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Answers To Your Questions: The Blogging Q’s Edition

March 8, 2018 - Updated May 7, 2019 // 13 Comments

 

Thank you so much to everyone who responded to my first ever call for Q&A questions. The form is still open for now if you want to submit something! I still have a couple of questions that came in after I grouped the initial questions but I’d love a couple more to make for a better post instead of those two questions that are left without a group (I have a whole other grouping left to do).

I’ve broken them into smaller sections and some are themed and some were questions I decided I would devote a whole post to! So today I’m going to answer most of the blogging related questions. You can check out the more personal questions in part 1.

Your blog header is gorgeous! Where did you get the idea for it? (Laura @BlueEyeBooks)

Thank you! I feel like I’ve had it for way too long but I’m too lazy to change it! I was going on this hot air balloon kick and wanted hot air balloon everything so I was perusing Creative Market for some inspiration to make a new blog header and this hot air balloon set stood out to me and I just started really started thinking of a header with hot air balloons that could capture that feeling, to me, of how I feel when I’m reading…just off on adventure. I don’t know, it probably doesn’t come off very obviously, but that was my inspiration. I’m trying to come up with ideas to redesign my site but I haven’t had as much inspiration this time around haha.

 

What are the top ways you have gained traffic/followers?

 

In the beginning of my blogging journey I think I grew really quickly because I was employed part-time so I spent a lot of time the summer of 2010 when I started my blog just DIVING into networking and building community. I was commenting on other people’s blogs (not just “nice blog!” but actual things I wanted to say and connect with) and made it a point to really insert myself in the book blogging community on Twitter.

I also started The Broke and the Bookish blog (RIP as of this year) at the same time and I hosted Top Ten Tuesday over there — a community link-up that became very popular. I participated here at this blog also and I saw growth and traffic from that. So, I think at first it was community — really making an effort to find it and build it and starting something that centered around community (and also participating in it on here also — I got lots of traffic from that especially in the beginning).  A lot has changed in blogging since I started in 2010 so I’m sure it would look different in how I would dive into this community but I think finding other people is the first way of gaining traffic and followers. Those were some of my most genuine followers and readers.

I think that was my initial way I gained followers/traffic but then I started pouring my professional life skills into my blog — I focused on SEO to gain organic traffic and connect with people who were looking for what I was writing about and then when Pinterest hit the scene I really started experimenting with that in 2012 and then went crazy viral with 2 of my first experimental posts. Fast forward and so much of my traffic and new followers come from Pinterest. I think writing posts you want to write but having search engines in mind when you write them is a good way to gain traffic (help people find you and your info!)  and I think finding where your ideal potential reader hangs out on social media and connecting with them is a good idea. For me, Pinterest has worked. But as a blog follower I’ve totally found blogs through people’s engaging Instagram feeds or their super engaging Facebook pages.

So I guess TL;DR: 1) engaging in the community in some way (commenting/chatting on social media in a meaningful way, participating in a community THING with others in your niche (linkups, readathons, challenges, anything that connects people) and 2) learn SEO  & figure out a social media strategy that works for you. I only dedicate time to the ones that seem to bring traffic and “convert” better (ie I don’t just want people to come and never come back just for a number…I want them to come and find what they need and maybe even come back).

(I don’t know who asked this but if you want more specific things answered I’m happy to answer here or you can email me!)

 

 

Do you think blogging is dead? I’ve been wanting to start a blog after following you and so many other book bloggers (I know you aren’t a book blogger anymore) but it feels kind of more “dead” these days and don’t know if it’s worth the effort. — Marie

 

Ooh I love this question! I absolutely think if you want to start a blog, start it! There’s still space and an audience and it can be incredibly fulfilling. It’s DIFFERENT for sure. But dead? NAH. I’ll tell you why. It’s different than when I first started in 2010 because there weren’t as many social media platforms that had people spread out. Blogging was very centered on, well, BLOGS. That’s where a lot of the engagement and the convo happened.

Twitter was there and felt like an extension of the convo but soon it became more important and you could really sort of micro-blog via that. Then more people got into Youtube (at least in the book community it became a bigger thing than it had been) and then Instagram and Vine and Snapchat and Facebook Pages seemed like a place you had to be if you had a blog. Suddenly there were so many places you needed to be and rather than it being an extension of the blog…it sometimes became people’s main outlet  to microblog so to speak.

