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Home | Uncategorized | Reconsider or Release? (3)

Reconsider or Release? (3)

November 8, 2012 - Updated May 7, 2019 // 17 Comments

In my attempt to remedy my struggle to put down books I’m not really into at all, I started Reconsider or Release to help me learn to put down books or decide it was a case of bad timing. I sporadically lay out my DNF books on the metaphorical table for my readers and let you help me decide if I should just MOVE ON and release the books or maybe reconsider them. So, vote either reconsider or release and maybe provide some compelling reasons for why I should reconsider or release OR at least just tell me what your general thoughts on the book were that might help me in my decision!

 

Unspoken by Sarah Rees Brennan

  Why I Picked It Up: I’d heard amazing things about it and honestly the cover was so pretty! haha. It seemed easily like a story I’d get lost in.

 Why I Put It Down: Initially I only put it down because I had a book to read for a blog tour so it was honestly supposed to be temporary but then I just never picked it back up. I wasn’t super in love with it and I was around page 100ish. It’s been almost a month and I haven’t been compelled to pick it back up.

The Stone Girl by Alyssa B. Sheinmel

Why I Picked It Up: I really quite like issue-y type books. I’m always wanting to find the ones that tackle these issues well so that I can recommend them. I hadn’t read an eating disorder book in a while (not since Wasted by Myra Hornbacher) so I thought this would be a good one.

Why I Put It Down: Bored, bored, bored. Also, the MC was really irritating. That’s not always a dealbreaker for me but in this case I just didn’t care about her at all and was bored.

So let me know if you’ve read either of these and let me know if I should absolutely pick it back up or if you think I’m ok by just letting it remain in the DNF pile!

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  1. Charleen says

    November 8, 2012 at 12:16 am

    This is also something I’ve struggled with, although I’ve gotten a lot better about letting myself not finish a book if I’m not into it. I used to HAVE to finish, even if I hated it. Led to more 1-star books than I’d prefer to have read.

    I haven’t read either of these books, but based on your descriptions, I’d say definitely let the second one go. You wanted a great book that tackled the issue well, and this one doesn’t sound like it fits the bill.

    I don’t have any strong thoughts on the first book, although I might lean toward giving it another chance. I’ve read many books that I wasn’t necessarily itching to get back to when I set it down, but still really enjoyed overall. That, combined with the fact that it wasn’t an intentional DNF.

    Reply
  2. Joli @ Actin' Up with Books says

    November 8, 2012 at 12:55 am

    I’ve read a lot of mixed reviews about The Stone Girl – many people had the same impression that you did. I read it, and while I can’t say that it was an enjoyable read, it was something that I connected with and wanted to finish. It’s not a book that will blow you away, but it is one that when it read at the right time for the right reader, it can speak volumes. Then again I would say that about any book. If you didn’t like it, trust your gut and release it.

    Reply
  3. Brittany @ The Book Addict's Guide says

    November 8, 2012 at 9:59 am

    I actually read The Stone Girl for a blog tour, and I totally agree. The beginning was really irritating to me and it was so dull. I felt like I was just reading words on a page and there was no emotion behind anything that was happening. I do have to say though that after finishing it, the ending was much better. I was finally starting to make connections with characters and their actions finally took me places! Real events, an actual conflict or two, and a real romance. The end definitely redeems the rest of the book (or it did for me) so while I can’t say whether it’s worth it to you to finish or not, I do think the better really pulls the whole story together and wraps things up nicely.

    Reply
  4. Emma @ Hopeful Happiness says

    November 8, 2012 at 10:23 am

    If you really aren’t that interested in reading either of them, then RELEASE them both. Life is too short to struggle through books you really don’t like.

    Reply
    • coranne says

      November 8, 2012 at 10:40 am

      I agree 100%

      Reply
  5. Kaitlin Michelle says

    November 8, 2012 at 10:33 am

    I’m glad you did this because I had Stone Girl on my TBR pile, and I am going to remove it because of your impression and all of the comments.

    Reply
  6. Bonnie says

    November 8, 2012 at 10:56 am

    I also quit Unspoken early because it simply wasn’t grabbing me. I didn’t make it to 100 but I have a difficult time continuing on with a book I’m only feeling ‘meh’ about after 100 pages. There are far better books in the world to spend time on. 🙂

    Reply
  7. Lectus says

    November 8, 2012 at 11:30 am

    OMG! The Stone Girl is soooo boring. Nothing ever happens in this book. this girl has no personality or intend whatsoever. I finished it, yes, but skipped pages like I was being chased!

