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In Which I Compare My Blogging Problems To That Of Someone Who Makes Millions

June 29, 2011 - Updated May 7, 2019 // 21 Comments

I feel like Ryan Howard last year in the middle of his batting slump. I get all ready to write a review, I have major thoughts about a book, I open up Blogger….and NOTHING. 1, 2, 3 strikes and I’m out. And I get so discouraged. SO discouraged. I think that maybe I’m not cut out for book blogging…which I know is just the kind of self doubt you have in the midst of a slump. I’m sure Ryan Howard, or any slugger for that matter, sits there and thinks…”I just don’t even know what it feels like to hit a home run again. How do I do it? Am I capable of it?” And that is the kind of defeated attitude that gets you in your own head and causes you to continue the slump. You have to start small. Stop thinking about hitting it out of the parks or having the winning run in a big game. Think about just getting on base…connecting with the ball.

All this baseball talk aside (sorry guys, I’m a huge baseball nut…and my boyfriend would be really proud of this post lol), that is what I’m doing. In the midst of my reviewing slump, I’m just starting small. I’m jumping back on the blog just to write this post. Because…hey…I’m writing something. Baby steps. Maybe tonight I’ll have the motivation to write a review–albeit shorter than my normal reviews.

I’ve talked about having major reading slumps and how to get out of them before but I’ve never had a reviewing slump this bad. Jen from Makeshift Bookmark and I were discussing this the other day about how we both are kind of in this weird little slump of not wanting to write reviews. I am reading tons but for whatever reason it ends there. Sometimes I just get these urges to read and not analyze the text to death or to just let my thoughts about the book just BE. Sometimes I don’t feel like formulating my thoughts about a book because I just loved it so much and the only thing I have to say is I FREAKING LOVE THIS BOOK. My reviews tend to be a mix of personal reactions and feelings and a bit of analysis like a tradition review…but sometimes I don’t want to think of anything except thrusting the book in other people’s hands! Or sometimes I liked the book but it didn’t really inspire me to say too much. Or I feel like everything has been already said a million times about a particular book and I think, “does anybody really care what I think about this book when everyone in the blogosphere has already reviewed it?”

The other issue is that I’ve been a little bit preoccupied with some other things going on in my life. Good things…that hopefully I can tell you soon! So when I sit down to write a review, I end up doing a million other things related to the other happenings in my life.

What about you guys? Have you ever been in a reviewing slump before? Have you ever felt like sometimes you just want READ and not write about it…you know..just let the book and your thoughts BE? How do you get out of your slumps? Or does it just always feel so natural for you to read and then want to write about it?

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  1. Annette says

    June 29, 2011 at 1:34 pm

    I have this thing about reviewing every book I read. I feel like I don't get "credit" for it unless I review it. But that's just me. And nothing says every review has to be in depth. One can just be a "fan girl" OMG I Loved this book! review, and another can be more "intellectual." Don't sweat it. It's about the books, right? Just read and relax and take a break if you need it.

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  2. Jessi says

    June 29, 2011 at 1:36 pm

    I feel the same way a lot of time. Sometimes I really just want to read a book and not think about it too much during/after. Actually, that's been happening a lot more lately…I want to enjoy my summer and read my time away. I've had to start giving myself permission NOT to review a book if I don't really feel like it. (unless of course it's a review copy, lol!) I still firmly believe that blogging should really be fun and about sharing something you're passionate about.

    There's my two cents. Sorry to ramble! 🙂

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  3. Sarah says

    June 29, 2011 at 1:40 pm

    I really enjoy reviewing b/c I feel that once I get my thoughts out there about a book, it brings a certain closure and then I can start the next book (which is why I review books the same day I finish them).

    I think that it might be that you're worrying too much about it being a well-written review. If you love a book so much and that's all you want say about it, that should be your post! A short review in which you gush about a book will definitely make me want to read it. Some books, like classics, are worth some literary analysis. But for the majority of fiction out there, I think it's okay to say "Hey I liked this, and I didn't like this, I would/wouldn't recommend it" and leave the review at that.

    Or maybe I'm just a lazy book blogger 🙂 But personally, I love those little post-its notes that you do b/c they're to the point and get your strongest feelings across. Even if you do just a post-it note for the whole review, just the act of writing that post-it & posting frequently might help get you out of your reviewing slump.

