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The Ultimate Plan To Make Winter Suck Less (And Maybe Enjoy It Even)

October 31, 2020 - Updated January 24, 2021 // 32 Comments

WE HAVE OFFICIALLY ENTERED THE SEASON WHERE IT IS DARK ALL THE TIME UNTIL FOREVER. No, but seriously, I almost cried yesterday when it was dark before 5pm and I started missing our late evening summertime walks with my family. I had to take out my journal that I made a few years ago in a winter meltdown and read it again to remind myself all the ways to enjoy winter more (and chip away at my hatred for it).

I can honestly say I have always been one of the most miserable human beings in existence once Winter hits. I hate the cold weather and I overall hate the snow (I like how PRETTY it looks when I don’t have to go out in it??) and the slushy sleet and the cold temperatures that hurt my body. I hate taking my dog out in said awful weather, I hate going anywhere with a child to bundle and get in the car in the cold weather. I HATE LIVING IN A COLD CLIMATE.

Even with all that hatred, I have also always loved certain THINGS about the cold weather seasons, but overall I just always found myself very grumbly and miserable and I really, really struggled.

But then I got sick of being miserable and hating winter every year (because it’s not going anywhere unless I move) so I devised a plan that has helped me (and help any of you other winter haters) to make winter suck less — and hey maybe actually learn how to love winter….but at the very least be able to cope with winter.

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Tips For How To Enjoy Winter More

For me, when it comes to enjoying winter, it’s an EVERY YEAR PROCESS. As I said at the beginning of this post, I have to look over this list of tips to embrace winter and survive winter EVERY SINGLE YEAR.

I wish I could say that I LOVE winter now but so far that hasn’t happened. However, I’ve definitely been able to make winter better with these tips and strategies.

So let’s get on with it, fellow winter-strugglers, and work on getting ourselves to a better place:

1. Make a list of things I love about winter

I did this a couple years ago and it really helped. Mindset really is huge for trying to learn to enjoy winter because I think coping comes first and, for me, coping involves my mindset.

I would pull my list out on days I struggled and it would help remind me of the things that are delightful about it or that I can’t enjoy during other seasons so that I can embrace those things.

It’s the same concept of a gratitude list basically and I know some people roll their eyes but this is an important part of the process — picking out the things you actually enjoy about winter or looking at all the things you can’t do in any other season.

It’s much easier to not be miserable if I actively think about the things I DO love which are plentiful — even if they are really, really small things.

So, for example, my list looks like this:

  • comfy oversized sweaters and leggings
  • fuzzy socks
  • sitting in watching Netflix all day and not feeling bad about wasting a nice sunny day like I would in the summer
  • not shaving my legs every other day like I would if I was wearing dresses or shorts every day
  • all the hot beverages!!
  • watching snow fall (nope nope I won’t think about having to shovel my car out or take my dog out or having to drive in it)
  • no mosquitoes or bees driving me nuts
  • busting my comforter out (I really think I sleep better all snuggled under that thing)
  • snuggling under blankets and reading (or just snuggling)
  • BOOTS! SLIPPERS!
  • Christmas season — all the lights and decorations
  • all the chili and soups
  • being lazy and slowing down a bit

For real, I want you to do it. Go buy yourself a new notebook and write this list down for reference later on.

2. Make a list of things I want to do or hobbies I want to try that I never NORMALLY have time for

That last thing I put on the above list “what I enjoy” list is important — Will and I tend to slow down in the winter. When it’s nice out we are always out and about even if it is just to take walks or just sit outside somewhere. I always feel like I need to be DOING something.

In the summer (or whenever the weather is nice out) I feel like I’m wasting my life away inside if I just spend time doing nothing.

We also have less plans with people in the Winter — no BBQs or festivals or things. So what a perfect time to learn something I’ve always wanted to learn or take up a new hobby!

Some things I’ve come up with for winter:

  • work on my baking skills
  • Start up relearning Spanish — I took Spanish for YEARS back in high school and college and then for our trip to Madrid I started using Duolingo again to brush up and then I got busy and didn’t keep up with it.
  • Practice yoga (I’ve dabbled here and there with Yoga With Adrienne)
  • work on my photography skills (and actually learn how to use my DSLR)
  • make homemade soups

Some inspiration:

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3. Have a more appropriate wardrobe

I always remember this quote, “there’s no such thing as bad weather, only bad clothing.” or something along those lines. It’s a Scandinavian principle, I believe, AND IT IS SO TRUE. (There’s even a parenting book with the same title, okay).

I mean, there totally is bad weather and no matter what ensemble you put on it’s still going to be inclement weather and cold as anything. BUT I’ve noticed, as I’ve gotten older, I’ve been buying more appropriate clothing for winter and it REALLY does make a difference.