    Reply
  8. Heidi @ YA Bibliophile says

    November 8, 2012 at 11:57 am

    You know I loved Unspoken but it was totally full of my kind of humor. If you don’t love them pick something else up!

    Reply
  9. GillyB says

    November 8, 2012 at 12:40 pm

    I have not read The Stone Girl, but I have read Unspoken and I have to say I really loved it. Like Heidi, it catered to my exact taste in humor. I agree the beginning is not so grabbing, but I definitely think it’s worth a reconsider.

    Reply
  10. Pam says

    November 8, 2012 at 6:28 pm

    You have to pick UNSPOKEN back up, James. THE ENDING.

    Reply
  11. Chrystal @ Snowdrop Dreams of Books says

    November 8, 2012 at 6:49 pm

    Okay I haven’t read either so I can’t really give input on them, but I did want to say I love the idea of this feature. You always have such creative ideas! Good on ya! I hope this new feature helps you out. I hate DNFing books, but sometimes you just have to do it.

    Reply
  12. Racquel says

    November 8, 2012 at 8:24 pm

    I have a habit of reading the first chapter of books so sometimes I’m reading a certain book then I go and “tease” myself by reading the first chapter of another book which makes me drop whatever I was reading and continuing onto chapter 2 all the way until the end. That’s my most DNF books- I got distracted and it didn’t hold my attention well.

    I know people say life is too short so just don’t pick up books that you’ve put down and don’t feel motivated to pick up BUT I’ve happened to put a book down TWICE but I guess third time is the charm because I picked it up again and it ended up being one of my favorite books of the year.

    I’ve heard A LOT of good things about Unspoken so I hope that motivates you to give it a second chance, and that you hopefully love it! 😀

    Reply
  13. Hana says

    November 9, 2012 at 1:15 pm

    I loved “Unspoken” because I thought the main character was really funny and unusual, and that she and her guy were so amusing when they were talking to each other in their heads. I remember I was annoyed with the guy at the end and dying to see how the conflict would be resolved in the next book when I finished reading. I don’t remember what was happening at page 100 but things got more interesting when the love interests actually meet and become friends. I think its worth finishing!

    Reply
  14. Princess Ash @ Paranormal Indulgence says

    November 12, 2012 at 7:55 am

    Unspoken is fab if you appreciate the humor, the read-between-the-lines moments, which are mostly specific to the relationship between Jared and Kami, and if you’re in for some longtime heartbreaking. Because the ending does your heart a bloody massacre and I feel like that’s only the BEGINNING of what Brennan is ready to put in our way. I’m almost frightened of the next book. Which is cray but true.

    Reply
  15. Shirley says

    November 17, 2012 at 9:34 pm

    I used to read to the finish, regardless of how boring the book. Lately, though, my philosophy has changed to: “life is too short to read boring books.” There are so many wonderfully written, engaging books to be read that I can’t waste my time on books that don’t fit that criteria. Even if it’s for a tour. Sorry, but my TBR pile indicates the awesomeness just waiting for me to discover! Go ahead, put down the boring and mundane and keep reading fun!

    Reply
  16. Karen says

    March 18, 2013 at 2:49 pm

    I saw Unspoken in the shelves of the bookstore I work at and decided I wanted to read it so I’m sad to hear you were able to put it down that easily! I’m still going to try it out since you didn’t say that you hated it or that the main character was annoying.
    We shall see how it goes. Perhaps I’ll even review it on my blog!

    Reply

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Ok technically I’m lying. My last read was technic Ok technically I’m lying. My last read was technically ATMOSPHERE but I feel like between my stories and my dedicated post to it, I’d rather talk about the book I read before it but didn’t update y’all on.

The Trouble With Anna — I enjoyed this delightful little historical romance about a heroine who is carving out her independence only to find out, when her grandfather dies, that he tied her inheritance/future to marrying her best friend’s brother — a not-so-happy surprise for both of them. I could understand why they both had some guardness/walls up and I enjoyed watching them slowly start to lower them.

