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Home | discussion | True Life: I Think I’m A Creep

True Life: I Think I’m A Creep

July 9, 2014 - Updated May 7, 2019 // 86 Comments

I have a confession. Not a blogging confession like I did yesterday. But a shameful personal confession.

My love for books has made me a big ol’ creep. Creep status to the max. And it got even worse this past weekend.

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Let me set the scene for you:

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I was at the pool this past Sunday. Sunning my pasty self and reading after a really stressful week. I always have this THING where I HAVE TO see what other people are reading if they are reading in public. If there is a book, I will crane my neck or James Bond it to see what it is. I don’t even try to be discrete about it. It’s embarrassing for whoever is with me I’m sure.

 

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Sometimes I can easily tell based on the cover and sometimes I’m seeing a book I’ve never heard of and typing it into Goodreads that very moment. Well, I had already taken a gander at all the books around me (new David Sedaris, a romance novel, some book I never heard of) but there were two that alluded me! I even tried to take a picture to zoom in (WOAH MEGA CREEP YEAH) to see what it was but it was too blurry.

So what did I do?

What any crazy book person hopefully would do? (I say hopefully so I’m not alone in this).

I sent Will on a secret mission to walk past and secure the names of these books! And he did. I was trying so hard not to giggle as Will got out of the pool all nonchalantly and walked around (awkwardly with no destination) to check out their books. This couple was packin’ a Game of Thrones book and the new Khaled Hosseini, in case you were as curious as I was.

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WHAT A CREEP AM I???

I can’t help it though. Any time I am at the beach or on public transportation or a coffee shop or my pool…I cannot walk away without knowing what people are reading. It’s a compulsion really. I don’t even know WHY I need to know…I just DO. I’m sure it’s made people uncomfortable if they catch me staring but, hey, maybe just angle your book better? Help a sista out!

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And don’t even GET me started on the e-reader business. I NO SEE YOUR BOOK! Be more courteous, bookworm friend. Unless of course you are reading dino erotica (I wish that was not a thing that I could type and it be true) than carry on. I don’t need to know! Otherwise, I’m going to to resort to creepier methods.

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I don’t know if this is borderline creepy or if it’s just a bookworm quirk? I’ve told Will NOT to answer that. I mean, we all knew I’m kind of creepy when it comes to books because I REALLY like trying to chat up strangers in the bookstore and other places (not annoyingly or interrupting most of the time) so maybe I just AM a creep?

So give it to me straight….is this normal bookworm behavior or am I just a creep? YOU CAN TELL ME. Do you have any other bookworm tendencies that could label you a creep? Any of you talk to strangers in bookstores like I do??

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  1. Kari says

    July 9, 2014 at 12:20 am

    This cracks me up, because I find myself doing the same thing (although I’ve yet to send the husband on a mission like you did yours)! On vacation a couple months ago, and I noticed another woman reading, but she had the cover angled perfectly away from me (and facing nearby bushes) and was pretty engrossed. I think I stayed in the pool an extra 10 minutes JUST to see what she was reading (Insurgent).

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    • Jamie says

      July 9, 2014 at 6:21 am

      HAHAH I love it!! I would so stay somewhere some extra minutes for sure just to find out what it was! On my honeymoon I was creepin’ like nobody’s business because LOTS of people were reading at our resort. Lots of Divergent and 50 Shades of Grey. It was great. BOOKS EVERYWHERE. It even got to the point where Will was like oh you don’t need to look at that one she’s reading the 50 shades book!

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  2. Laura says

    July 9, 2014 at 1:13 am

    I absolutely understand your need to see what other people are reading. Although, I have never taken a picture and zoomed in to see what they’re reading (noting this for future reference).
    I love the excitement of realising someone is reading something I’ve read before, even if I’m too shy to ever say anything, I always imagine the conversation I would have with people that are reading a book I’ve read, or a book on my ‘to-read’ list.

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    • Jamie says

      July 9, 2014 at 6:23 am

      It’s a good strategy! Albeit kind of creepy. I made sure to delete it ASAP lol. And omg YES when I realize it’s something i’ve read I just want to go fangirl in their face! I haven’t done it yet at my pool because I’m not seeing many YA readers but in the bookstore? OH YEAH.

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  3. Olgia says

    July 9, 2014 at 1:13 am

    Ha ha ha I do the same thing! More so lately than ever before I find myself walking out of class, seeing someone sitting on a couch reading a book. Next I make it a point to “casually” walk by and check out whatever they’re reading. And sometimes I see a YA novel and I want to jump up and down but then I remember that I’m on campus with all of the serious people and then I keep walking. So no, you’re not alone in the creepiness. It’s a internet person thing, I think.

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    • Jamie says

      July 9, 2014 at 6:25 am

      Creepers unite! 😛

      I used to creep on people’s book all the TIME in college — even though I was in a weird stage where I wasn’t reading much for pleasure then.

      It’s the absolutely best when I see grownups reading YA. I feel like I need to have a secret handshake or head nod with them so we can acknowledge that YA reading adults kick ass.

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  4. Becky @ A Fool's Ingenuity says

    July 9, 2014 at 2:22 am

    I actually get this. There is something about looking at what other people are reading which is intriguing. I hate when people are reading ebooks because you will never know what they are reading (which is also why I like my ereader because sometimes I might be reading a trashy romance and the covers on those things are always a bit cringey). I admit I don’t go to your extremes, but I definitely take a sneaky peak at books when I’m out and about.