A couple years ago I FINALLY invested in a really, really warm winter coat and that helped TREMENDOUSLY when I did have to be outside. I always bought really cheap and cute jackets that were NOT WARM at all, which made the cold awful, but spending $$ on a really warm jacket was key. 

My go-to throughout my 20’s was to just put a light cardigan over short sleeve blouses and tank tops and call it a winter outfit because I hated winter clothes. NO WONDER I WAS ALWAYS SO COLD AND MISERABLE.

I’ve started perfecting my winter weather wardrobe in my 30’s and it really has been a game-changer for both when I’m inside to be cozy and warm and when I do venture outside. This article is an awesome help for being warm outside in the cold.

Let me help you with those cold weather essentials — I’ve kind of nailed my winter wardrobe lately:

Things you need: super warm jacket, warm socks and slippers, wool socks for outside, fleece lined leggings/cozy sweatpants, oversized cozy sweaters, comfy sweatshirts, hats/scarves/gloves that are actually warm and the coziest pajamas.

Some of my current winter faves:

4. Embrace hygge

what is hygge

Many years ago I stumbled upon the concept of hygge while reading a magazine and was intrigued. NOW there are a ton of books dedicated to the concept of hygge which is awesome because I have been itching to delve into what hygge is but I really want to stay grounded in what hygge REALLY is!

You can read a little bit about it here or check out these books for more inspiration:

 

I love how the article I linked to doesn’t make it seem like a lifestyle or something you can BUY or a certain style but it is rather a feeling. I started thinking about what to me evokes the feelings of coziness, charm or feelings of special-ness for me.

I made some private Pinterest boards to help me like a ~vision board~ and here’s a couple of the things I came up with based on all the things I DID like about winter or that evoked those feelings above in me.

  • Create a cozy blanket and pillow fort to read in: Some of my favorite moments that I savor, especially since becoming a mom, are the times I can get comfy under my blankets and read. It really is something that feels so cozy and like all is right in the world. Especially when I share the moment with my 3 year old who loves books.
 
  • Buy some special winter-y cocoas and teas to drink: There is nothing that feels more cozy to me than sitting down with a warm beverage but so many times I do it while multi-tasking. I want to buy some special (maybe even more expensive than my every-day tea) to drink ONLY while sitting and doing nothing.
  • Plan a casual dinner with my girlfriends and their families: I’m thinking a laid back ~throw something in a crockpot~ sort of dinner. Enjoying time with my best friends and their families seriously always makes me grateful — always lots of laughs and good conversation. It’s always such a special time to me to spend time with them as we all have kids and are so busy now.

Also does this game not look like the coziest thing ever to break out with friends?

  • Buy new candles and actually light them on a regular basis: I just find candles to be cozy and evoke warm and fuzzy feelings. But I have a terrible tendency to forget to light them unless someone is coming over.
  • Have a coffee date with a friend at least once a month: I love everything about meeting up for coffee with a friend — the drinks, the ambiance, the conversation, the smell of the coffee shop. Especially in the winter what a lovely feeling it is to walk into a nice cozy cafe for a warm drink after being outside in the cold.
  • Break out our flannel sheets: I was thinking about what a simple luxury it is to have warm & cozy sheets! Our flannel sheets have been life-changing, I tell you!!
  • Make a tradition to spend 1 weekend morning to have a special at-home breakfast: One of my favorite things is always to be in our pajamas and Will making pancakes while I make some coffee or tea. It’s super cozy. Some recipes on my list to make this Winter in addition to our staples (chocolate chip pancakes, homemade breakfast sandwiches, breakfast burritos with chorizo from Whole foods/spicy potatoes/scrambled eggs in them) are: Gingerbread french toast, cinnamon roll pancakes, and this breakfast casserole.

 

5. Throw it back to childhood

I didn’t hate Winter as a kid. I really didn’t. Perhaps it’s because I wasn’t forced to shovel a car out or drive in the miserable weather or because the fun of being out in the snow trumped how cold I was. BUT EITHER WAY…I didn’t always hate winter.

I used to love things like:

  • sledding
  • building a snowman
  • building a snowfort
  • take walks in the snow
  • playing with my dog in the snow
  • drinking hot cocoa after playing in the snow
  • eating allllll the grilled cheese and soup in the winter
  • skiing
  • snow days staying in my pajamas

So I started doing all the things I loved doing as a kid. I play with Riley in the snow, we plan luxurious pajama days and hide away inside eating grilled cheeses and soups, we drink lots of hot cocoa.

Find things you loved as a kid and incorporate them into your winter days as a grownup. Maybe have a grilled cheese throw down to see who can make the best grownup grilled cheese. Have a themed movie marathon like my sister and I would on some snow days. Play out in the snow with your kid or dog.

Finding that small spark of childhood winters help to make adult winters more enjoyable!