Mayhem and the Mortal - I’m not too far into this romantic fantasy but it is one of my most anticipated that came out last month and I’m excited to dig in more.

Hamnet — I know, I know. For April I decided not to make a traditional TBR list of books I wanted to read but instead give myself some prompts to guide my reading (bc I’m overwhelmed with all my choices at hand) without feeling rigid. One of the prompts was to read a book I HAD TO BUY but is still unread. So going to finally get to it. Have you read this one or watched the movie?

What are you currently reading?
I had been waiting for the perfect time to read th I had been waiting for the perfect time to read this one after Random House sent me a finished copy as TJR is a longtime auto-buy author.  I found myself caught up in all the space joy and wonder and feeling quite parasocial about the Artemis crew...I decided now was the time.

I had no idea what I was getting into.

I hadn’t really known what it was about but I didn’t really need to given its TJR & the fact it was 1980s NASA & astronauts.

But this book was about love to me - romantic love, platonic love, familial love, love for something bigger than yourself, love for the person you are & are becoming, love in the face of obstacles, love for what lights you up.

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And, hardest to put into words, that feeling of awe in the expansive nature & capabilities of love & the universe that I felt when a husband named a crater after his late wife which doubly helped me understand how Joan & Vanessa felt looking back at earth.

It made me sob & feel everything about being a human so deeply basically from that Frances/Joan phone call at 86% of the way through until the final words. Like could not breathe.

*might be a tiny bit spoilery so beware:

I think the way she wrote this was so impactful bc we start out knowing something bad happens &it’s not even that far when we know that some of them def won’t make it back & some are alive in peril.

I was like “oof” when *it* happens early on. But each and every chapter where we learn more about these ppl & their relationships felt agonizing & I was retroactively grieving for them more deeply every turn of the page.

The hurt and grief just compounds from a moment that was sad from the jump to something that had dug in deep to me.

To know what happens right before this mission makes the mission control bits even more excruciating. Makes the peril a character is in hit even harder than just “oh that must be scary!”. 

I loved it. I needed it bad.
The theme of Q1 was “just go with it” — it being m The theme of Q1 was “just go with it” — it being my reading whims, quirks and troubles.

Interesting things:

1. January started out rough. I only read 1 physical book and leaned very heavy into audiobooks only. At first it was distressing that my brain -thanks to current events and their effect on my mind - couldn’t work out how to sit down and read with my eyeballs but I was like…let’s just roll with it and wait for it to pass. So I waited and enjoyed a ton of audiobooks.

2. I don’t think I’ve ever read so many thrillers and mysteries in a quarter. It’s a genre I love but I’m normally quite more balanced. However, it’s what I was craving and what my brain was tolerating so…I just went with it.

3. I have always been a reader led by my moods (both how I feel reading wise and personally). This quarter was FERAL. Like the most feral mood reading ever. I couldn’t even categorize it. I’d decide on one book enthusiastically and suddenly I was like…absolutely not that.

4. I read way less fantasy than normal which was WEIRD but I felt like I also wasn’t surprised given my brain space.

5. I really started to resent people even more who said “it’s a book account stop talking about politics etc”. Babe, I’m a human who gives a shit but ALSO this has and always been an account of MY reading life. And my reading life was profoundly affected by the things that were going on in this country. Like they have been before - whether it’s been current events or things like having a kid, being depressed, slumps, etc.

6. I return to the fact that, for me, I am happiest when I pay attention to my reading whims. The end of the month I had a very specific reading mood (wanted time travel element but not a heavy time travel book) and I decided to pick up A Rip Through Time at the end of the month and I’m now halfway through book 4. Having the best time ever!!! 

Anyways, tell me how your reading life was in Q1! Fave books? Biggest surprises??
New historical fiction books on my radar for April New historical fiction books on my radar for April and I feel like there is quite a bit of variety. Any of these on your TBR? #historicalfictionbooks #historicalfiction #newbookrelease #newbookreleases
Being someone who reads based on their ever shifti Being someone who reads based on their ever shifting reading moods (sometimes very feral) makes library holds and tbrs very hard. It’s the worst when 5 weeks ago I would have gobbled the library hold up but now when the hold comes in I’m like…I think not. #readersofinstagram #readerproblems #librarylife #librarybooks #moodreader

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