    Also, the photo thing completely reminded me of the below tumblr, so you are not alone in wanting to know what folks read, this person takes photos of people reading to find out what they’re reading.
    http://undergroundnewyorkpubliclibrary.com/

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    • Jamie says

      July 9, 2014 at 6:26 am

      Hahah yes! I tend to pick up my ereader especially for books with questionable or embarrassing covers!!
      And thank you for sharing that Tumblr…omg!!

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  5. Kevin @ Tomebound says

    July 9, 2014 at 4:14 am

    I love this! I am so like you! When I see someone reading a book, I just have this itch to see what the book he/she was reading. I’ll resort to anything except to ask the person face-to-face. Hahaha… I guess it’s a bookish quirk! I don’t see it as a creepy thing at all. Hehehehe….

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    • Jamie says

      July 9, 2014 at 6:27 am

      I’m glad you vote NOT CREEPY. I don’t know WHY I have the compulsion to find out but I DO. I don’t think I’ve ever asked what they were reading….doubt I ever would. Even I have lines I wouldn’t cross! Sending my husband on a mission to find out? SURE. “Hey I’ve been trying to see what you are reading. What is it?” NO NO NO I can’t!

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  6. Gill says

    July 9, 2014 at 4:49 am

    I have an uncontrollable urge to tell people what I think of the book they’re reading. I have to stop myself nudging people saying “I loved that book” or “It’s a good one”. This is social suicide if on the tube or bus where people DO NOT speak to strangers. But I wouldn’t mind it if people did it to me.

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    • Jamie says

      July 9, 2014 at 6:28 am

      YES ME TOO. LIke if I see them reading a book I loved I just want to be like (and do sometimes) OMG I LOVED THAT BOOK. AHHHH. I’ve had some okay experiences doing that! I try to keep it short so as not to take time away from their book haha

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  7. Melanie (YA Midnight Reads) says

    July 9, 2014 at 5:31 am

    HAH! Those gifs had me cracking up. I can totally relate though, I have to take public transport to school and so I am always peering at other people’s books just to see what title they’re reading. I don’t think I’m as extreme though lol, I tend to give up if the person is too far away to see the title of the book. As for people with e-readers and they’re sitting next to me, I’ll scan the page for a name and I spend the rest of the trip trying to work out which book it could possibly be from. 😀

    Awesome post! <33

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    • Jamie says

      July 9, 2014 at 6:29 am

      OMG I have so done that when someone has been next to be on the plane with an ereader. I love when I can figure it out. I feel really accomplished haha

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  8. Patty says

    July 9, 2014 at 6:02 am

    Jamie you are too hilarious! Next time I’m reading in public, which is not often, I might move my book around just in case there are other people like you out there. Gotta do my bit for the fellow book nerds after all! I have done this on the bus before. If someone is sitting in a row in front of me I try to see what book it is , but I can usually only see the pages so it’s hard to read the tiny writing at the top of the page to see what it is.

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    • Jamie says

      July 9, 2014 at 6:31 am

      YES. Put it on display, Patty! Make sure every angle gets a chance to see. You never know what kind of book creepers might be in your crowd 😛 Oh yes! I’ve done that. Not opposed to trying to figure it out from the inside over their shoulder! I try not to breathe though because who likes creepy breathing over their shoulder?!

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  9. Caitlin says

    July 9, 2014 at 6:05 am

    Definitely a bookworm quirk 😛 When I’m in a library I not-so-nonchalantly walk around peeking over peoples shoulders. Once I was at the beach and I saw this lady with a book. I walked about 10 times but I couldn’t see the cover. I was very upset when I left and the book remained a mystery.

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  10. Iris says

    July 9, 2014 at 6:10 am

    Oh god, I’m cracking up. Those GIF’s just fit the whole post perfectly.
    I do the same, and if I can’t find out what they’re reading I get so annoyed, because I just HAVE to know.
    A week ago I saw a girl reading a book in the bus. After a while I finally found out she was reading Diveregent and I actually squealed… Like full on happy squeal. She must’ve thought I was some kind of weirdo lol.
    I get happy when I see other people reading, although it probably turns be in a bit of a creeper haha

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    • Jamie says

      July 9, 2014 at 6:32 am

      YES I’m glad I’m not the only one who is annoyed when I can’t see. It takes a lot for me to give up on trying to find out. haha. And hahah I’m dying about your story. I’m sure sometimes I’ve had a HUGE grin when I see something I love. I just want to crumple up a note that’s like OMG I LOVE THAT BOOKKKKKKK!!! and throw it to them.

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  11. Sandy Steckler says

    July 9, 2014 at 7:07 am

    These posts are hilarious. I do this all the time and I admit to walking up to people and asking them what they are reading if I can’t see the title, I can’t stand the not-knowing. Most people will start talking about the book which is a great conversation and I get to meet some nice people. I’ve even had on vacation in Mexico where people will tell me that they will give me the book when they are done, if I want it. Like a few people mentioned already, when you see someone reading something you liked, your insides are doing a happy dance.