6. Make an ultimate cozy winter reading list

Seriously, I make the most epic to-be-read list for Winter! Like super cozy feeling books but also like books from favorite authors that will feel like ~home~ and definitely some cozy romances!!

ALSO this Winter I’m totally going to read books I loved as a kid. I feel like nothing evokes hygge, to me, like settling in with familiar friends.

Let’s be real — reading makes every season better but sitting inside in your nice warm home and reading books is a foolproof to make winter less miserable — especially when you can.

Need some reading inspiration? Try to tackle this list of books becoming movies in 2021. Or maybe try one of these new young adult books for 2021?

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7. Force yourself outside

As much as I would always try to minimize my time outside in the Winter, I realized maybe what I need IS to breathe some fresh air and try to get that Vitamin D for the little time we do have it.

And science agrees with me — it’s good for your mood and your health.

So I bundle up (with all those WINTER APPROPRIATE CLOTHES I AM BUYING) and take a walk or take Riley to the park.

Take advantage of the days that are a little warmer. Bundle up and get out. Plan activities that will take you out of the house sometimes instead of hibernating all the time and then getting so stir crazy. Pick one of these 100 outdoor winter activities to do.

8. Look into light therapy lamps

I have friends who SWEAR by light boxes for Seasonal Affective Disorder which I’m pretty sure IS some of my (and maybe your) problem when it comes to winter. Consult your doctor before doing so but they do seem to be a good option to add to your arsenal.

Sidenote: if you do think it is depression — seek help! Winter can be SO hard in this regard and I don’t think any of these things on this list are more important than talking to a professional. Truly.

9. Start a Spring Countdown

I still think of this post a friend wrote a while ago because I struggled so much and I related.

I can do all of those things I’ve listed above but a reminder that IT WILL be over is sometimes needed. Winter will end, spring will come. The days will start to get longer. Just like it has before and will continue to do.

Counting down til it gets lighter and winter is over sometimes is the best medicine. KNOWING you’ve survived it before helps tremendously in making winter more enjoyable.

It’s literally only a season. Repeat it: IT IS ONLY A SEASON (also my motherhood mantra). YOU CAN DO THIS.

10. Make a “look forward to” list

Related to that last one: I think, for me sometimes, spending time planning things to look forward to helps me — even though I know being in the present IS important and probably a better coping mechanism.

But sometimes I just need to focus on all the good things to come to take my mind off how much I hate winter.

Maybe that looks like:

  • planning a weekend trip for when the weather gets a little nicer
  • looking into vacations for summer
  • looking at spring/summer fashion trends and picking some new pieces to add to your wardrobe that you can’t WAIT to wear
  • looking at upcoming local festivals and events to add to your calendar
  • get tickets to something you enjoy: concert, a sports game, a play, etc.

Or maybe you PLAN a January or February special trip or event and you can have that to look forward to.

HAVE THINGS TO LOOK FORWARD TO. That’s the key.

Whether it’s things that fall in the Winter months or further in the future…make it a point to plan those things.

11. Create a winter bucket list

I always love making seasonal bucket lists especially now that I have a kid — even easier to add things to the bucket list! Pinterest has some great inspiration for these that helped me get started.

Having a specific set of things to check off a list (that you WANT to do) will help focus my attention and is part of that “have something to look forward to ” concept above.

12. Stop talking about how much winter sucks

Honestly, this is the biggest thing I realized. The more I complain about it or think about the things I don’t like about winter it snowballs into the biggest snowball of negativity you’ve ever seen.

I swear complaining begets complaining for me in the winter. Talking about how miserable winter is….makes it more miserable.

It’s sounds simple but it’s been one of the hardest of these things to tackle on my list.

So this is my plan of attack to make winter more enjoyable!! I would LOVE to hear your strategy to make winter suck less! Or if you are a Winter lover….tell me what you love about Winter! SHOW ME THE JOY OF WINTER & HOW YOU ACTUALLY ENJOY WINTER!

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  1. Lauren @ Bookmark Lit says

    November 6, 2017 at 12:21 pm

    I’m totally with you about the winter clothes! I always used to wear my usual summer/spring clothes and just add a cardigan on top. This can work sometimes (like with a really cozy sweater on top) but not always, since so many of my cardigans are thinner ones from Old Navy. I’ve recently started investing in huge sweaters and boots and warm socks because it really makes all the difference.

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    • Jamie says

      November 6, 2017 at 7:22 pm

      YES sometimes it totally works but, like you, most of my cardigans were cheap, thin Forever 21 or Old Navy ones too! Is this adulthood…buying appropriate clothing for the season?? As a teen I used to try to sneak out of the house without a coat because I didn’t want it to cover my outfit

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  2. Michaela says

    November 6, 2017 at 12:40 pm

    I think I need to follow your lead and do this for myself, cause the winter really affects me, too! Great post!