    Sorry, I hope that helps :-/

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  4. ComaCalm says

    June 29, 2011 at 1:43 pm

    I've started to struggle with reviews lately. Not quite as bad as you though! At the beginning of the month I could write a 450 word review, easy. Now I'm struggling to write my minimum, 300 words. I write about 200 and then I'm like, now what? Hopefully I get out of it soon! And hopefully so will you!

    ComaCalm's Corner

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  5. Jasmine (The Reading Housewives) says

    June 29, 2011 at 1:53 pm

    I'm starting to feel like I'm saying the same things over and over again in reviews…:-/ So I'm kind of right there with you in your slump!

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  6. Kelly says

    June 29, 2011 at 2:34 pm

    I agree with what everyone else has already said. A couple months ago, I went through a major slump where I wanted to completely stop blogging. I got back into blogging, but now that I've been posting almost every day, I'm falling back into a slump. I don't feel like reviewing everything I read. Right now, I keep thinking about how I need to post a review of The Magnolia League, and I just don't want to do it. I like to read things and just let them be without always having to share my thoughts with others. Plus, sometimes, I just don't know what to say about a book I read, whether I liked it or not, and sometimes I do feel like I'm not saying anything that hasn't already been said. And as Jasmine pointed out, I also feel like I say the same things over and over in my reviews. I always talk about characters and how awesome they are or how much I loved the story. Apparently, the best I can do lately is write a bunch of adjectives to describe a character or the story, instead of being able to talk about the things I loved in any kind of depth.

    Take a break if you need it. I think I'm going to. It can really help. BTW, I loved your baseball analogies. Sports analogies make me really happy. 🙂

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  7. Melanie says

    June 29, 2011 at 2:36 pm

    I'm definitely in a similar head space right now. I think part of it, for me, is being in CA and not wanting to spend the limited time I have here reviewing. I might write a few, but I'd rather save up my notes and write when I get back to NY, I guess.

    Another part is, like Jasmine said, struggling with trying to keep things fresh because it is easy to slip into using the same language over and over.

    In general, the truth is that I've never liked writing. It's something that I have always been told that I'm good at, but that I never quite enjoyed. In that sense, I do wonder why I create the pressure for myself to have to write all the time, but I love having written.

    As much as I hate the process of getting reviews out there, I love the community that it allows me to participate in and the people that I get to talk books with in other lower pressure ways. There are a million times that I'd like to just read and move on, but then I'd miss out on getting to talk to all of my bookish friends.

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  8. Jen (Makeshift Bookmark) says

    June 29, 2011 at 3:40 pm

    You know I'm right there with you, lady <3 but honestly, I think we just need to read a book that makes us NEED to review it. For me, that book was Bloodlines. I just wrote a review 🙂

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  9. Karen says

    June 29, 2011 at 10:53 pm

    Sometimes when I read a book that I liked but don't feel like writing a review for, all I have to do is start talking to a friend/sibling/co-worker about the book. It's like all of a sudden I remember all the things I have to say about the book. Then after the conversation, it's much easier to write the review.

    Book Light Graveyard

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  10. Julia :) says

    June 30, 2011 at 1:10 am

    I've definitely felt this way before! I just can't express my thoughts right, or maybe it just all comes out wrong. Normally I'll flip through the book again and then it will remind me of what I loved/didn't love about it and then I'll be able to write about it. 🙂

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  11. Michelle says

    June 30, 2011 at 2:15 am

    I tend to review in spurts, either on the weekends or during quiet times at work. I definitely don't force the issue. I used to fo that and absolutely hated those reviews; they just don't flow well. I say that you should give yourself a break on reviews, otherwise you are just going to begin to hate writing them. Good luck!

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  12. thelibrarianreads says

    June 30, 2011 at 4:18 pm

    I'm with everyone else…take a break if you need it!

    That being said, I don't mind a short sweet post that simply says…Loved it, Read it now…perhaps a post with a few books you've read, enjoyed, and have no need to talk about. Picture heavy and shortly worded…I'll admit, that sometimes I really enjoy reading posts like that 😉 one more small step back in the game. Good Luck!

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  13. Daisy says

    June 30, 2011 at 7:05 pm

    Oh gosh, a big NO to it always coming natural! I had a big reviewing slump a couple of months ago and had to push myself to write them. And then they felt uninspired.
    But the good thing: it went away on it's own. So take your time, review when you feel like it. And you don't have to review every book you read, some you can just enjoy for what they are: amazing reads 🙂

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  14. Jennifer says

    June 30, 2011 at 7:33 pm

    I'm feeling a bit like that now. I have several things I'm dying to read and review, but that's my personal list. I've got several review copies to get through first. I consider those to be professional commitments, and I try to put my best effort into it. Sometimes there's not much left for me!