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  12. Hawwa @ It Was Lovely Reading You says

    July 9, 2014 at 7:58 am

    THIS IS THE BEST THING I HAVE EVER READ. Seriously. It had me in stitches and those gifs describe me BECAUSE THIS IS WHAT I DO. Unfortunately I do not have a cohort to do my dirty work xD So I have to be all awkward myself and just casually walk past *minding my own business*. the stares i get..*le sigh*

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  13. Kimber Leigh Wheaton says

    July 9, 2014 at 8:28 am

    I’m so glad I’m not the only person who does that! Airports are my favorite. Seriously, I can pass the time just checking out what other people are reading. But with the advent of ereaders, the days of laughing at the business man reading a bodice ripper are over. Perhaps we need to come up with an invention that projects the ebook cover as people walk by…

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  14. Tammy @ Books Bones & Buffy says

    July 9, 2014 at 8:32 am

    Ha ha this was one of my bookish confessions yesterday! I’m totally with you. Join the creep brigade:-)

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  15. Jessica says

    July 9, 2014 at 8:59 am

    YESSSSSS. This post was hilarious and those gifs were spot on! I do this a lot and sadly I have no partner in crime… D: I tend to give up when the book is too far away for me to read, but I feel an extra sense of accomplishment when I can tell which book it is by the color scheme.

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  16. Andi says

    July 9, 2014 at 9:10 am

    No joke Jamie, I do this one the train ALL THE TIME! Just yesterday I bent in a super awkward way just to see what the person across from her was reading (it was Gone Girl by the way). And I get insanely excited when I see they are reading something I have read or loved. I remember one girl reading and ARC of a Sarah Ockler book and I was SO JEALOUS of her! It’s a sickness but I can’t help it.

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  17. Beth says

    July 9, 2014 at 9:18 am

    I totally do this too! I’m really bad on airplanes where I’m trying to figure out what the person next to me is reading and I can’t see the cover so I end up basically reading over their shoulder trying to find title or an excerpt that will clue me in to what they are reading. I feel EXTRA creepy then, especially when I get caught. :/

    I try to support people like us when I’m reading in public and subtly try to rotate the book or flash the cover when I close it so others can see what I was reading. It’s only polite. 🙂

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  18. Christina (A Reader of Fictions) says

    July 9, 2014 at 9:19 am

    Most definitely a bookworm quirk. I do this all the time, when I actually leave the house and go somewhere. But I’m always trying to snoop on what people read on public transportation, at the airport, or in restaurants. I MUST KNOWWWWWW.

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  19. Emma @ Hopeful Happiness says

    July 9, 2014 at 9:25 am

    It’s totally a bookworm thing! It’s only natural to want to see what someone is reading because you can tell so much about them by the books they choose to read. (At least that’s what I tell myself.)

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  20. Kristilyn (Reading in Winter) says

    July 9, 2014 at 9:45 am

    I can’t say I’ve ever been as determined as you, but yes, I totally want to know what other people are reading! When I worked at the library I was reading a lot of YA and I’d find myself stalking people in the YA section to see what they’d end up reading. I think part of it is that I’ll see someone reading a book I love and then I’ll try and strike up a conversation with them. Again, equally awkward because some people just read, they don’t want to talk to others (like I do) about what they’re reading.

    I’d say it’s just normal bookworm behaviour! Creep away! 🙂

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  21. Quinn @ Quinn's Book Nook says

    July 9, 2014 at 9:53 am

    Hahaha. If you are a creep, then so am I. I cannot resist checking out what books people are reading. If I walk by or see someone reading, I have to check out what it is. I simply cannot help myself. And I’ve been doing this as long as I can remember. Okay, maybe not when I was five, but at least since high school, and it’s been a long time since I was in high school.

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  22. Book Angel says

    July 9, 2014 at 10:02 am

    I LOVE THIS.
    I mean you gotta do what you gotta do, right?!

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  23. Lakin says

    July 9, 2014 at 10:11 am

    I understand the need to know what other people are reading, and I love the excitement when they are reading a book you loved or on your TBR list! I do like to know what other people are reading, but I can honestly say that I have never taken a picture and zoomed in (noted for future reference) or had someone go check. That was hilarious, and really sweet that he did that for you!

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  24. Heather says

    July 9, 2014 at 10:41 am

    I’m always curious to see what others are reading – now especially since I barely have time to focus on a book while keeping an eye on a rambunctious toddler. I keep an ongoing list of books that I will one day have time to read, so being able to snoop and see what others are reading is VERY important. Granted, I’m very guilty of using a Kindle more often now. It’s just so much easier to throw in my bag and I can keep books for me and the kiddos on there without taking up a ton of space if we’re traveling. 😉

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  25. Annette says

    July 9, 2014 at 10:46 am

    I’m especially troubled when it’s a teen or young kid reading and I can’t see the cover. It’s really hard for me to NOT interrupt them — sometimes I just have to. I want to know what wonderful experiences they are having with books!

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  26. Chenise J. says

    July 9, 2014 at 11:14 am

    I love this! And it’s so true! I’ve actually asked people if I could see the book they were reading and read the blurb about it. Most people are completely fine with it – I think they like when people take an interest in what they’re reading.

    Also, true love is asking your husband to creep on other people’s books and they do it without question LOL. Adorable!

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  27. Jess @ Such A Novel Idea says

    July 9, 2014 at 11:23 am

    This is one of my favorite posts to date. I mean, beyond the hilarity of the words (this should totally be a topic for Epic Reads’ Book Nerds Problems shorts), but the perfectness of the GIFs.

    And don’t worry, you are not alone. The struggle is real.