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    • Jamie says

      November 6, 2017 at 7:21 pm

      Thank you! WE WILL DO IT…conquer those Winter blahs!!

      Reply
  3. Jo says

    November 6, 2017 at 1:26 pm

    I actually do like Winter, I’m not overly keen on the cold, but I love getting bundled up in all of my comfy winter clothing and having the excuse to have hot chocolate every day just because it’s so cold. I obviously love Christmas as well, so as soon as the holiday season starts, any apathy I had about cold weather kind of melts away! I pretty much have the entirety of December off Uni, which means I have time to just sit and read and blog and not worry about all the assignments I should be doing! Plus my friends come up to visit me at the end of December and we barely get to see each other anymore because of being at different unis so that’s always lovely. There’s Christmas dinners with my sports clubs at Uni, visiting the Christmas market in Edinburgh, curling up and watching Netflix….I do get a bit sad that it’s dark so early and so cold, but for me all the other great stuff outweighs that.

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    • Jamie says

      November 6, 2017 at 7:21 pm

      YES the holidays! I think I’m like really happy and fine from like Thanksgiving to NYE and then everything else is terrible in my mind. My ideal winter would be just from Thanksgiving to NYE lol. Your Christmas plans sound AMAZING!! Enjoy!!! And yeah, I think that’s why I’m trying to be super intentional about embracing what I DO love so it feels like miserable. I always dread it so much and I want to dread it less!

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      • Jo says

        November 9, 2017 at 6:13 pm

        Ha ha yeah I would agree with that, everything leading up to Christmas and New Years and then as soon as January hits, it’s even colder and you don’t have any fun holiday things to look forward to! Aww thank you, it will be nice to see my friends and family after so long, and I’ve been so bogged down in essays recently that the break will be very welcome! I hope this winter sucks less for you 🙂

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  4. Judith says

    November 6, 2017 at 2:38 pm

    I’m with you on the winter coat front. I bought a new one this winter, it’s down free, as I’m avoiding animal products, but it’s super warm and stylish. If you consider non-down items, check out HoodLamb, they have amazing coats!!

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    • Jamie says

      November 6, 2017 at 7:19 pm

      Right? It’s such a game changer to invest in a warm coat. I regret all the past winters that I bought cheap, thin coats. And thank you…totally down for finding a non-down alternative that is actually warm! Thank you! 🙂

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  5. Emmah says

    November 6, 2017 at 3:27 pm

    I HATE how early it gets dark this time of year!! And ugh, I hate the cold weather too (only perk… no bugs and no sweating). I overall hate snow too, besides looking at it from inside haha. It’s very pretty until it gets all dirty. But ugh, having to pay for clean up (plowing) -_-
    I oddly shave my legs MORE during the winter, but that’s mostly because I hate how hairy legs feel against pajama pants.
    I sleep better under heavier blankets too!!
    I adore all the lights and decorations for Christmas!!
    ALL THINGS PEPPERMINT!! Especially peppermint bark, yum.
    Ooo, I love baking! Where should I send recipes to?
    I’m pretty hot blooded or whatever they call it, so I always just get those male fleece hoodies with the fake sherpa inside, because that keeps me nice and toasty haha.
    And your idea of a winter outfit is pretty much mine… I just wear long leggings with my other season dresses and a cardigan and THEN my winter jacket, because… meh. Though I do have a couple long sleeved dresses now (I prefer tank tops and that kind of style on dresses too, so).
    Fun note… I’m allergic to donate (sinuses and stuff wise). I also can’t wear wool or any itchy material D: Super sensitive skin!
    Check out Fuzzy Babba slipper socks at Walmart!! They have memory foam in the bottom and they’re sooo comfy and cute.
    I sooo wish I could wear scarves but my throat is all like NO THANK YOU YOU’RE CHOKING ME (even though it’s totally not). And hats… they mess with my glasses 🙁 I also have a big head haha.
    Omg that throw looks soooo soft!!
    I can’t use flannel sheets anymore (I get too hot), so off to my auntie they go. She moved up from Florida last year and she has to take blood thinners, so she’s ALWAYS cold.
    Yesss, winter-y TBR! All of December, it’s going to be Christmas-y reads. Well, until I get sick of them.

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    • Jamie says

      November 6, 2017 at 7:18 pm

      oh I’m going to have to check out those slippers you suggest! OMG HOW COULD I FORGET ALL THINGS PEPPERMINT ON MY LIST. YES. Adding that to my list in my notebook!!

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  6. Katrina says

    November 6, 2017 at 8:18 pm

    Ohhhh, I have several simple baking recipes! What type of things are you looking for? Likely my favourite is the Earl Grey Cookie recipe I have!

