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April 20, 2011 - Updated May 7, 2019 // 17 Comments

Three Cups of Tea: One Man's Mission to Promote Peace . . . One School at a TimeWith the whole Greg Mortenson debacle that has been buzzing on Twitter and everywhere else on the interwebs, I’ve found myself feeling wary of ever picking up Three Cups Of Tea despite how excited I was when I bought it last year (we’ll move on from the fact that I buy books and don’t read them until decades later).

This is something that happens to me often when I see similar controversies or authors behaving badly. I owned two James Frey books and I couldn’t bring myself to read them after he lied about his supposed “memoir” and the whole “Fiction Factory” thing. It doesn’t matter how badly I want to read it…when I see an author lying or acting like a straight up asshat it just makes something inside of me feel like I don’t want any part in that. I feel almost disrespected as a reader. I mean..if your memoir isn’t true, please don’t label it as a memoir. Fiction sells..clearly…so don’t trick me or manipulate me.

I know that a book like Three Cups of Tea still DOES have value to it and teaches some great lessons whether or not he fudged some details. But I don’t know, I just feel conflicted and think it would mar my perception of his work. I understand that authors are people and they make mistakes but there is something within my being that won’t let me get past REALLY bad behavior enough to read the book.

Even on a small scale, I’ve heard of authors being nasty to reviewers or saying something really offensive on Twitter/blogs. I’ve never experienced it personally but I see how a bad encounter with an author it might leave a bad taste in my mouth toward the book. I’ve never dealt with it so I don’t know. I can handle that an author might have a bad personality or have different beliefs than me. I think I can separate that from their work. Some of my favorite authors, musicians or actors are McDoucheys (and McBitches) but I can still appreciate their work and separate their less than stellar personality.


What about you guys? Does something like the Greg Mortenson controversy dissuade you from picking up a book by that author? If you’ve already read it, does it affect your feelings toward it? Have you ever had an encounter with an author (no names, please!) that made you think differently about them or their books? Can you separate the authors actions from their work? Or does it depend on WHAT the action is? Authors, how do you feel about this when you see your peers doing things like this? Do you think your actions affect readers? Let me know your thoughts!

And I’ll just have you know that my Naughty Naughty Authors is said in the same tone as the end of this.

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  1. joanie says

    April 20, 2011 at 4:09 am

    I haven't even heard of the controversy! I read that book ages ago and okay, obviously I believed what he was doing and applauded him for it, but it wasn't a very good book. His co-author wrote with too many frills and the prose got superfluous. He seemed nearly enraptured with his subject and I got tired of the neverending praise. It was an honourable message to send out but by the end of it all, I couldn't stand the book.

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  2. Jenny says

    April 20, 2011 at 4:16 am

    Yes, it dissuades me. I hadn't ever gotten to this book… I'd heard good and bad about it so I wasn't sure if I would get to it. But now I definitely don't want to. It would be a shame, of course, if it really were true and the allegations were false.

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  3. Jenn says

    April 20, 2011 at 4:16 am

    I read the book several years ago and I liked it. It's not the best book written by any means. But I do think that books of that nature, whether they are completely accurate or not, do inspire a lot of people to seek out more humanitarian pursuits.

    Sometimes, even though it's an awful expression, the ends do justify the means. But I completely get your point of "if the memoir isn't true, don't label it a memoir."

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  4. Utah Mom says

    April 20, 2011 at 4:17 am

    This book has been on my to-read list for awhile but I haven't actually bought it yet. 🙂 I laughed at your comment about buying books you don't read. I have a full shelves of to-ready books. It's a fun addiction.

    Anyway, I can pretty much separate the author from the work in fiction but I would have trouble with a book if I knew the author was less than honest and it's supposed to be a memoir. I would doubt everything about it.

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  5. Heather says

    April 20, 2011 at 4:40 am

    I very much enjoyed Three Cups of Tea and Stones Into Schools. I am disenchanted by Mortenson's behavior concerning CAI, but still very much believe in the work they're doing. I understand Mortenson felt like he had to give a sensational story to get people interested in what he is doing, but I'll bet people would have been interested regardless. At this point, I think the best thing CAI can do is ditch him and find someone else to head the organization. I think he really believes in his cause and I also think the popularity of it went to his head. Sad situation all around, especially if this dissuades people from ever donating to CIA again, even if they reconcile what has happened.