    Thanks for the laugh this morning!

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  28. Stacy L says

    July 9, 2014 at 11:29 am

    Haha! This is great! I thought I was completely alone on this creep status. I totally do this all the time. It’s the main reason ebooks make me sad (even though I read them, too): it’s nearly impossible to creep peek at books on ereaders.

    One time, I was reading at a coffee shop, and creep-peeping on this woman next to me. She had removed the dust jacket and was hiding the spine so well. She finally stood up and yelled “what the f*** are you staring at?” at me in the middle of the coffee shop! I was mortified. I looked down at the floor and admitted in hushed tones that I was trying to see what she was reading. Then she sat down and a aid, “Oh! I’m reading Siege & Storm” and then continued to have a 20-min conversation with me about books. It was embarrassing and awesome all at the same time.

    Needless to say, though, I am a bit more stealthy since then. But I still am desperate to know if the person next to me is reading the next must-have book 🙂

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  29. Kat says

    July 9, 2014 at 12:17 pm

    All. The. Time.

    If I sit next to someone on the train that’s reading, I try and sneakily read a few paragraphs and see if I can work out what the book is and if it looks interesting!

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  30. Christina (BookTasty) says

    July 9, 2014 at 12:23 pm

    I am the exact same way! I LOVE to see what other people are reading and get especially excited if it’s YA! My husband has been very embarrassed by my creeping on readers in public. haha
    In the US it isn’t that crazy to strike up a conversation with someone about what they’re reading, but when we were in the UK I not only had to dial back my loud, open Americanness but also my super geeky, creepy bookloverness too! We were on the tube in London, where people just don’t talk like they do in other undergrounds throughout the world, and I started randomly talking to an English guy reading Divergent. He thought I was insane. I could tell. Oh well!

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  31. Kritika says

    July 9, 2014 at 12:23 pm

    Definitely done that at airports. We’re standing in security and every time we shuffle forward I keep moving myself to different angles so I can figure out what book the person in front of me is reading haha
    One time I saw a girl reading a Melina Marchetta book and I almost squealed but then I figured the security people would find me suspicious so I just kept quiet 🙂

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  32. Jancee Wright says

    July 9, 2014 at 12:46 pm

    This is really funny! I wouldn’t say I do this all the time, but to a certain degree I will. And if they look friendly, I will just straight up ask what they are reading so that I can add it to my own list. Some good strategies to consider though – I would totally send a friend to canvas for me! 🙂

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  33. Andrea @ The Overstuffed Bookcase says

    July 9, 2014 at 1:11 pm

    I hope it’s normal, because I do it too! This past weekend my husband and I took my son to a dinosaur exhibit and there was a guy, probably in his early 20’s, who walked by me, carrying a book. I kind of stared at the book as he walked by, but I couldn’t figure out what it was because the back cover was facing out, and it didn’t have much on it. I was actually pretty sad that I couldn’t see what book he was reading!

    I also always look at what people are buying in bookstores. If they pick up a book I love, I’m always like, “That is a great book!” But if they pick up something I hated, I want to take it from their hands, shake my head and say, “Walk away. Just walk away.” Of course, I don’t do that (unless it’s someone I know), because that would probably get me thrown out of the bookstore and I can think of nothing worse than getting thrown out of a bookstore!!

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  34. Sarah says

    July 9, 2014 at 1:15 pm

    This post totally cracks me up and your use of gifs is masterful! I just recently started doing this and I DO feel like a total creeper when I do. I must not have mastered my spy skills because I always get caught peeking or straining my neck to see the cover.

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  35. Sheri & Tangled Up In Books says

    July 9, 2014 at 1:15 pm

    I don’t know what I love more about this post. The fact that you’ve made, at least, me feel just a little bit more normal. And by that I mean I do that as well…NOT that I think you’re creepy!! Or the fact that Will actually went book stalking for you and wasn’t like “you really expect me to do that?!” So much awesome. Haha 🙂

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  36. Kayla @ The Thousand Lives says

    July 9, 2014 at 1:20 pm

    I’m still cracking up at the fact that Will actually did that for you! You keep that man forever Jamie 😛 I’m not horrible yet (but then again I don’t go to the pool often and I don’t ride the subway or anything so really there’s no chance of it happening), but I’m really nosy when I go to Barnes and Noble. I think I’ve scared a group of 14 year olds but they were wondering when The One would be released and so I kind of just butted in and provided the information. Totally normal, right??

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  37. Emily says

    July 9, 2014 at 2:10 pm

    Haha, this is hilarious. Shout-out to your guy for doing recon for you. Things like this make me feel slightly less alone in my bookworm oddities, so thanks! 😉

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  38. Annie says

    July 9, 2014 at 2:42 pm

    Haha I saw your tweet the other day and I laughed out loud because that is something I relate to big time. I’m totally that person who loves to snoop on what other people are reading and then talk to them about it. I just want to know all their thoughts, I can’t help myself! Sometimes I envision myself as a tiger like going in for the kill. I’ll make small talk with them just so I’m not just randomly popping by but then I’ll smoothly transition into what I really wanted the entire time: to ask them about their book! Though it often doesn’t come out nearly as smooth as it is in my mind haha. But I don’t know, I think that’s just a bookworm thing? To want to know what others are reading? Because I definitely feel that! And I also admit to sometimes sending whoever I’m with to nonchalantly walk by and sneak a peek but in cases where I’m alone, I’ve also gotten real good at subtly craning at my neck to see. And I feel you with ebooks! When someone’s reading an ebook, I just toss the idea of trying to find out what they’re reading out. It’ll be too awkward!