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  7. Ashlee Tripp says

    November 7, 2017 at 12:39 am

    I love my down parka from Eddie Bauer! It is so warm.

    http://www.eddiebauer.com/product/womens-sun-valley-down-parka/20612953?showProducts=&color=400&sizetype=&size=

    I’m also participating in the Putting Me Together Blog’s Style Challenge for Fall and plan to do the winter one as well. Definitely worth checking out, I think! It makes getting dressed so much fun, and it eliminates a decision from me. The winter shopping list will go live in early to mid December!

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  8. Devon says

    November 7, 2017 at 7:37 am

    I love Yoga With Adriene, especially how she puts out a new video every week! But yoga is a great way to set your mind at ease— great indoor activity in winter.

    As far as coats go, I highly recommend looking at J. Crew’s “cocoon coat”. I splurged at the beginning of last winter and it was so worth it. I can go out wearing a t-short underneath that and I’m warm enough!

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  9. Becky says

    November 7, 2017 at 9:51 am

    This post is so great! I also hate winter, so I think I might try making my own plan of attack to make it suck less 🙂 The getting dark early thing is the worst for me, because it seriously kills my outdoor running time (I hate running on the treadmill at the gym – don’t know why, but I prefer running outside). On the cozy clothes front, depending on your budget I HIGHLY recommend some Under Armour sweatpants! I just picked up a pair of the “Storm” fleece-lined ones at the outlet store near me, and they are SO WARM. They’re definitely my go-to lounge pants now that it’s getting cooler.

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  10. Annemieke says

    November 7, 2017 at 12:19 pm

    Sloth slippers! It is good to prepare when you know you struggle. I struggled last year (with a 4-6 month old baby) and I am noticing I am less interested in doing things now the weather is getting cold and so early dark, yeah. I’ll have to make a list of things I like and do during Winter. That is a good idea. 🙂

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  11. Ashley says

    November 7, 2017 at 2:31 pm

    I live in Idaho, so it’s cold a lot longer than it’s not 😂😂😭😭
    First- get some pocket hand/foot warmers- they will change your life. I put them in my pocket, in my shoes, and if I’m super cold, I’ll put them in my gloves. (I buy them in bulk in the camping section of Walmart or similar places, sure they’re on Amazon too…
    Also- one of my favorite winter activities is to bundle up and go for a walk in the dark when it’s lightly snowing. The whole world feels extra beautiful and magical and it really feels like anything is possible. (And then drink hot cocoa when you get home 😊)
    If you don’t have a garage, cover your car in an old sheet and tuck it into the back doors, and then you don’t have to scrape your car in the morning…
    My favorite winter experience in recent years- we were headed into the mountains and they closed the road, so we got a hotel and every one was kinda stressed and grumpy, so we went out side and made snow angels, snowmen, slid around and just, legit acted like we were small children and it was perfect. We were all in a better mood and just, felt lighter, so I totally second finding moments to play in the snow.
    Also, my friend will throw snowballs for her dog to “fetch” and it’s pretty funny 😜

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    • Jamie says

      November 8, 2017 at 10:08 am

      You are a cold weather pro!! You know..now that you talk about taking walks in the snow. Will and I did that 2 winters ago because we couldn’t get Finn to poop in the snow when we had a huge snowstorm so we took a walk on the road and around our complex while it was snowing and it was rather delightful now that I think about it!

      That tip about covering your car…Def need to try that!

      And yes…playing in the snow. I feel like maybe if I find the magic in the snow like I had as a kid maybe it won’t feel so awful always??

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  12. Shayna M. Parr says

    November 8, 2017 at 9:36 am

    Those sloth slippers are the cutest! If you’re looking for recs for light therapy lamps, I’ve been using SunTouchPlus for a while, and I really like it!

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    • Jamie says

      November 8, 2017 at 10:06 am

      Right?? I feel like you can’t be in a bad mood where sloth slippers!! I put them on my Xmas list for Will’s mom and he’s like omg you are a child lol. YES thanks for the rec! I have no idea about light therapy lamps so I will take all recs!

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  13. Jessica says

    November 9, 2017 at 6:16 pm

    Winter is one of my least favorite seasons because I’m not a fan of the cold, but I think after spending a few years in the Midwest, I’ve learned to cope with it a little better. Wool socks are really great (I get the Kirkland wool trail sock pack at Costco) for cold days and thermal leggings/tops (Uniqlo’s Heattech or the 32 degree ones at Costco/Macys [I think they’re on sale right now at Costco]) are great for added warmth without too much bulk. In the winter, I’m guilty of burying myself under a blanket over my shoulders when doing work (the fleece/sherpa ones are so comfy) and making warm drinks.

    Also re: baking, I love this cream cheese chocolate chip recipe: https://cupofjo.com/2016/12/easy-cream-cheese-chocolate-chip-cookies/ It sounds a little weird at first but adds a little more richness and body to regular chocolate chip cookies. A handheld mixer is really convenient, too!