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  6. Tahleen says

    April 20, 2011 at 4:46 am

    I think we also need to remember that Jon Krakauer, author of fantastic books like Into the Wild and Under the Banner of Heaven is the one who blew the whistle. He's a journalist and so it makes sense, but I think just the title of his piece is a TAD dramatic. THREE CUPS OF DECEIT. I mean, come on. Here's a link: http://byliner.com/

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  7. Meredith says

    April 20, 2011 at 2:16 pm

    I haven't read Three Cups of Tea or Stones into Schools, but I'm familiar with them. I also read Jon Krakauer's story. While it's disappointing that Mortenson seems to have embellished his books and maybe even lied about the events that take place in the book, I can understand why he might do that, for the sake of the story. It doesn't make it right, but he's trying to sell books, so of course he wants them to be interesting.

    The bigger issue (for me, at least) is the financial mismanagement of his nonprofit. That's something that should be investigated further, because if he's used donations inappropriately, that could be getting into illegal territory, not to mention misleading all of those donors who wanted to help a worthy cause.

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  8. Man of la Book says

    April 20, 2011 at 2:17 pm

    I liked the book but I think it should be subtitled "How NOT to Start a Charity".

    I'm going to wait a bit before I pass judgment on Mr. Mortenson, even if he exaggerate­d, he still did a heck of a lot more than anyone I know.

    http://www.ManOfLaBook.com

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  9. wereadtoknow says

    April 20, 2011 at 3:05 pm

    What's perhaps most interesting is that Greg Mortenson recently came to my university to speak to a sold out house and when someone asked him about the controversy he said "…..". He basically ignored the question, which led me to question the validity of the controversy much more than if he had at least tried to address the topic. Maybe it's because I assume that all memoirs are at least in some way fictional (owed to, if nothing else, the fact that the human memory is so fallible) but this kind of thing doesn't really bother me. I'm confused – why not just label it fictin, as you were saying – but I'm not necessarily angry. I think it's sad, more than anything. But thats how I usually feel when people lie in order to…make themselves look better? Sell more books? Who knows. Either way, it reeks of desperation.

    PS: total bonus points for the use of McDouche, McBitch, and asshat. You had me literally laughing out loud at work, to some very awkward glances, hehe!

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  10. Jacinda (The Reading Housewives) says

    April 20, 2011 at 6:19 pm

    I've never read a book where the author acted "naughty." Maybe this is why stuff like Greg Mortsen and James Frey doesn't bother me as much.

    I can say this: If I ever read a book which I was emotionally invested in and come to find out is was all fake…I WOULD BE VERY, VERY PISSED OFF!

    Would I pick up a book by an author who behaves this way? Possibly. I read I Am Number Four and loved it! I think it depends on the situation. So technically I have read a book where the author was "naughty," but James Frey didn't technically write I Am Number Four…all the technicalities, haha. If it was a memoir and I found out it was chocked full of lies…No, I wouldn't read it.

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  11. Kaydee says

    April 20, 2011 at 10:00 pm

    Well I am pleased to see this blog post. I love a good hearty discussion.

    I have had Three Cups of Tea as a to read book for a long time. I'm not big on false advertising. If it's fiction then it should be labeled as such. That being said, given the controversy surrounding this book I have no intention of reading it. If he had been honest from the start I would have still read the book, but the principle of the matter is that by buying his book I would feel as if I were condoning his action. It is never okay to lie.

    I have unfortunately had a nasty encounter, as you called it, with an author. The encounter was unrelated to their book, but as the encounter has stayed with me (you always seem to remember the bad) it has left a bitter taste in my mouth. Their books could be fabulous, but the author wasn’t very nice and now I have no desire to read the authors books. It makes a part of me sad as I try not to judge a book by its cover, but there are plenty of other books out there to read.

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  12. Jordyn says

    April 21, 2011 at 2:17 am

    I'm sure it's a great book (I've heard some stellar things about it), but yeah, it does stop me from picking it up. I don't read much nonfiction as it is so what I do read as nonfiction… well, at they very least it should *actually be nonfiction.*

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  13. Cat the Librarian says

    April 21, 2011 at 3:56 am

    Things like that make me glad I live under a rock and refuse to follow current events – if you're going to write fiction, publish it as such!

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  14. Carla says

    April 21, 2011 at 6:44 pm

    I look at it like this……..if I feel a bit put off or a little unsure then why would I waste my time when I could be reading something else. Also, why in an industry where fiction is a genre that appeals to the majority would you class a book that *is* fiction as non-ficiton. Also, I think it's more than a little disrespectful to us as readers to try and decieve us into beleiving that a book is a memoir when it actually isn't. Thats a lie. i don't like liars, so i'm not going to read a book that isn't truth, expecially if it's marketed as that.