    But it’s a similar thing I feel with music. It isn’t as easy to snoop on what someone’s listening to but gosh, would I LOVE to know what everyone is listening to!

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  39. Lola says

    July 9, 2014 at 2:59 pm

    I had so much fun reading this post! I even read that part about you sending Will on a mission out loud to my boyfriend. I have to say that usually when I see someone reading I do try and peek to see what they are reading, although so far I haven’t gone to extreme measures to find out. But I am curious to know what other people are reading, once in the train a girl sat down next to me with an e-reader and we even talked for a bit about what we were reading.

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  40. Trina says

    July 9, 2014 at 3:09 pm

    I can’t say that I do this, but then again I don’t really see a lot of people reading. I’m the only break room reader at work, and so I do tend to hide my covers just because there is such an eclectic mix of people I work with and who knows who would give me the side eye over my reading choices. But I would gladly show you what I am reading!

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  41. Cassi @ My Thoughts Literally says

    July 9, 2014 at 4:25 pm

    THIS IS ME ON THE BUS! I’m such a creep I always look over their shoulder and look at the top of the page to find out the title of the book if I can’t see the cover. I’ve also been known to read over their shoulder if it’s a book on my TBR to see if I like the writing style.

    My problem is do I say something? Do I fangirl about how much I love Divergent or A Game of Thrones when I see someone reading that book? Usually I talk myself out of it because that’s just too creepy! But there was this one time that I saw that someone was reading Harry Potter (on an e-reader) by the chapter picture and it was one of my favorite parts in one of my favorite books and I did talk to the person. They looked at me like I had lost my mind, because I pretty much had!

    This post is amazing and you’re amazing for admitting to being a creep. I am right there with you!

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  42. Rebecca @ The Library Canary says

    July 9, 2014 at 4:42 pm

    hahaha I always love how honest you are on your blog, Jamie. And no, this is not abnormal behavior. I totally do the exact same thing! And then, once I find out what they’re reading (if it’s something I know or something that sounds/looks interesting), if the situation allows I will start talking to them about said book. Because I’m a book stalker. Lol. So you’re not alone in your creepiness! Right there with ya sista!

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  43. Katherine @ I Wish I Lived in a Library says

    July 9, 2014 at 5:35 pm

    That’s HILARIOUS! Good for Will for accepting the mission. I’m not entirely sure my husband would. I’m a total hypocrite about this. I LOVE to see what other people are reading but I like e-readers so people can’t see what I’m reading. I read a lot of mystery or romance so not exactly high brow stuff!

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  44. Leah says

    July 9, 2014 at 6:33 pm

    haha! If that makes you a creep, then I guess I’m one too! I’m a HUGE people-watcher, if I’m out and about, I love finding a seat somewhere and staring at the people who go by. For me, it’s a natural curiosity thing – who are they talking to/texting? What’s in her bag?? Where are they headed? If someone has a book you can bet I’ll do a sneak attack to see what it is – if it’s one I’m interested in or have read before, I’ll break out of my shell (usually I’m super reserved and quiet) and start up a conversation!

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  45. Finley Jayne says

    July 9, 2014 at 7:36 pm

    This post cracked me up 🙂 I have already asked my sister-in-law, who I’m going on vacation with in a few days, what books she’s planning on bringing, lol. Yes, I need to know this haha.

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  46. kimberlybuggie says

    July 9, 2014 at 7:39 pm

    LOL!
    I do that too!!! For real. It usually really gets me when I’m at the airport. A LOT of people read at the airport and they’re all “I’m reading and I’m leaning my book this way” and I cannot see the cover! Drives me mad. Especially if I think it’s a book I’ve read already and I totally want to talk to someone about!
    I do mostly read on my kindle when I travel so I totally do it too! But if someone was to come up to me and ask me what I was reading, I would be more than happy to talk. My husband got hit on while he was out getting a cup of coffee last year- because he was sipping his coffee with a paperback of Crime & Punishment. He was very pleased that he was hit on, and that he looked so intelligent with his book of choice! 🙂

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  47. Kara @ Great Imaginations says

    July 9, 2014 at 8:42 pm

    TOTALLY normal. There was this old man (about 60ish) in front of me on the plane to BEA last year, and I kept creeping over the seat to see what he was reading. Well…I didn’t find out until the very end of the flight and it was 50 Shades of Grey.

    I was embarrassed for him. OY.

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  48. Devyn says

    July 9, 2014 at 9:42 pm

    I really, really hope this is normal considering I do the same thing. I’m also quite prone to asking people what they’re reading when they have their e-readers out. It’s like the easiest way to talk to people!

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  49. Violet says

    July 9, 2014 at 11:17 pm

    This story made me laugh, especially when you mentioned talking to people in the bookstore! I definitely talk to people at the shop, recommending books more often than asking them what they think of the book they have, unless we’re already in a conversation. Bookish people are fun to meet, but this can definitely be an awkward situation occasionally. But hey, then you have a funny story to share like this! Also, I help people find books in the shop so often that I should just work there… it’s funny really because I’ll see them looking around and ask because odds are, I looked at it as I was perusing the shelves. Great post!

