep in mind :o)

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  13. Pam says

    April 23, 2011 at 11:50 pm

    That is how I have always blogged and I have always been happy with Bookalicious and the growth is fantastic. I am in it for me baby.

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  14. lisa (the nerd) says

    April 24, 2011 at 12:01 am

    this. rocks. my. world. you put into words how i've been feeling for awhile now, and it's so refreshing to see your perspective.

    thank you for sharing your manifesto with us, and thank you for reminding us what blogging is all about!

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  15. April (BooksandWine) says

    April 24, 2011 at 12:31 am

    I love this post. I love your manifesto. Unfortunately, I get caught up in drama ALL the time, but I think that's my personality – penchant for reality tv and all. Also unfortunately obsessed with my stats.

    Anyways, I love the way you blog and your awesome taste in books and reading and hope this never does become a chore for you.

    You are awesome. Keep on keeping on.

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  16. Amie McCracken says

    April 24, 2011 at 7:45 am

    This is quite the insight into what kind of person you are. It's wonderful. Fantastic way to lay out the boundaries for your blog!

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  17. Midnyte Reader says

    April 24, 2011 at 3:51 pm

    This actually makes me feel better. Thanks!

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  18. Blueicegal ♥ says

    April 24, 2011 at 7:36 pm

    I love these points, I can't say that I follow them as well as I would like to or should, but I'm a little different that way. I go with the heart rather than thinking things though, but thats the great thing about meeting new bloggers. Where all different 🙂

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  19. Sidne,the BCR says

    April 25, 2011 at 2:48 pm

    love it, love it. and i feel just as you to. its a wonderful blog manifesto

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  20. Anna says

    April 26, 2011 at 2:02 am

    And dance. Don't forget to dance every now and then. Cures so so so many of my woes. 😉

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  21. booknympho says

    April 26, 2011 at 2:41 pm

    You've got a great manifesto! I'd say if I had to write one it would be almost identical. I started blogging for myself and it's mostly just an online journal so I can remember what I've read and look back over all the books I've loved. If other people read it and can share in my passion, then that's great too but it's not the main goal.

    That being said, I LOVE the book blogging community and even though I'm usually too busy reading to always comment or read the numerous amazing blogs out there, they are definitely feeding my book/reading addiction and I'm getting such great recommendations! 🙂

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  22. Miss Lauren says

    April 26, 2011 at 10:53 pm

    Jamie… I absolutely love this!! When I joined the college students group back in the day, it literally filled an empty space in me. I don't have any bookish friends in real life to chat with. And I'm so not counting the few that say, "Ohh I read a lot and I like all these books you're talking about…" and then they never read anything. I made so many friends in our group and it was amazing!

    So then I realized there was an entire blogosphere of book blogs!!! I had no idea!! So I started my lil one and I love it. I agree with your manifesto completely. In the back of my head I worry about not having many followers, but then I always remember… this is for fun and for me. And I will have more followers when I have content and more reviews that people want to read! Til then, I thank the followers I do have for sticking with me.

    My only downfall is that I wish I had more time to post. But isn't that every bloggers nightmare?

    Still lovin your stuff, Jamie!!

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  23. Jennifer says

    May 1, 2011 at 6:11 pm

    I haven't written an official blogging manifesto but this is a subject that I have written on a couple times on my blog. Mostly because I think that it is so easy to get swept up in all the drama and pressure of blogging. So many bloggers start out just wanting to talk about something that they enjoy and then as they get more readers, they start comparing themselves and then it just grows into this beast that can make you feel bad about yourself. Honestly, I'm new to your blog but I like it so far. I think that you keep it fresh and lively and you write what you want to write, which is really what it's all about. Great job!

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  24. tediousandbrief says

    May 3, 2011 at 5:32 pm

    No, I don't have one, but I think I may need to!

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  25. Cody @ The Boyish Booklover says

    April 19, 2012 at 8:18 pm

    I believe it is time I develop a manifesto for my own blog. I’ve had it for a few months now and I still feel almost lost with it. I think I will take a month or so to work out what I want to include in my blog, write up some of the posts and make sure I have everything looking the way I want it to BEFORE I get too heavily invested. Thank you for the words of inspiration here. 😉

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  26. Chrystal @ Snowdrop Dreams of Books says

    August 31, 2012 at 8:34 am

    WOW! Well said. I agree with your entire manifesto. It says what we should be able to say. Competitiveness is not becoming and maybe bloggers should remember that we all started this to share out thoughts and connect with others with like passions. 🙂

    Great post as always!

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  27. Isabel Gomez says

    March 19, 2013 at 6:13 am

    You just inspired me to write my own blogging manifesto!