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  15. Cozy in Texas says

    June 30, 2011 at 11:22 pm

    I think no matter what we are doing we get into a slump. A change is as good as a rest so they say.
    Ann

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  16. Caro says

    July 1, 2011 at 5:04 am

    I hear ya. I had the same problem when I started blogging. For what it's worth, it's normal for you to feel this way considering you're reorganizing your schedule. It'll come back to you.

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  17. April (BooksandWine) says

    July 1, 2011 at 6:41 pm

    I can sort of relate, but I end up just forcing myself, because otherwise the need to be reviewed queue is going to get way more out of control.

    However, if you don't want to write a review for something, don't. Otherwise, maybe just do a series of post it reviews for books you don't feel like reviewing. Maybe you might also want to look into doing a video review, mainly because your vlogs are awesome.

    Also, I think your awesome good things take precedence over book blogging!

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  18. bookmagic says

    July 2, 2011 at 4:09 pm

    sometimes I do mini-reviews when I don't feel like reviewing.

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  19. Tahleen says

    July 6, 2011 at 3:48 am

    I honestly don't understand why bloggers feel so compelled to write a review of everything they read. And I'm guilty of it too; but I made it a new year's resolution to NOT review every book I read. It gets ridiculous and would drive me crazy if I let it. I need books that I can just read and not worry about reviewing.

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  20. Ashley says

    July 6, 2011 at 7:42 am

    I don't review every book I read. Not even close. If I don't have a lot to say about a book, I update it as read on Goodreads, write a short sentence or two with some brief or vague thoughts on the book (maybe, if I feel like it) and leave it at that. I keep thoughts in a notebook, so that if I decide a bit later that I want to review it, I have some notes to refresh my memory, but I have no desire to review every book I read.

    I only review the book if I FEEL something while reading it, good or bad, or if I feel like I have something to add to the discussion. If all I feel is neutral, or ambivalent, I don't try to force a review.

    I don't see anything wrong with you writing a review that says- YAY!! OMG! I LOVED THIS BOOK! 😛 Sometimes, that's about all there is to say! Start there & add a bullet list of why. Then, expound or not… Go from there.

    Or, if I don't know how I really feel, or what I want to say, I have a conversation with my best friend. I talk about everything I did and didn't like, give her a synopsis, talk myself out about the book. We read a lot of really different books, so I never worry too much about spoilers (:P) and it really helps me direct my reviews because the reviews usually come out a slightly more coherent version of that conversation. 🙂

    So, do what works for you. And honestly, (maybe this will be a rude/unpopular/snobbish sounding this to say… BUT) you don't actually us anything. We all love you and read your blog, but it's something for you. If what you are doing ins't working for you, change it. Do something different. Make it something you do enjoy. Just do your super awesome post-it review. If you feel like every book has to get blog time, do periodic lists of Here are the books I read that I don't want to review with one line about thoughts/feelings. Or something.

    Make it about you. You should be happy with it first, and then worry about the rest of us. 🙂

    That being said, if you disappear… Imma be super sad… Remember? I sent you a song!! 🙂 <3s Jamie! <3s!!

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  21. Stephany says

    July 10, 2011 at 4:31 am

    I'm in a reviewing slump right now. I have yet to figure out how to get out of it. I've been reading A LOT of books, but I haven't reviewed any of them. As you know, I lost the internet for a while, so I was ABLE to post any. But now I'm back online, and I'm just in a slump. I love to come to other review bloggers sites to read THEIR reviews on books, but I'm just not in the mood to review myself. Have you found anything to get you out of your slump yet?

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And if you don’t understand what that means, I’m sorry 😅⁣
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But woo boy do I need the third installment of this series!!! But I also think I’m going to be even more emotional damaged after that one soooo.⁣ 
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Next - The Kiss of Deception: I’m rereading the first book in this YA fantasy series because it’s been forever and I really wanna finish the trilogy. I’ve been really wanting to go through series I’ve left unfinished for years (not for lack of interest but because I suck at juggling all the series I start) so this is one of them. I remember loving it so I’m excited to dive in and binge. 