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  50. Dana @ The Nerdy Journalist says

    July 9, 2014 at 11:47 pm

    Yes! Whenever I see someone reading a book, I feel the urge to ask them what they’re reading, but I feel too awkward to ask… so I just sneak a peak of their cover.
    I mainly read e-books, but you’re welcome to peep over my shoulder or ask me what I’m reading. I love talking about books!

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  51. Chachic says

    July 9, 2014 at 11:54 pm

    I think it’s totally normal to be curious about what other people are reading! I always try to peek at the books/devices that others are holding when I’m commuting on the train. If I feel like I’m becoming too obvious, I just let it go.

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  52. Kimmy @ Pingwing's Bookshelf says

    July 10, 2014 at 6:48 am

    I love this! I do the same thing. And I love that your husband will try to scope out the titles for you! I don’t know if mine would do the same but I think I’ll start asking him 🙂

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  53. Holly says

    July 10, 2014 at 7:45 am

    This made me giggle so much, I do exactly the same thing! Especially if the cover looks interesting to me. I don’t know why we don’t feel we could just ask someone about the book they’re reading though, I would be thrilled if someone came and started a conversation with me about books!

    Holly – hollyinyourpocket.blogspot.co.uk

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  54. Nemo says

    July 10, 2014 at 2:06 pm

    I always thought this was a general Bookworm quirk (or maybe thats just what i’ve been telling myself) I mean i was camping this weekend and everytime i saw someone with a book i had to know what it was, sometimes i even just ask them. And sometimes if i have read the book and i know its an emotional book, or something with a twist i try to stay near and see their reactions. Not sure if thats extra creepy, I hope its not. 🙂

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  55. Gigi R. says

    July 10, 2014 at 4:18 pm

    I absolutely do this ALL the time! When I’m sitting in the coffee shop at my college, people tend to read in there a lot, and it DRIVES ME CRAZY until I can see what everyone’s been reading! I guess it is just a weird bookworm quirk. Haha!

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  56. Chloë says

    July 10, 2014 at 6:21 pm

    I love how many people in the comments do this too! The photo-taking I find a little weird, I’ll be honest, but I have serious people-watching issues on the tube. Pretty much every commuter reads to drown out the screech of the train, and I get upset when I can’t tell what ereader users are reading, even though I use an ereader myself.

    I have been known to angle my book if I think someone is looking over my shoulder so they can see, in an effort of “hey fellow bookreader! please appreciate my bookreading skills!”, before I realise they’re just gazing into space.

    Chloë x

    PS. Very interested in a Rosie Project review. Every train was packed with copies when it was released here.

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  57. Lina says

    July 11, 2014 at 5:21 pm

    the only way in which I can relate is when I’m on a plane and the person in front of me is reading (usually an ebook, for some reason) and I have to see what they’re reading, even read over their shoulder…and sometimes I can figure out what book it is that way! Yes, pretty creepy…but it’s a plane! What else is there to do?

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  58. Alexa says

    July 12, 2014 at 9:43 pm

    Lol Johnny (my boyfriend) always finds it weird that I will honestly ignore people at any regular place but if I’m at a book store or book convention I will talk to everyone and anyone! I must know what people are reading or what books they are buying when I’m in a store. I also try to see what people are reading if they are around me. I may not go to the lengths you do to see the cover but I do try to figure it out for myself. 🙂

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  59. Mel@thedailyprophecy says

    July 14, 2014 at 8:57 am

    Hahaha, some of those GIFs sure are creeps, but I always try to do the same. When I’m on my way to school some people read on the train and I always try to, very subtly, angle myself so I can see what they are reading. I’m too shy to ask them and I know how annoying it is when someone interrupts you.

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  60. Sandra says

    July 14, 2014 at 7:54 pm

    Wow! I am glad that I’m not the only one who does this. It embarrasses my poor husband to no end, especially if I have read the book the other person is reading and then I rant for about ten minuets about what I did/didn’t like about it. Book Creeps Unite!

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  61. Megan C. Stroup says

    July 15, 2014 at 11:55 pm

    Not creepy at all! I love seeing what others are reading, and I love when people ask me what I’m reading (as long as they then promptly leave me alone and don’t try to start a conversation. I’m trying to READ here!!). Love that Will is complicit in your secret missions.

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  62. Aubrey says

    July 18, 2014 at 3:55 pm

    I do the same thing! Except I live in NYC where more and more people are toting e-readers around on the subway. I was sitting by a girl who was reading “Eleanor and Park” on her Kindle, and I started talking to her about it. She asked “Uh how did you know what I was reading?” and I had to admit “I started reading over your shoulder…and when I saw the names ‘Eleanor’ and ‘Park’, that kind of gave it away….” She just awkwardly laughed, haha.

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  63. Rita @ Weaving Pages says

    July 21, 2014 at 4:45 pm

    This is literally post perfection. I LOVED reading this- it made my day!! CREEPY BOOK BLOGGERS UNITE!

    -Rita xx

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  64. Inge @ Bookshelf Reflections says

    July 26, 2014 at 6:33 am

    This was incredibly funny to read! Especially when you ask others to creep for you. I’m curious to see what other people are reading, but I won’t go THAT far haha. But you’re not weird! Or maybe a little.. but really, keep it up. I’d find it amusing if someone did that to me.