So 1) the conversation has become so spread out and 2) people began to move to other platforms to “blog” or have their presence. So of course it’s going to seem like blogging became less popular because of that AND ALSO…everything new is shiny so of course the attention of brands and publishers or whatever became on integrating those things in their marketing/PR/social media strategy. Blogging isn’t new and shiny anymore but it’s still there.

But the one reason I refuse to ever concede to what is new and popular personally (and I use and LOVE mostly all those other outlets) is that my blog is mine. I don’t have to contend with algorithms that suck (*cough Instagram*) or things like what Youtube pulled (monetizing capabilities being pulled if you don’t have a certain amount of views or followers). I am not beholden to any of those platforms. Like let’s say you put all your apples in Vine…well, Vine is dead and gone and then you have to move on to a new thing. I don’t know much about how those Vine influencers were able to get their stuff off the app and to somewhere else but that seems like a hassle to me. So, for me, even if I start getting into another platform that works for me…my blog is always going to be here because I own it and own everything on it. I happily use all of these platforms and they are important to me but my main hub is here.

Does that make sense or was that just the most confusing thing ever? I hope it made sense why *I* think blogging isn’t dead, at least not for me. Maybe others think it is but it’s my Q&A so that’s my answer haha.

Do you think the book/blog community has changed? And what do you think of the changes? Good and bad?

 

The book blogging community has definitely changed since I started. I’m just going to list what I think.

1)I think the above answer is A LOT of how I think it changed aka it grew from just having a blog to having a blog + a social media presence everywhere.

2)I think also when I first started in 2010 publishers were just starting to put bloggers in their marketing/publicity plans and now it’s just not blogs but Youtube and Instagram. Now “influencers” from all those realms are pretty integrated like in other industries — though book blogging has always been the slowest to get on board with what the rest of blogging niches are doing in my experience as a blog reader of lots of other blog niches and having worked in marketing.

3) I think it’s a lot more ~polished~ in some ways. Beautiful photos, beautiful graphics, beautiful sites, more professional looking. I don’t think it’s a bad or good thing…it’s just a thing that I’ve noticed. I personally want to die thinking of the ugly banners and graphics and grainy pictures I had at first. EYESORES.

4) I think the community has definitely changed on a community level. I don’t quite know how to explain it. I think book blogging finally had an explosion and is way bigger than when I started so that makes it obviously different — growing pains happen with that. It’s also become SO diverse which is amazing and probably the best thing that could have happened — I feel like I’ve learned a lot from the conversations that happen now and I’m thankful for it.

But my own personal experience community-wise has changed. I feel like it was really tight-knit when I started and still very home-y and now I find it’s harder to find my people like I did early on (sadly a lot of those people stopped blogging years ago but they are still my people). Maybe it’s because there are so many people now comparatively and we are all scattered as blogging isn’t the main hangout? I’m not quite sure.

I think also because there’s this huge push for bloggers to be like a ~brand~ also is how the community feels different. And I’m like 50/50 on this…if you read my blog you know it’s home-y and personal but I also totally want to build my platform so I just try to personally operate in that way. So I understand it, and don’t think it’s BAD necessarily because you’ll find the people you want to follow that feel like a good fit for you, but it IS different from when I first started.

But I think the heart of it is still there — super passionate people who love books and want to talk about them and be inspired by them and who find solace in this online book community in a way they might not IRL.

 

 

How do you feel about book bloggers making money  (affiliates, sponsored posts, ads)?

Ooh do I have feelings about this! I remember years ago my feelings were kind of unpopular opinion (some people were only cool with people making money through design/bookish products..which lol sucks for me I’m not talented) but now I don’t think they are as much. I think book bloggers should absolutely make money (if they want to). It’s always surprised me how resistant the community has been as a whole to people who have even brought it up — at least back in the day. I feel like if you don’t WANT to monetize, that’s cool! But I don’t get how people should feel bad about wanting to make money doing something they already love doing?? I mean, that’s the dream right? Finding something you are passionate about and being able to make money doing it?