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Braved the downpour to get my library holds. I hop Braved the downpour to get my library holds. I hope they are worth it! Please tell me they are!⁣
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This is also, before I get to the stack,  an appreciation post for my tiny library and wonderful librarians.⁣
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They normally open at 9am during the week —except Fridays. Did I remember that? Nope. So I was I was SO proud of Riley and I for getting our butts in gear to be for around opening time to drop off a stack and get my new ones.⁣
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And alas, I go to open the door and it’s locked. Now I’m holding Riley’s hand, two tote bags full of books, an umbrella that I’m trying to keep over the both of us, mind you. I’m thoroughly confused until it hits me that it’s Friday.⁣
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So I’m like, welp, guess we are just dropping off in the bin so I try to grab my books out and put them in one-handed while juggling the umbrella and less than enthused Riley.⁣
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Mercifully the door opens and  our children’s librarian takes pity on us and lets us in to drop off and pick up the holds.⁣
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Is this what being a VIP as a celebrity feels like?? Sure feels like it to me 😆 for real though, it pays to be a regular and have a cute kid in tow who is being pelted with rain.⁣
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Anyways excited about this stack but especially Wahala, Daughter of the Moon Goddess and How High We Go In The Dark the most.⁣
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Also have been meaning to snag The World Gives Way after @jordys.book.club recommendation!⁣
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Have you read any of these? Any that you think were definitely worth the rain-soaked journey for??⁣
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Alright now I’m off to curl up and read on this rainy, dreary day which is really what I think a day like this is meant for.
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“Why is it so hard to pick my next read?” — “Why is it so hard to pick my next read?” — she says as she is surrounded by piles on piles of books on the floor and desk and packed on her bookshelf and book cart. (Partner @berkleypub - thanks for the review copy).⁣
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I managed to pick my next read, as chronicled in these photos, but it was not easy with so many options! 

Decided to go with a most anticipated book of 2022 for me from an author who has written books I’ve really enjoyed.
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I am about halfway through and cruising along because I NEED to figure out if Joseph is the worst or what really is going on here in this story that starts with 3 women being stood up by the same guy on Valentine’s Day.  I feel like there is something more to this one but I can’t quite put my finger on it yet! ⁣
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Hoping to finish it this weekend! What are you reading this weekend? And do you have trouble picking your next read? How do you choose amongst all the options?
Sunshine on my face and a mass market fitting perf Sunshine on my face and a mass market fitting perfectly in my hands.⁣…
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Truly felt like there were zero things more joyful than the warm sun on my face after colder, dreary days and remembering how much I love the feel of reading a mass market paperback. It’s probably a very specific little joy of mine and I definitely reveled in it today.⁣
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But the real big joy has been rereading this book and experiencing it all over again before @bridgertonnetflix season 2 — especially the Pall Mall scene. And something to do with a 🐝 😅 iykyk⁣
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With all the joy I’m getting out of this reread it makes me wonder why I don’t prioritize rereading like I used to before I started blogging 10 years ago.⁣
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In my head I just want to experience all the new stories and try to make a dent in my TBR but I forget, until I do it, the genuine pleasure in revisiting old companions and how it’s a different side of reading one can experience — the nostalgia, the person I’ve become since reading the book and the way I approach a book already knowing what happens. Well the general sense of what happens because my memory is 💩!⁣
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Anyways that’s what I’m up to currently. Trying to finish this up so I can pack my books for a short trip I’m going on later this week. My first ✈️ since 2019!⁣
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Whatcha reading? Do you reread often? And tell me a little teeny tiny joy from your day.
If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow m If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow mash up the “screaming, crying”  Blank Space clip with the “emotional damage” refrain to the Bastille’s Pompeii to let you know how I feel after the last few chapters of #TheGildedCage !!⁣
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And if you don’t understand what that means, I’m sorry 😅⁣
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But woo boy do I need the third installment of this series!!! But I also think I’m going to be even more emotional damaged after that one soooo.⁣ 
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Seriously, one of the best simple joys of my life is the feeling of being so wholly and totally invested in a series that you have to remind yourself it’s fiction lest you spend all day in bed crying about the devastated look a character had on their face — a face you didn’t even see with your own two eyes but you are so invested that you feel nauseous and gutted like you sure did.⁣
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Just me orrrrrr?⁣
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No but for real. If you love YA fantasy, go start #theprisonhealer so you can be caught up when The Blood Traitor comes out in June (and be my emotional support person for the duration of reading it). I love these characters and I dying to see what happens next. 