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  14. Heidi says

    November 9, 2017 at 8:40 pm

    I just love the winter! It’s my favorite season. Probably because I just love Christmas and always have. Here in Florida, it’s the season of barely any humidity and lower temps- thank goodness!
    Summertime is like winter here for us. We are stuck indoors all the time because it’s too darn hot. haha

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  15. Zeee @ I Heart Romance & YA says

    November 11, 2017 at 12:59 am

    It doesn’t snow here in LA so I love winter weather here… I mean, when it hits the 60s, we are already freezing! LOL
    But I do agree with you, comfy clothing is the best for this type of weather!

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  16. K. Elizabeth says

    November 11, 2017 at 11:26 pm

    I’m the complete opposite. I feel like the summer months are when I feel the most miserable. The heat gets really unbearable here and we often end up stuck inside where it’s cool. I live for the cooler months (and snow)!

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    • Jamie says

      November 12, 2017 at 12:24 pm

      Haha it’s so funny how vastly difference people’s temperature preferences are! I’m like PLEASE GIVE ME THE HEAT. I think like 80 is my perfect temperature (though when I was pregnant this summer I was like PLEASE NO I NEED ALL THE AC!!). I just always associate winter with misery and forget not everyone else does haha

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  17. Jessica says

    November 12, 2017 at 2:29 pm

    I have a love/hate relationship with winter and in an effort to make it suck less (aka how do I keep myself warmer), I’ve been loving Uniqlo’s HeatTech line (Costco/Macy’s 32 degrees thermals are also nice! [I think they’re on sale right now at Costco]) since they’re thin and lightweight but are incredibly warm. Wool socks are really nice, too and the Kirkland wool trail socks are nice, especially for the price.

    Re: baking, I love these cream cheese chocolate chip cookies: https://cupofjo.com/2016/12/easy-cream-cheese-chocolate-chip-cookies/ . They’re so creamy and an upgrade to the regular chocolate chip cookies. Using a handheld mixer is so nice.

    Reply
    • Jamie says

      November 13, 2017 at 10:14 am

      OOOH must check out Uniqlo! I’m bummed because the last time Will and I went to the mall we found out that Uniqlo was closed there. There is still one in center city Philly so one of these weekends we are going to have to go! I love Uniqlo! Thank you for the rec!

      OOOH CREAM CHEESE CHOCOLATE CHIP COOKIES??!?!??! You sold me. I am going to learn to bake so I can have these haha. Thank you!!

      Also so nice to chat with you again <333

      Reply
      • Jessica says

        November 13, 2017 at 8:34 pm

        <3 <3 Glad to be back! The one in Philly is quite close to the SEPTA Suburban Station so it's convenient in that sense, too. I hope you enjoy!

        Reply
  18. nils says

    April 4, 2022 at 9:29 am

    Try hobbies you don’t normally have time for? Unfortunately, I have a toddler – weather doesn’t make a whit of difference

    Reply
    • Jamie says

      June 14, 2022 at 8:49 am

      I also have a child! A 4 year old. I tend to either a) enjoy that hobby after she goes to bed b) include her in it in some way (if we are painting, I get her set up with her own. I’ve also gotten her into yoga and now she will do her Cosmic Kids yoga while I do my own yoga in the other room). It’s not the same as pre-child hobby time but fun lol or c) I tell my husband I want time to do something and off I go!

      Reply

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“Why is it so hard to pick my next read?” — “Why is it so hard to pick my next read?” — she says as she is surrounded by piles on piles of books on the floor and desk and packed on her bookshelf and book cart. (Partner @berkleypub - thanks for the review copy).⁣
⁣
I managed to pick my next read, as chronicled in these photos, but it was not easy with so many options! 