When I started blogging I saw the community just really start getting ARCs and promo stuff from publishers and I think that felt amazing to get BOOKS GALORE.  But I think the book blogging community started doing even more and more in terms of working with publishers. In other niches, our counterparts were making money and charging for that kind of exposure. I think book bloggers really underestimated their worth and, of course, the publishers aren’t going to pay if they don’t have to because people are content what they are given. It got kind of frustrating because I, and some other long-time bloggers with great stats and standing in the community, dipped our toes in the water on it and the vibe was that basically book bloggers wouldn’t ever be paid for any of it — though others in the book community were being paid from the marketing side vs. the publicity side where bloggers were mostly working with. Sure those influencers have great numbers and reach but some top tier book bloggers also totally did too from the conversations we had privately — different but a powerful reach nonetheless.

And for awhile it became this ~purity~ thing almost…like “I don’t blog for anything except for the love of books!” And I don’t think that’s fair (even if it’s YOUR truth for your own blog) because I think you can blog for a love of books (or anything) and still make money in a non-icky way. I mean, I’ve done this for 8 years so I’d be riled up if someone tried to tell me that for making any money on my blog I did it for anything other than a love of books and reading. I’ve done it this long, largely without making money for the first few years, for A LOT of reasons (community & connection, love of books, having an outlet & voice etc) and certainly the drive has never been about money. I mean, I’ve had jobs that could have paid all the money in the world and I still wouldn’t have been motivated to do them for 8 years like I have blogging.

Sure, there will always be people you can’t trust because they are just in it to make money and will do whatever. 1) don’t trust them or follow them and 2) guess what, there are a lot of people who weren’t so honest just to get favor in the publishers eyes and weren’t getting paid but getting “free” stuff. So yeah, I think bloggers should be able to do sponsored posts and sponsored Instagram posts and whatever. Just be honest about it then people can decide how much stock they take in your opinion.

I think there is a way to be 100% authentic/have integrity and also make money. There are always going to be ~those people~ (and it’s mostly pretty obvious to me) but there are always going to be people who can do it genuinely. I know, for me, I am sooooo picky about what I will accept. I don’t want to do something that I wouldn’t EVER write about naturally. Maybe an opportunity inspires something to write about but I have personally turned down so many actually decent paying posts because they weren’t a good fit or something I’d talk about. I kept thinking, “would I be inspired by this opportunity if it weren’t paid?” and that definitely guides me a lot. I want to be excited about what I’m writing about and that goes for sponsored, paid or even just the posts that I come up with on my own that aren’t paid (like, all of them). I want to be excited and inspired by the things I’m putting out there.

WOW that was a long answer, sorry to whoever asked that. But that’s my thought. Do what you want! And if you don’t want to follow people who might make money, then don’t. But if you trust someone’s opinions, then let them do them. I personally LOVE supporting bloggers I love through their affiliate links if I’m buying something or if they sold me on something. I WANT people who I think are awesome to be able to make money doing the thing they love. And I really only FOLLOW people I trust so, it’s a no-brainer for me personally.

 

 

Okay that’s all the questions I wanted to fit in this section! Feel free to ask any — through the form or in the comments if you have any you want me to answer! This is so fun!!

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Jamie is a 32 year old married lady (with a new baby!!) who is in denial that she's actually that old to be a married lady and a mom. When she's not reading you can find her doing Pilates followed by eating ice cream, belting out Hamilton (loud and offkey) and having adventures with her husband, daughter and rescue dog.

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  1. Sarah's Book Shelves says

    March 8, 2018 at 7:37 am

    I’m so with you on the making money stuff. I do not understand the mentality in the book blogging community – “money is bad”, “we have to do this solely for the love of it”. I do do it for the love of it, but the time it takes is considerable and I’m getting to the point where I want to be paid for the time and effort I put in.

    I’m trying some different ways to make money…not sponsored posts just because I haven’t gotten any real offers that, like you said, really fit with the blog. But, I’m working on rolling out some things that podcasters do, so we’ll see how it goes 🙂

    Thanks for talking about the money thing!