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  28. Cora says

    May 6, 2013 at 5:03 pm

    Aw, this was an incredibly nice post. Taking a
    few minutes and actual effort to generate a superb article… but what can I
    say… I procrastinate a whole lot and don’t manage to get nearly anything done.

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  29. Ashley Mullins says

    September 20, 2013 at 7:53 pm

    Can i copy your manifesto? I am going to edit and tweek it to fit me a little bit. But i think your idea is fantastic.

    Ashley

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  30. Tizzy Potts says

    January 2, 2014 at 10:08 pm

    This is fantastic. I need to pin this somewhere and remind myself of the good advice!

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  31. Shannan says

    October 27, 2014 at 7:35 pm

    Great idea! I haven’t even been blogging for a month and already I feel pulled to go a different direction than where I started. I think I’m going to have to do this for myself.

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  32. Ali says

    March 21, 2016 at 12:57 am

    I just found your blog and it’s fantastic! I agree with everything you said above. I’ve been blogging since 2010 and honestly I’ve been feeling like my blog has become a burden, not what it was meant to be, which was a way to share something I love with others. I really want to get back to that! This is a great post. Thanks for sharing this.

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Is this what being a VIP as a celebrity feels like?? Sure feels like it to me 😆 for real though, it pays to be a regular and have a cute kid in tow who is being pelted with rain.⁣
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Anyways excited about this stack but especially Wahala, Daughter of the Moon Goddess and How High We Go In The Dark the most.⁣
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Also have been meaning to snag The World Gives Way after @jordys.book.club recommendation!⁣
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Have you read any of these? Any that you think were definitely worth the rain-soaked journey for??⁣
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Alright now I’m off to curl up and read on this rainy, dreary day which is really what I think a day like this is meant for.
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“Why is it so hard to pick my next read?” — “Why is it so hard to pick my next read?” — she says as she is surrounded by piles on piles of books on the floor and desk and packed on her bookshelf and book cart. (Partner @berkleypub - thanks for the review copy).⁣
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I managed to pick my next read, as chronicled in these photos, but it was not easy with so many options! 

Decided to go with a most anticipated book of 2022 for me from an author who has written books I’ve really enjoyed.
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I am about halfway through and cruising along because I NEED to figure out if Joseph is the worst or what really is going on here in this story that starts with 3 women being stood up by the same guy on Valentine’s Day.  I feel like there is something more to this one but I can’t quite put my finger on it yet! ⁣
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Hoping to finish it this weekend! What are you reading this weekend? And do you have trouble picking your next read? How do you choose amongst all the options?
Sunshine on my face and a mass market fitting perf Sunshine on my face and a mass market fitting perfectly in my hands.⁣…
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Truly felt like there were zero things more joyful than the warm sun on my face after colder, dreary days and remembering how much I love the feel of reading a mass market paperback. It’s probably a very specific little joy of mine and I definitely reveled in it today.⁣
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But the real big joy has been rereading this book and experiencing it all over again before @bridgertonnetflix season 2 — especially the Pall Mall scene. And something to do with a 🐝 😅 iykyk⁣
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With all the joy I’m getting out of this reread it makes me wonder why I don’t prioritize rereading like I used to before I started blogging 10 years ago.⁣
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In my head I just want to experience all the new stories and try to make a dent in my TBR but I forget, until I do it, the genuine pleasure in revisiting old companions and how it’s a different side of reading one can experience — the nostalgia, the person I’ve become since reading the book and the way I approach a book already knowing what happens. Well the general sense of what happens because my memory is 💩!⁣
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Anyways that’s what I’m up to currently. Trying to finish this up so I can pack my books for a short trip I’m going on later this week. My first ✈️ since 2019!⁣
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Whatcha reading? Do you reread often? And tell me a little teeny tiny joy from your day.
If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow m If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow mash up the “screaming, crying”  Blank Space clip with the “emotional damage” refrain to the Bastille’s Pompeii to let you know how I feel after the last few chapters of #TheGildedCage !!⁣
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And if you don’t understand what that means, I’m sorry 😅⁣
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But woo boy do I need the third installment of this series!!! But I also think I’m going to be even more emotional damaged after that one soooo.⁣ 
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Seriously, one of the best simple joys of my life is the feeling of being so wholly and totally invested in a series that you have to remind yourself it’s fiction lest you spend all day in bed crying about the devastated look a character had on their face — a face you didn’t even see with your own two eyes but you are so invested that you feel nauseous and gutted like you sure did.⁣
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Just me orrrrrr?⁣
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No but for real. If you love YA fantasy, go start #theprisonhealer so you can be caught up when The Blood Traitor comes out in June (and be my emotional support person for the duration of reading it). I love these characters and I dying to see what happens next. 