    Reply
  65. Sophie says

    August 30, 2014 at 11:06 am

    You’re not alone. Me and my mam do the same whenever we see people with books

    Reply
  66. Cialina says

    August 30, 2014 at 1:21 pm

    I find it really hard to resist peeking over someone’s shoulder on the subway when they are reading on an ereader. Like, since I can’t see the book cover, I think they are hiding something. I have to resist the urge to squint… All the time.

    Reply
  67. Juhina says

    December 4, 2014 at 10:29 am

    omg I do this ALL THE TIME! I get SO frustrated when I can’t figure out what the book is. I’ve been guilty of taking photos and zooming in to see the title. I think it is a bookworm thing, you’re not alone Jamie!!

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  68. Tamara says

    December 4, 2014 at 11:26 am

    I do this myself a bit, with is kind of hypocritical considering that whenever I read in public I do my best to hide the book’s cover. I don’t know why, I just do…

    But if anyone ever asks me what I’m reading I’m usually pretty happy to talk about it. Go figure.

    Reply
  69. Lisa (Fic Talk) says

    December 5, 2014 at 2:47 pm

    Never fear. You are not alone in this. I am a creep too.

    Reply
  70. Deanna says

    December 8, 2014 at 9:55 pm

    Oh thanks god I’m not alone! Haha, I do this too.

    Reply
  71. Emma says

    December 16, 2014 at 9:19 pm

    I can’t stop laughing… I don’t know how I just saw this post now, but it totally made my day. I do this as well, and I’m sure it is embarrassing for whoever’s with me, but a bookworm’s gotta do what a bookworm’s gotta do…

    Reply
    • Jamie says

      January 1, 2015 at 4:29 pm

      Hehe I’m glad I could provide you with a laugh!! 🙂 And totally agree…creeper bookworms unite! 🙂

      Reply
  72. CJ Listro says

    June 19, 2015 at 2:02 pm

    I have full-on stared at people on the bus before, before realizing that I was being a total sketchball. …Or after I got a weirded out look from the reader. It’s not just you! Not sure if that makes it normal, exactly, but at least you’re not alone?

    C.J.
    Sarcasm & Lemons

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  73. Britt says

    April 1, 2016 at 2:58 pm

    ….I actually did this at work the other day.

    My co-worker’s table was reading a book and I so desperately wanted to know what it was because she was SO into it! I made her walk to her table and she ended up getting into a long conversation with her customer about the book she was reading.. Turns out it was the second Fifty Shades of Grey book haha.

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Next - The Kiss of Deception: I’m rereading the first book in this YA fantasy series because it’s been forever and I really wanna finish the trilogy. I’ve been really wanting to go through series I’ve left unfinished for years (not for lack of interest but because I suck at juggling all the series I start) so this is one of them. I remember loving it so I’m excited to dive in and binge. 

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So I’m like, welp, guess we are just dropping off in the bin so I try to grab my books out and put them in one-handed while juggling the umbrella and less than enthused Riley.⁣
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Mercifully the door opens and  our children’s librarian takes pity on us and lets us in to drop off and pick up the holds.⁣
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Also have been meaning to snag The World Gives Way after @jordys.book.club recommendation!⁣
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“Why is it so hard to pick my next read?” — “Why is it so hard to pick my next read?” — she says as she is surrounded by piles on piles of books on the floor and desk and packed on her bookshelf and book cart. (Partner @berkleypub - thanks for the review copy).⁣
⁣
I managed to pick my next read, as chronicled in these photos, but it was not easy with so many options! 

Decided to go with a most anticipated book of 2022 for me from an author who has written books I’ve really enjoyed.
⁣
I am about halfway through and cruising along because I NEED to figure out if Joseph is the worst or what really is going on here in this story that starts with 3 women being stood up by the same guy on Valentine’s Day.  I feel like there is something more to this one but I can’t quite put my finger on it yet! ⁣
⁣
Hoping to finish it this weekend! What are you reading this weekend? And do you have trouble picking your next read? How do you choose amongst all the options?
Sunshine on my face and a mass market fitting perf Sunshine on my face and a mass market fitting perfectly in my hands.⁣…
⁣
Truly felt like there were zero things more joyful than the warm sun on my face after colder, dreary days and remembering how much I love the feel of reading a mass market paperback. It’s probably a very specific little joy of mine and I definitely reveled in it today.⁣
⁣
But the real big joy has been rereading this book and experiencing it all over again before @bridgertonnetflix season 2 — especially the Pall Mall scene. And something to do with a 🐝 😅 iykyk⁣
⁣
With all the joy I’m getting out of this reread it makes me wonder why I don’t prioritize rereading like I used to before I started blogging 10 years ago.⁣
⁣
In my head I just want to experience all the new stories and try to make a dent in my TBR but I forget, until I do it, the genuine pleasure in revisiting old companions and how it’s a different side of reading one can experience — the nostalgia, the person I’ve become since reading the book and the way I approach a book already knowing what happens. Well the general sense of what happens because my memory is 💩!⁣
⁣
Anyways that’s what I’m up to currently. Trying to finish this up so I can pack my books for a short trip I’m going on later this week. My first ✈️ since 2019!⁣
⁣
Whatcha reading? Do you reread often? And tell me a little teeny tiny joy from your day.
If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow m If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow mash up the “screaming, crying”  Blank Space clip with the “emotional damage” refrain to the Bastille’s Pompeii to let you know how I feel after the last few chapters of #TheGildedCage !!⁣
⁣
And if you don’t understand what that means, I’m sorry 😅⁣
⁣
But woo boy do I need the third installment of this series!!! But I also think I’m going to be even more emotional damaged after that one soooo.⁣ 
⁣
Seriously, one of the best simple joys of my life is the feeling of being so wholly and totally invested in a series that you have to remind yourself it’s fiction lest you spend all day in bed crying about the devastated look a character had on their face — a face you didn’t even see with your own two eyes but you are so invested that you feel nauseous and gutted like you sure did.⁣
⁣
Just me orrrrrr?⁣
⁣
No but for real. If you love YA fantasy, go start #theprisonhealer so you can be caught up when The Blood Traitor comes out in June (and be my emotional support person for the duration of reading it). I love these characters and I dying to see what happens next. 