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    • Jamie says

      March 8, 2018 at 7:56 am

      Yeah I just don’t get it! I remember one girl, on Twitter, when I had this discussion YEARS ago was like “I would unfollow any blogger who did did a sponsored post” (which FINE you are allowed to) but meanwhile she was making BANK off ~services~ she offered bloggers. I just remember feeling like “okay it’s okay to make money one way in the community but another (another that I might add just about EVERY niche does make money from!!). I remember what brought up that convo. I got offered a sponsored post for a book that I had wanted to read and I was like YEAH OKAY AWESOME ACCEPTED. And the book was one that I thought would make an amaaaazing book club book so I thought it would be a fun post to make about 8 book club books or something and sponsored by this book. Then I started a discussion around it and got more negative feedback about making money via sponsored posts and got SCARED to do it. This was years ago and I remember how shitty I felt because I WANTED to do it but the community made me feel so icky wanting to do it. So i emailed the person back and said I was happy to do the post FOR FREE since I said yes to it (and I REALLY loved the topic I came up with) but that I had reservations about how the community would react. I’m still so mad at myself for doing it. I wrote the same damn post I would have come up for FOR FREE but could have been compensated for it.

      And like I GET that it could totally change the community…I get it. But 1) so did the introduction of ARCs and all the things that come as “perks” of book blogging (getting invited to do stuff from publishers, promo boxes, etc) and 2) literally every niche in blogging has done it and they are all just fine and filled with people who want to make money and those who truly just want to do it as a hobby blog and it all is great with everyone doing THEM. If you are fake and will do anything for a dime, people will KNOW that.

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  2. Annemieke says

    March 8, 2018 at 8:19 am

    I loved reading your replies to this.

    Reply
    • Jamie says

      March 8, 2018 at 9:29 pm

      Thank you! <333 (Also thank you for always reading & supporting me...I smile every time I see a comment from you!)

      Reply
  3. Kristin (SuperSpaceChick) says

    March 8, 2018 at 10:12 am

    This is a FANTASTIC post Jamie!! <3 I feel so similarly about how the blogging community has changed (I've been blogging for about 8 years as well and I so wish I had known that the book blogging community existed earlier on in my blogging journey) but I also love that your blog is your own and you aren't subject to another companies rules. It definitely gives you more freedom and it allows bloggers to always have their haven. And I agree with you re: paid promotions as well! I think it tends to be obvious when someone is accepting something just for the money vs. sharing something they're actually interested in. I really enjoyed reading all of your answers and I hope you'll do more of these types of posts in the future!

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    • Jamie says

      March 8, 2018 at 9:32 pm

      Thank you, lady! xoxo

      Doesn’t it seem like a lifetime ago that we started our blogs??? Crazy! When did you join the book blogging community for reals?

      YES. It really does seem obvious to me when I go on someone’s blog if they are passionate about it or just getting paid. I mean, I probably won’t judge from ONE post and will peruse the site a little bit but I have like an inner radar that goes off that’s just like “eeeehhh not for me” when it comes to that balance.

      And I will totally do more of these if people ask more q’s!! I’ve loved it. So many thoughtful and interesting questions.

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  4. Sarah J. says

    March 8, 2018 at 12:31 pm

    I remember when money was such a hot topic back in the day. People had strong feelings about money and blogging. It’s nice to see people being more supportive about people wanting to make money for doing the things they love instead of calling them names. I’ve been enjoying your answers! You’ve been in the community for so long and have such insight. I admire your blog so much!

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  5. Laura @BlueEyeBooks says

    March 8, 2018 at 2:14 pm

    I’m also thinking about a redesign but like you, I just don’t have the inspiration! I mostly want to switch to WordPress but that in itself is a redesign and I’m all out of creative juice at the moment.

    I’ve definitely come across the feeling that if you monetize your blog, it’s no longer ‘pure’. Like suddenly you have other motivations to make the most money rather than create content that you enjoy. One of the things I love about the blogging community, though, is that most of the things that you get paid for are things you love doing already so if you truly love blogging and creating, it’s highly unlikely that you’ll be ‘distracted’ by the money part of it. Personally, I decided to monetize because I really want to do more giveaways but I’m a college student so the money isn’t exactly rolling in. All the money I get from monetization goes towards giveaways which I think is the solution for a lot of bloggers like me.