Have you read this series yet? Last book series that had you SCREAMING CRYING THROWING UP because of the EMOTIONAL DAMAGE it inflicted?
A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be bothered to make it pretty — mismatching fuzzy sucks, coffee almost gone and Christmas pajama pants that are super old.⁣
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But y’all Black Cake is so good!! I’m almost halfway through and I know it’s A Choice to declare it one of the best books I’ve read all year but I’m feeling bold based on how it’s going.⁣
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I love a good family story (especially one with a family secret!) and this is top notch. The writing is 👌🏻 and I know I’m going to be screaming when the pieces come together!⁣
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In other news, I’m 65% of the way through The Dry by Jane Harper and I’m enjoying it so much that I ended up staying on the treadmill twice this weekend after my allotted time was over just so I could keep listening.⁣
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Will and I FINALLY started Ted Lasso this weekend. It is a damn delight!! For all the hype and praise, it has overdelivered for me which is kind of shocking because normally hype is scary. I told Will that I feel like all the praise hasn’t even come close to how much I could love it. We are only 7 episodes in so no spoilers!⁣
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I’m kinda mad we sat on starting it for so long but at the same time I think the timing is right to help me see my way out of this February funk I have found myself in the past couple weeks.⁣
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Anyways, hope everyone is having a good weekend! Have you read Black Cake or The Dry? Where are my Ted Lasso fans at? I’m happy to join your ranks! Also please tell me your fave character bc I am finding it impossible to pick this far!
No but seriously every year I contemplate organizi No but seriously every year I contemplate organizing a search party for one Katjay Millay who wrote one beautiful and amazing book and then...vanished.

Like for real. She wrote a tweet in 2015 that she was taking a few weeks off and then.... no tweets, no new books. Radio silence.

I hope she’s okay, for real, and that she knows I obsessively stalk Goodreads/Twitter/the internet to make sure I haven’t missed new book news from her at least twice a year. 🥺

Is there any author who you’ve been waiting forever for a new release from??

I’d also like to add YA author Sarah Ockler to this list! Last release was 2015 😭😭
Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are becoming movies/tv shows soon! And one of them is out TODAY!⁣
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The Sky is Everywhere — it’s out today on AppleTV+ and I can’t wait to sob my brains out. One of my absolute most favorite books ever by one of my all time favorite authors. It’s gorgeous and heartbreaking in its poignant depiction of grief, first love and healing — all woven together in Jandy’s signature gorgeous, lyrical writing.⁣
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Along For The Ride (out April 22) — one of a handful upcoming @sdessen books being adapted in the near future and I can’t wait! These books are so near and dear to my heart.⁣
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No release dates yet for The Summer I Turned Pretty tv series (the ultimate coming of age summertime story!) or The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight (the cutest meet cute of all meet cutes all set in 24 hours) but I am HYPED and have all my fingers crossed for 2022 🤞🤞

Have you read any of these? Anyone else hyped for these adaptations.

Also, for the past few years, I’ve kept a running list of books becoming movies/tv shows for the year. Head to my bio to check out the list! I try to update it weekly and keep on top of it all but life ya know 😆 but I try!
Is this a book club? I think we just started a boo Is this a book club? I think we just started a book club. Or maybe just a @jenniferesmith appreciation club?? (partner @randomhouse )⁣
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Either way, after loving Jennifer E. Smith's YA books for years, it's been a real treat to also read her debut picture book with Riley (we loved!!) as well as her adult debut out in 3 weeks!⁣
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⁣So let me tell you about that adult debut — The Unsinkable Great James!!

This one just was the perfect warm-hearted read for a cold and gloomy January.

A perfect setting to escape into (Alaska), a tender-hearted meet cute and a poignant look at the shared grieving experience of those left behind.

I was initially drawn, like I always am, to the daughter losing a mother storyline and an exploration of that grief but I was so taken by the father/daughter relationship between two people who were left untethered by losing the person who held their family together.

Greta and her father don't see eye-to-eye on basically anything when they are thrown together on this Alaskan cruise, a trip Greta's father and mother were supposed to take, and you can feel the tension of their long-standing tumultuous and fractured relationship -- a relationship that feels like its hanging in a balance and could not recover.

The two are both hurting so much from this loss  and it took my breath away at times in how true it rang to be in your own grief bubble and feeling like the loss is yours and yours alone while forgetting about the others shouldering their own piece of this loss. I loved watching them very slowly SEE one another.

I can't say enough good things about this one -- great setting, Greta's music, the meet-cute, the messy and imperfect nature of family and love. Definitely recommend!⁣

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