Have you read this series yet? Last book series that had you SCREAMING CRYING THROWING UP because of the EMOTIONAL DAMAGE it inflicted?
A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be bothered to make it pretty — mismatching fuzzy sucks, coffee almost gone and Christmas pajama pants that are super old.⁣
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But y’all Black Cake is so good!! I’m almost halfway through and I know it’s A Choice to declare it one of the best books I’ve read all year but I’m feeling bold based on how it’s going.⁣
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I love a good family story (especially one with a family secret!) and this is top notch. The writing is 👌🏻 and I know I’m going to be screaming when the pieces come together!⁣
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In other news, I’m 65% of the way through The Dry by Jane Harper and I’m enjoying it so much that I ended up staying on the treadmill twice this weekend after my allotted time was over just so I could keep listening.⁣
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Will and I FINALLY started Ted Lasso this weekend. It is a damn delight!! For all the hype and praise, it has overdelivered for me which is kind of shocking because normally hype is scary. I told Will that I feel like all the praise hasn’t even come close to how much I could love it. We are only 7 episodes in so no spoilers!⁣
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I’m kinda mad we sat on starting it for so long but at the same time I think the timing is right to help me see my way out of this February funk I have found myself in the past couple weeks.⁣
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Anyways, hope everyone is having a good weekend! Have you read Black Cake or The Dry? Where are my Ted Lasso fans at? I’m happy to join your ranks! Also please tell me your fave character bc I am finding it impossible to pick this far!
No but seriously every year I contemplate organizi No but seriously every year I contemplate organizing a search party for one Katjay Millay who wrote one beautiful and amazing book and then...vanished.

Like for real. She wrote a tweet in 2015 that she was taking a few weeks off and then.... no tweets, no new books. Radio silence.

I hope she’s okay, for real, and that she knows I obsessively stalk Goodreads/Twitter/the internet to make sure I haven’t missed new book news from her at least twice a year. 🥺

Is there any author who you’ve been waiting forever for a new release from??

I’d also like to add YA author Sarah Ockler to this list! Last release was 2015 😭😭
Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are becoming movies/tv shows soon! And one of them is out TODAY!⁣
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The Sky is Everywhere — it’s out today on AppleTV+ and I can’t wait to sob my brains out. One of my absolute most favorite books ever by one of my all time favorite authors. It’s gorgeous and heartbreaking in its poignant depiction of grief, first love and healing — all woven together in Jandy’s signature gorgeous, lyrical writing.⁣
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Along For The Ride (out April 22) — one of a handful upcoming @sdessen books being adapted in the near future and I can’t wait! These books are so near and dear to my heart.⁣
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No release dates yet for The Summer I Turned Pretty tv series (the ultimate coming of age summertime story!) or The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight (the cutest meet cute of all meet cutes all set in 24 hours) but I am HYPED and have all my fingers crossed for 2022 🤞🤞

Have you read any of these? Anyone else hyped for these adaptations.

Also, for the past few years, I’ve kept a running list of books becoming movies/tv shows for the year. Head to my bio to check out the list! I try to update it weekly and keep on top of it all but life ya know 😆 but I try!
Is this a book club? I think we just started a boo Is this a book club? I think we just started a book club. Or maybe just a @jenniferesmith appreciation club?? (partner @randomhouse )⁣
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Either way, after loving Jennifer E. Smith's YA books for years, it's been a real treat to also read her debut picture book with Riley (we loved!!) as well as her adult debut out in 3 weeks!⁣
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⁣So let me tell you about that adult debut — The Unsinkable Great James!!

This one just was the perfect warm-hearted read for a cold and gloomy January.

A perfect setting to escape into (Alaska), a tender-hearted meet cute and a poignant look at the shared grieving experience of those left behind.

I was initially drawn, like I always am, to the daughter losing a mother storyline and an exploration of that grief but I was so taken by the father/daughter relationship between two people who were left untethered by losing the person who held their family together.

Greta and her father don't see eye-to-eye on basically anything when they are thrown together on this Alaskan cruise, a trip Greta's father and mother were supposed to take, and you can feel the tension of their long-standing tumultuous and fractured relationship -- a relationship that feels like its hanging in a balance and could not recover.

The two are both hurting so much from this loss  and it took my breath away at times in how true it rang to be in your own grief bubble and feeling like the loss is yours and yours alone while forgetting about the others shouldering their own piece of this loss. I loved watching them very slowly SEE one another.

I can't say enough good things about this one -- great setting, Greta's music, the meet-cute, the messy and imperfect nature of family and love. Definitely recommend!⁣

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