    Laura @BlueEyeBooks

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  6. Dani @ Dani's Bookshelf says

    March 8, 2018 at 2:24 pm

    This post was so helpful! Thank you so much for putting it together and sharing your thoughts. I’m newer to the blogging community, and I’m definitely bookmarking this page so I can refer back to it as I continue to blog!

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    • Jamie says

      March 8, 2018 at 6:37 pm

      Aw thank you!! Let me know if you ever have any specific q’s! I know it can be daunting to be new!

      Reply
  7. Erica Robyn says

    March 8, 2018 at 7:57 pm

    I love this!! What great questions!

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  8. Tizzy Brown says

    March 12, 2018 at 4:06 pm

    It was really interesting to hear your thoughts. I agree with you that blogging feels less close-knit these days because of people being spread over several platforms. I’m on a few social media sites but haven’t used them to their full potential yet, I feel kind of overwhelmed by it all to be honest. Blogging used to seem a lot simpler. I also agree with you that bloggers should earn money if they want to. It’s hard work, and these days with hosting fees, photography props, beautiful designs and so on, it can be expensive to maintain unless you monetise in some way. As long as bloggers are open about their affiliate links and not pushy about selling products then I don’t think it’s a problem at all.

    Reply

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A perfect setting to escape into (Alaska), a tender-hearted meet cute and a poignant look at the shared grieving experience of those left behind.

I was initially drawn, like I always am, to the daughter losing a mother storyline and an exploration of that grief but I was so taken by the father/daughter relationship between two people who were left untethered by losing the person who held their family together.

Greta and her father don't see eye-to-eye on basically anything when they are thrown together on this Alaskan cruise, a trip Greta's father and mother were supposed to take, and you can feel the tension of their long-standing tumultuous and fractured relationship -- a relationship that feels like its hanging in a balance and could not recover.

The two are both hurting so much from this loss  and it took my breath away at times in how true it rang to be in your own grief bubble and feeling like the loss is yours and yours alone while forgetting about the others shouldering their own piece of this loss. I loved watching them very slowly SEE one another.

I can't say enough good things about this one -- great setting, Greta's music, the meet-cute, the messy and imperfect nature of family and love. Definitely recommend!⁣
I was on a hot reading streak and now for the past I was on a hot reading streak and now for the past few days I get all cozy in bed to read at night and am asleep by 4 pages in. Will got a kick out of waking up to me basically spooning my kindle. Ebbs and flows, y’all.⁣
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Let’s do a little reading update with an edition of Last, Current & Next.⁣
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Last - The Girl With the Louding Voice: Adunni is by far one of the most memorable voices I’ve read in a book in a very long time. Her hope and resilience in the face of some awful situations kept me turning the pages and rooting for her. I can’t believe it took me so long to finally read it. Highly recommend!⁣
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Now - Deep in Providence (thank you @fiercereads ): I’m about halfway through after I carved out some time to read early this morning and I’m enjoying this story of grief, love and magic. I’m nervous about these girls trying to resurrect their dead friend though! When I put it down today I was getting a little creeped by some things happening.⁣
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Next - The Kiss of Deception: I’m rereading the first book in this YA fantasy series because it’s been forever and I really wanna finish the trilogy. I’ve been really wanting to go through series I’ve left unfinished for years (not for lack of interest but because I suck at juggling all the series I start) so this is one of them. I remember loving it so I’m excited to dive in and binge. 