Have you read this series yet? Last book series that had you SCREAMING CRYING THROWING UP because of the EMOTIONAL DAMAGE it inflicted?
A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be bothered to make it pretty — mismatching fuzzy sucks, coffee almost gone and Christmas pajama pants that are super old.⁣
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But y’all Black Cake is so good!! I’m almost halfway through and I know it’s A Choice to declare it one of the best books I’ve read all year but I’m feeling bold based on how it’s going.⁣
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I love a good family story (especially one with a family secret!) and this is top notch. The writing is 👌🏻 and I know I’m going to be screaming when the pieces come together!⁣
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In other news, I’m 65% of the way through The Dry by Jane Harper and I’m enjoying it so much that I ended up staying on the treadmill twice this weekend after my allotted time was over just so I could keep listening.⁣
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Will and I FINALLY started Ted Lasso this weekend. It is a damn delight!! For all the hype and praise, it has overdelivered for me which is kind of shocking because normally hype is scary. I told Will that I feel like all the praise hasn’t even come close to how much I could love it. We are only 7 episodes in so no spoilers!⁣
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I’m kinda mad we sat on starting it for so long but at the same time I think the timing is right to help me see my way out of this February funk I have found myself in the past couple weeks.⁣
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Anyways, hope everyone is having a good weekend! Have you read Black Cake or The Dry? Where are my Ted Lasso fans at? I’m happy to join your ranks! Also please tell me your fave character bc I am finding it impossible to pick this far!
No but seriously every year I contemplate organizi No but seriously every year I contemplate organizing a search party for one Katjay Millay who wrote one beautiful and amazing book and then...vanished.

Like for real. She wrote a tweet in 2015 that she was taking a few weeks off and then.... no tweets, no new books. Radio silence.

I hope she’s okay, for real, and that she knows I obsessively stalk Goodreads/Twitter/the internet to make sure I haven’t missed new book news from her at least twice a year. 🥺

Is there any author who you’ve been waiting forever for a new release from??

I’d also like to add YA author Sarah Ockler to this list! Last release was 2015 😭😭
Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are becoming movies/tv shows soon! And one of them is out TODAY!⁣
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The Sky is Everywhere — it’s out today on AppleTV+ and I can’t wait to sob my brains out. One of my absolute most favorite books ever by one of my all time favorite authors. It’s gorgeous and heartbreaking in its poignant depiction of grief, first love and healing — all woven together in Jandy’s signature gorgeous, lyrical writing.⁣
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Along For The Ride (out April 22) — one of a handful upcoming @sdessen books being adapted in the near future and I can’t wait! These books are so near and dear to my heart.⁣
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No release dates yet for The Summer I Turned Pretty tv series (the ultimate coming of age summertime story!) or The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight (the cutest meet cute of all meet cutes all set in 24 hours) but I am HYPED and have all my fingers crossed for 2022 🤞🤞

Have you read any of these? Anyone else hyped for these adaptations.

Also, for the past few years, I’ve kept a running list of books becoming movies/tv shows for the year. Head to my bio to check out the list! I try to update it weekly and keep on top of it all but life ya know 😆 but I try!
Is this a book club? I think we just started a boo Is this a book club? I think we just started a book club. Or maybe just a @jenniferesmith appreciation club?? (partner @randomhouse )⁣
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Either way, after loving Jennifer E. Smith's YA books for years, it's been a real treat to also read her debut picture book with Riley (we loved!!) as well as her adult debut out in 3 weeks!⁣
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⁣So let me tell you about that adult debut — The Unsinkable Great James!!

This one just was the perfect warm-hearted read for a cold and gloomy January.

A perfect setting to escape into (Alaska), a tender-hearted meet cute and a poignant look at the shared grieving experience of those left behind.

I was initially drawn, like I always am, to the daughter losing a mother storyline and an exploration of that grief but I was so taken by the father/daughter relationship between two people who were left untethered by losing the person who held their family together.

Greta and her father don't see eye-to-eye on basically anything when they are thrown together on this Alaskan cruise, a trip Greta's father and mother were supposed to take, and you can feel the tension of their long-standing tumultuous and fractured relationship -- a relationship that feels like its hanging in a balance and could not recover.

The two are both hurting so much from this loss  and it took my breath away at times in how true it rang to be in your own grief bubble and feeling like the loss is yours and yours alone while forgetting about the others shouldering their own piece of this loss. I loved watching them very slowly SEE one another.

I can't say enough good things about this one -- great setting, Greta's music, the meet-cute, the messy and imperfect nature of family and love. Definitely recommend!⁣

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