Decided to go with a most anticipated book of 2022 for me from an author who has written books I’ve really enjoyed.
⁣
I am about halfway through and cruising along because I NEED to figure out if Joseph is the worst or what really is going on here in this story that starts with 3 women being stood up by the same guy on Valentine’s Day.  I feel like there is something more to this one but I can’t quite put my finger on it yet! ⁣
⁣
Hoping to finish it this weekend! What are you reading this weekend? And do you have trouble picking your next read? How do you choose amongst all the options?
Sunshine on my face and a mass market fitting perf Sunshine on my face and a mass market fitting perfectly in my hands.⁣…
⁣
Truly felt like there were zero things more joyful than the warm sun on my face after colder, dreary days and remembering how much I love the feel of reading a mass market paperback. It’s probably a very specific little joy of mine and I definitely reveled in it today.⁣
⁣
But the real big joy has been rereading this book and experiencing it all over again before @bridgertonnetflix season 2 — especially the Pall Mall scene. And something to do with a 🐝 😅 iykyk⁣
⁣
With all the joy I’m getting out of this reread it makes me wonder why I don’t prioritize rereading like I used to before I started blogging 10 years ago.⁣
⁣
In my head I just want to experience all the new stories and try to make a dent in my TBR but I forget, until I do it, the genuine pleasure in revisiting old companions and how it’s a different side of reading one can experience — the nostalgia, the person I’ve become since reading the book and the way I approach a book already knowing what happens. Well the general sense of what happens because my memory is 💩!⁣
⁣
Anyways that’s what I’m up to currently. Trying to finish this up so I can pack my books for a short trip I’m going on later this week. My first ✈️ since 2019!⁣
⁣
Whatcha reading? Do you reread often? And tell me a little teeny tiny joy from your day.
If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow m If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow mash up the “screaming, crying”  Blank Space clip with the “emotional damage” refrain to the Bastille’s Pompeii to let you know how I feel after the last few chapters of #TheGildedCage !!⁣
⁣
And if you don’t understand what that means, I’m sorry 😅⁣
⁣
But woo boy do I need the third installment of this series!!! But I also think I’m going to be even more emotional damaged after that one soooo.⁣ 
⁣
Seriously, one of the best simple joys of my life is the feeling of being so wholly and totally invested in a series that you have to remind yourself it’s fiction lest you spend all day in bed crying about the devastated look a character had on their face — a face you didn’t even see with your own two eyes but you are so invested that you feel nauseous and gutted like you sure did.⁣
⁣
Just me orrrrrr?⁣
⁣
No but for real. If you love YA fantasy, go start #theprisonhealer so you can be caught up when The Blood Traitor comes out in June (and be my emotional support person for the duration of reading it). I love these characters and I dying to see what happens next. 

Have you read this series yet? Last book series that had you SCREAMING CRYING THROWING UP because of the EMOTIONAL DAMAGE it inflicted?
A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be bothered to make it pretty — mismatching fuzzy sucks, coffee almost gone and Christmas pajama pants that are super old.⁣
⁣
But y’all Black Cake is so good!! I’m almost halfway through and I know it’s A Choice to declare it one of the best books I’ve read all year but I’m feeling bold based on how it’s going.⁣
⁣
I love a good family story (especially one with a family secret!) and this is top notch. The writing is 👌🏻 and I know I’m going to be screaming when the pieces come together!⁣
⁣
In other news, I’m 65% of the way through The Dry by Jane Harper and I’m enjoying it so much that I ended up staying on the treadmill twice this weekend after my allotted time was over just so I could keep listening.⁣
⁣
Will and I FINALLY started Ted Lasso this weekend. It is a damn delight!! For all the hype and praise, it has overdelivered for me which is kind of shocking because normally hype is scary. I told Will that I feel like all the praise hasn’t even come close to how much I could love it. We are only 7 episodes in so no spoilers!⁣
⁣
I’m kinda mad we sat on starting it for so long but at the same time I think the timing is right to help me see my way out of this February funk I have found myself in the past couple weeks.⁣
⁣
Anyways, hope everyone is having a good weekend! Have you read Black Cake or The Dry? Where are my Ted Lasso fans at? I’m happy to join your ranks! Also please tell me your fave character bc I am finding it impossible to pick this far!
No but seriously every year I contemplate organizi No but seriously every year I contemplate organizing a search party for one Katjay Millay who wrote one beautiful and amazing book and then...vanished.

Like for real. She wrote a tweet in 2015 that she was taking a few weeks off and then.... no tweets, no new books. Radio silence.

I hope she’s okay, for real, and that she knows I obsessively stalk Goodreads/Twitter/the internet to make sure I haven’t missed new book news from her at least twice a year. 🥺

Is there any author who you’ve been waiting forever for a new release from??

I’d also like to add YA author Sarah Ockler to this list! Last release was 2015 😭😭
Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are becoming movies/tv shows soon! And one of them is out TODAY!⁣
⁣
The Sky is Everywhere — it’s out today on AppleTV+ and I can’t wait to sob my brains out. One of my absolute most favorite books ever by one of my all time favorite authors. It’s gorgeous and heartbreaking in its poignant depiction of grief, first love and healing — all woven together in Jandy’s signature gorgeous, lyrical writing.⁣
⁣
Along For The Ride (out April 22) — one of a handful upcoming @sdessen books being adapted in the near future and I can’t wait! These books are so near and dear to my heart.⁣
⁣
No release dates yet for The Summer I Turned Pretty tv series (the ultimate coming of age summertime story!) or The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight (the cutest meet cute of all meet cutes all set in 24 hours) but I am HYPED and have all my fingers crossed for 2022 🤞🤞

Have you read any of these? Anyone else hyped for these adaptations.