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  15. Avid Reader says

    April 21, 2011 at 7:43 pm

    I do have a hard time reading an author (like Frey) after something like this. I've already read this particular book, so I won't avoid it, but I will say that he doesn't come across as the best guy in the book either. He seems like a difficult person in gerneral.

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  16. Miss Ash Tuesday says

    May 13, 2011 at 10:10 pm

    I loved this book. Greg Mortenson became my HERO after I finished.

    I still love the book, whether it is all the way truth or not. Mortenson got pushed off my hero pedestal. I hope that the book, though, continues to inspire people to help… just in other ways besides donating to his business.

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  17. Suz says

    May 20, 2012 at 11:26 am

    I read this book long before e controversy came out but couldn’t stand the guy when I was finished. I think the work he did to try to educate the girls in afghanistan is noble, however…he built schools that were or will be destroyed or taken over by the Taliban. He did the hard work for them. Also, Mortenson got married, then left for extended periods of time to build schools and fundraise. When he was home, he was in the basement on an opposite schedule of his family. I don’t think he even knew the names of his own kids’ teachers.
    I won’t read any more books by him.

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“Why is it so hard to pick my next read?” — “Why is it so hard to pick my next read?” — she says as she is surrounded by piles on piles of books on the floor and desk and packed on her bookshelf and book cart. (Partner @berkleypub - thanks for the review copy).⁣
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I managed to pick my next read, as chronicled in these photos, but it was not easy with so many options! 

Decided to go with a most anticipated book of 2022 for me from an author who has written books I’ve really enjoyed.
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I am about halfway through and cruising along because I NEED to figure out if Joseph is the worst or what really is going on here in this story that starts with 3 women being stood up by the same guy on Valentine’s Day.  I feel like there is something more to this one but I can’t quite put my finger on it yet! ⁣
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Hoping to finish it this weekend! What are you reading this weekend? And do you have trouble picking your next read? How do you choose amongst all the options?
Sunshine on my face and a mass market fitting perf Sunshine on my face and a mass market fitting perfectly in my hands.⁣…
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Truly felt like there were zero things more joyful than the warm sun on my face after colder, dreary days and remembering how much I love the feel of reading a mass market paperback. It’s probably a very specific little joy of mine and I definitely reveled in it today.⁣
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But the real big joy has been rereading this book and experiencing it all over again before @bridgertonnetflix season 2 — especially the Pall Mall scene. And something to do with a 🐝 😅 iykyk⁣
⁣
With all the joy I’m getting out of this reread it makes me wonder why I don’t prioritize rereading like I used to before I started blogging 10 years ago.⁣
⁣
In my head I just want to experience all the new stories and try to make a dent in my TBR but I forget, until I do it, the genuine pleasure in revisiting old companions and how it’s a different side of reading one can experience — the nostalgia, the person I’ve become since reading the book and the way I approach a book already knowing what happens. Well the general sense of what happens because my memory is 💩!⁣
⁣
Anyways that’s what I’m up to currently. Trying to finish this up so I can pack my books for a short trip I’m going on later this week. My first ✈️ since 2019!⁣
⁣
Whatcha reading? Do you reread often? And tell me a little teeny tiny joy from your day.
If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow m If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow mash up the “screaming, crying”  Blank Space clip with the “emotional damage” refrain to the Bastille’s Pompeii to let you know how I feel after the last few chapters of #TheGildedCage !!⁣
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And if you don’t understand what that means, I’m sorry 😅⁣
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But woo boy do I need the third installment of this series!!! But I also think I’m going to be even more emotional damaged after that one soooo.⁣ 
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Seriously, one of the best simple joys of my life is the feeling of being so wholly and totally invested in a series that you have to remind yourself it’s fiction lest you spend all day in bed crying about the devastated look a character had on their face — a face you didn’t even see with your own two eyes but you are so invested that you feel nauseous and gutted like you sure did.⁣
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Just me orrrrrr?⁣
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No but for real. If you love YA fantasy, go start #theprisonhealer so you can be caught up when The Blood Traitor comes out in June (and be my emotional support person for the duration of reading it). I love these characters and I dying to see what happens next. 