Whatcha reading? Have you read any of these? Anyone else on the struggle train with reading at night right now?
Braved the downpour to get my library holds. I hop Braved the downpour to get my library holds. I hope they are worth it! Please tell me they are!⁣
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This is also, before I get to the stack,  an appreciation post for my tiny library and wonderful librarians.⁣
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They normally open at 9am during the week —except Fridays. Did I remember that? Nope. So I was I was SO proud of Riley and I for getting our butts in gear to be for around opening time to drop off a stack and get my new ones.⁣
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And alas, I go to open the door and it’s locked. Now I’m holding Riley’s hand, two tote bags full of books, an umbrella that I’m trying to keep over the both of us, mind you. I’m thoroughly confused until it hits me that it’s Friday.⁣
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So I’m like, welp, guess we are just dropping off in the bin so I try to grab my books out and put them in one-handed while juggling the umbrella and less than enthused Riley.⁣
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Mercifully the door opens and  our children’s librarian takes pity on us and lets us in to drop off and pick up the holds.⁣
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Is this what being a VIP as a celebrity feels like?? Sure feels like it to me 😆 for real though, it pays to be a regular and have a cute kid in tow who is being pelted with rain.⁣
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Anyways excited about this stack but especially Wahala, Daughter of the Moon Goddess and How High We Go In The Dark the most.⁣
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Also have been meaning to snag The World Gives Way after @jordys.book.club recommendation!⁣
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Have you read any of these? Any that you think were definitely worth the rain-soaked journey for??⁣
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Alright now I’m off to curl up and read on this rainy, dreary day which is really what I think a day like this is meant for.
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“Why is it so hard to pick my next read?” — “Why is it so hard to pick my next read?” — she says as she is surrounded by piles on piles of books on the floor and desk and packed on her bookshelf and book cart. (Partner @berkleypub - thanks for the review copy).⁣
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I managed to pick my next read, as chronicled in these photos, but it was not easy with so many options! 

Decided to go with a most anticipated book of 2022 for me from an author who has written books I’ve really enjoyed.
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I am about halfway through and cruising along because I NEED to figure out if Joseph is the worst or what really is going on here in this story that starts with 3 women being stood up by the same guy on Valentine’s Day.  I feel like there is something more to this one but I can’t quite put my finger on it yet! ⁣
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Hoping to finish it this weekend! What are you reading this weekend? And do you have trouble picking your next read? How do you choose amongst all the options?
Sunshine on my face and a mass market fitting perf Sunshine on my face and a mass market fitting perfectly in my hands.⁣…
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Truly felt like there were zero things more joyful than the warm sun on my face after colder, dreary days and remembering how much I love the feel of reading a mass market paperback. It’s probably a very specific little joy of mine and I definitely reveled in it today.⁣
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But the real big joy has been rereading this book and experiencing it all over again before @bridgertonnetflix season 2 — especially the Pall Mall scene. And something to do with a 🐝 😅 iykyk⁣
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With all the joy I’m getting out of this reread it makes me wonder why I don’t prioritize rereading like I used to before I started blogging 10 years ago.⁣
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In my head I just want to experience all the new stories and try to make a dent in my TBR but I forget, until I do it, the genuine pleasure in revisiting old companions and how it’s a different side of reading one can experience — the nostalgia, the person I’ve become since reading the book and the way I approach a book already knowing what happens. Well the general sense of what happens because my memory is 💩!⁣
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Anyways that’s what I’m up to currently. Trying to finish this up so I can pack my books for a short trip I’m going on later this week. My first ✈️ since 2019!⁣
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Whatcha reading? Do you reread often? And tell me a little teeny tiny joy from your day.
If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow m If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow mash up the “screaming, crying”  Blank Space clip with the “emotional damage” refrain to the Bastille’s Pompeii to let you know how I feel after the last few chapters of #TheGildedCage !!⁣
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And if you don’t understand what that means, I’m sorry 😅⁣
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But woo boy do I need the third installment of this series!!! But I also think I’m going to be even more emotional damaged after that one soooo.⁣ 
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Seriously, one of the best simple joys of my life is the feeling of being so wholly and totally invested in a series that you have to remind yourself it’s fiction lest you spend all day in bed crying about the devastated look a character had on their face — a face you didn’t even see with your own two eyes but you are so invested that you feel nauseous and gutted like you sure did.⁣
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Just me orrrrrr?⁣
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No but for real. If you love YA fantasy, go start #theprisonhealer so you can be caught up when The Blood Traitor comes out in June (and be my emotional support person for the duration of reading it). I love these characters and I dying to see what happens next. 

Have you read this series yet? Last book series that had you SCREAMING CRYING THROWING UP because of the EMOTIONAL DAMAGE it inflicted?
A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be bothered to make it pretty — mismatching fuzzy sucks, coffee almost gone and Christmas pajama pants that are super old.⁣
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But y’all Black Cake is so good!! I’m almost halfway through and I know it’s A Choice to declare it one of the best books I’ve read all year but I’m feeling bold based on how it’s going.⁣
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I love a good family story (especially one with a family secret!) and this is top notch. The writing is 👌🏻 and I know I’m going to be screaming when the pieces come together!⁣
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In other news, I’m 65% of the way through The Dry by Jane Harper and I’m enjoying it so much that I ended up staying on the treadmill twice this weekend after my allotted time was over just so I could keep listening.⁣
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Will and I FINALLY started Ted Lasso this weekend. It is a damn delight!! For all the hype and praise, it has overdelivered for me which is kind of shocking because normally hype is scary. I told Will that I feel like all the praise hasn’t even come close to how much I could love it. We are only 7 episodes in so no spoilers!⁣
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I’m kinda mad we sat on starting it for so long but at the same time I think the timing is right to help me see my way out of this February funk I have found myself in the past couple weeks.⁣
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Anyways, hope everyone is having a good weekend! Have you read Black Cake or The Dry? Where are my Ted Lasso fans at? I’m happy to join your ranks! Also please tell me your fave character bc I am finding it impossible to pick this far!
No but seriously every year I contemplate organizi No but seriously every year I contemplate organizing a search party for one Katjay Millay who wrote one beautiful and amazing book and then...vanished.

Like for real. She wrote a tweet in 2015 that she was taking a few weeks off and then.... no tweets, no new books. Radio silence.

I hope she’s okay, for real, and that she knows I obsessively stalk Goodreads/Twitter/the internet to make sure I haven’t missed new book news from her at least twice a year. 🥺

Is there any author who you’ve been waiting forever for a new release from??

I’d also like to add YA author Sarah Ockler to this list! Last release was 2015 😭😭
Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are becoming movies/tv shows soon! And one of them is out TODAY!⁣
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The Sky is Everywhere — it’s out today on AppleTV+ and I can’t wait to sob my brains out. One of my absolute most favorite books ever by one of my all time favorite authors. It’s gorgeous and heartbreaking in its poignant depiction of grief, first love and healing — all woven together in Jandy’s signature gorgeous, lyrical writing.⁣
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Along For The Ride (out April 22) — one of a handful upcoming @sdessen books being adapted in the near future and I can’t wait! These books are so near and dear to my heart.⁣
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No release dates yet for The Summer I Turned Pretty tv series (the ultimate coming of age summertime story!) or The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight (the cutest meet cute of all meet cutes all set in 24 hours) but I am HYPED and have all my fingers crossed for 2022 🤞🤞

Have you read any of these? Anyone else hyped for these adaptations.

Also, for the past few years, I’ve kept a running list of books becoming movies/tv shows for the year. Head to my bio to check out the list! I try to update it weekly and keep on top of it all but life ya know 😆 but I try!
Is this a book club? I think we just started a boo Is this a book club? I think we just started a book club. Or maybe just a @jenniferesmith appreciation club?? (partner @randomhouse )⁣
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Either way, after loving Jennifer E. Smith's YA books for years, it's been a real treat to also read her debut picture book with Riley (we loved!!) as well as her adult debut out in 3 weeks!⁣
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⁣So let me tell you about that adult debut — The Unsinkable Great James!!

This one just was the perfect warm-hearted read for a cold and gloomy January.

A perfect setting to escape into (Alaska), a tender-hearted meet cute and a poignant look at the shared grieving experience of those left behind.

I was initially drawn, like I always am, to the daughter losing a mother storyline and an exploration of that grief but I was so taken by the father/daughter relationship between two people who were left untethered by losing the person who held their family together.

Greta and her father don't see eye-to-eye on basically anything when they are thrown together on this Alaskan cruise, a trip Greta's father and mother were supposed to take, and you can feel the tension of their long-standing tumultuous and fractured relationship -- a relationship that feels like its hanging in a balance and could not recover.

The two are both hurting so much from this loss  and it took my breath away at times in how true it rang to be in your own grief bubble and feeling like the loss is yours and yours alone while forgetting about the others shouldering their own piece of this loss. I loved watching them very slowly SEE one another.

I can't say enough good things about this one -- great setting, Greta's music, the meet-cute, the messy and imperfect nature of family and love. Definitely recommend!⁣

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