Have you read this series yet? Last book series that had you SCREAMING CRYING THROWING UP because of the EMOTIONAL DAMAGE it inflicted?
A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be bothered to make it pretty — mismatching fuzzy sucks, coffee almost gone and Christmas pajama pants that are super old.⁣
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But y’all Black Cake is so good!! I’m almost halfway through and I know it’s A Choice to declare it one of the best books I’ve read all year but I’m feeling bold based on how it’s going.⁣
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I love a good family story (especially one with a family secret!) and this is top notch. The writing is 👌🏻 and I know I’m going to be screaming when the pieces come together!⁣
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In other news, I’m 65% of the way through The Dry by Jane Harper and I’m enjoying it so much that I ended up staying on the treadmill twice this weekend after my allotted time was over just so I could keep listening.⁣
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Will and I FINALLY started Ted Lasso this weekend. It is a damn delight!! For all the hype and praise, it has overdelivered for me which is kind of shocking because normally hype is scary. I told Will that I feel like all the praise hasn’t even come close to how much I could love it. We are only 7 episodes in so no spoilers!⁣
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I’m kinda mad we sat on starting it for so long but at the same time I think the timing is right to help me see my way out of this February funk I have found myself in the past couple weeks.⁣
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Anyways, hope everyone is having a good weekend! Have you read Black Cake or The Dry? Where are my Ted Lasso fans at? I’m happy to join your ranks! Also please tell me your fave character bc I am finding it impossible to pick this far!
No but seriously every year I contemplate organizi No but seriously every year I contemplate organizing a search party for one Katjay Millay who wrote one beautiful and amazing book and then...vanished.

Like for real. She wrote a tweet in 2015 that she was taking a few weeks off and then.... no tweets, no new books. Radio silence.

I hope she’s okay, for real, and that she knows I obsessively stalk Goodreads/Twitter/the internet to make sure I haven’t missed new book news from her at least twice a year. 🥺

Is there any author who you’ve been waiting forever for a new release from??

I’d also like to add YA author Sarah Ockler to this list! Last release was 2015 😭😭
Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are becoming movies/tv shows soon! And one of them is out TODAY!⁣
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The Sky is Everywhere — it’s out today on AppleTV+ and I can’t wait to sob my brains out. One of my absolute most favorite books ever by one of my all time favorite authors. It’s gorgeous and heartbreaking in its poignant depiction of grief, first love and healing — all woven together in Jandy’s signature gorgeous, lyrical writing.⁣
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Along For The Ride (out April 22) — one of a handful upcoming @sdessen books being adapted in the near future and I can’t wait! These books are so near and dear to my heart.⁣
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No release dates yet for The Summer I Turned Pretty tv series (the ultimate coming of age summertime story!) or The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight (the cutest meet cute of all meet cutes all set in 24 hours) but I am HYPED and have all my fingers crossed for 2022 🤞🤞

Have you read any of these? Anyone else hyped for these adaptations.

Also, for the past few years, I’ve kept a running list of books becoming movies/tv shows for the year. Head to my bio to check out the list! I try to update it weekly and keep on top of it all but life ya know 😆 but I try!
Is this a book club? I think we just started a boo Is this a book club? I think we just started a book club. Or maybe just a @jenniferesmith appreciation club?? (partner @randomhouse )⁣
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Either way, after loving Jennifer E. Smith's YA books for years, it's been a real treat to also read her debut picture book with Riley (we loved!!) as well as her adult debut out in 3 weeks!⁣
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⁣So let me tell you about that adult debut — The Unsinkable Great James!!

This one just was the perfect warm-hearted read for a cold and gloomy January.

A perfect setting to escape into (Alaska), a tender-hearted meet cute and a poignant look at the shared grieving experience of those left behind.

I was initially drawn, like I always am, to the daughter losing a mother storyline and an exploration of that grief but I was so taken by the father/daughter relationship between two people who were left untethered by losing the person who held their family together.

Greta and her father don't see eye-to-eye on basically anything when they are thrown together on this Alaskan cruise, a trip Greta's father and mother were supposed to take, and you can feel the tension of their long-standing tumultuous and fractured relationship -- a relationship that feels like its hanging in a balance and could not recover.

The two are both hurting so much from this loss  and it took my breath away at times in how true it rang to be in your own grief bubble and feeling like the loss is yours and yours alone while forgetting about the others shouldering their own piece of this loss. I loved watching them very slowly SEE one another.

I can't say enough good things about this one -- great setting, Greta's music, the meet-cute, the messy and imperfect nature of family and love. Definitely recommend!⁣

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