Also, for the past few years, I’ve kept a running list of books becoming movies/tv shows for the year. Head to my bio to check out the list! I try to update it weekly and keep on top of it all but life ya know 😆 but I try!
Is this a book club? I think we just started a boo Is this a book club? I think we just started a book club. Or maybe just a @jenniferesmith appreciation club?? (partner @randomhouse )⁣
⁣
Either way, after loving Jennifer E. Smith's YA books for years, it's been a real treat to also read her debut picture book with Riley (we loved!!) as well as her adult debut out in 3 weeks!⁣
⁣
⁣So let me tell you about that adult debut — The Unsinkable Great James!!

This one just was the perfect warm-hearted read for a cold and gloomy January.

A perfect setting to escape into (Alaska), a tender-hearted meet cute and a poignant look at the shared grieving experience of those left behind.

I was initially drawn, like I always am, to the daughter losing a mother storyline and an exploration of that grief but I was so taken by the father/daughter relationship between two people who were left untethered by losing the person who held their family together.

Greta and her father don't see eye-to-eye on basically anything when they are thrown together on this Alaskan cruise, a trip Greta's father and mother were supposed to take, and you can feel the tension of their long-standing tumultuous and fractured relationship -- a relationship that feels like its hanging in a balance and could not recover.

The two are both hurting so much from this loss  and it took my breath away at times in how true it rang to be in your own grief bubble and feeling like the loss is yours and yours alone while forgetting about the others shouldering their own piece of this loss. I loved watching them very slowly SEE one another.

I can't say enough good things about this one -- great setting, Greta's music, the meet-cute, the messy and imperfect nature of family and love. Definitely recommend!⁣
I was on a hot reading streak and now for the past I was on a hot reading streak and now for the past few days I get all cozy in bed to read at night and am asleep by 4 pages in. Will got a kick out of waking up to me basically spooning my kindle. Ebbs and flows, y’all.⁣
⁣
Let’s do a little reading update with an edition of Last, Current & Next.⁣
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Last - The Girl With the Louding Voice: Adunni is by far one of the most memorable voices I’ve read in a book in a very long time. Her hope and resilience in the face of some awful situations kept me turning the pages and rooting for her. I can’t believe it took me so long to finally read it. Highly recommend!⁣
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Now - Deep in Providence (thank you @fiercereads ): I’m about halfway through after I carved out some time to read early this morning and I’m enjoying this story of grief, love and magic. I’m nervous about these girls trying to resurrect their dead friend though! When I put it down today I was getting a little creeped by some things happening.⁣
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Next - The Kiss of Deception: I’m rereading the first book in this YA fantasy series because it’s been forever and I really wanna finish the trilogy. I’ve been really wanting to go through series I’ve left unfinished for years (not for lack of interest but because I suck at juggling all the series I start) so this is one of them. I remember loving it so I’m excited to dive in and binge. 

Whatcha reading? Have you read any of these? Anyone else on the struggle train with reading at night right now?
Braved the downpour to get my library holds. I hop Braved the downpour to get my library holds. I hope they are worth it! Please tell me they are!⁣
⁣
This is also, before I get to the stack,  an appreciation post for my tiny library and wonderful librarians.⁣
⁣
They normally open at 9am during the week —except Fridays. Did I remember that? Nope. So I was I was SO proud of Riley and I for getting our butts in gear to be for around opening time to drop off a stack and get my new ones.⁣
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And alas, I go to open the door and it’s locked. Now I’m holding Riley’s hand, two tote bags full of books, an umbrella that I’m trying to keep over the both of us, mind you. I’m thoroughly confused until it hits me that it’s Friday.⁣
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So I’m like, welp, guess we are just dropping off in the bin so I try to grab my books out and put them in one-handed while juggling the umbrella and less than enthused Riley.⁣
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Mercifully the door opens and  our children’s librarian takes pity on us and lets us in to drop off and pick up the holds.⁣
⁣
Is this what being a VIP as a celebrity feels like?? Sure feels like it to me 😆 for real though, it pays to be a regular and have a cute kid in tow who is being pelted with rain.⁣
⁣
Anyways excited about this stack but especially Wahala, Daughter of the Moon Goddess and How High We Go In The Dark the most.⁣
⁣
Also have been meaning to snag The World Gives Way after @jordys.book.club recommendation!⁣
⁣
Have you read any of these? Any that you think were definitely worth the rain-soaked journey for??⁣
⁣
Alright now I’m off to curl up and read on this rainy, dreary day which is really what I think a day like this is meant for.
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“Why is it so hard to pick my next read?” — “Why is it so hard to pick my next read?” — she says as she is surrounded by piles on piles of books on the floor and desk and packed on her bookshelf and book cart. (Partner @berkleypub - thanks for the review copy).⁣
⁣
I managed to pick my next read, as chronicled in these photos, but it was not easy with so many options! 

Decided to go with a most anticipated book of 2022 for me from an author who has written books I’ve really enjoyed.
⁣
I am about halfway through and cruising along because I NEED to figure out if Joseph is the worst or what really is going on here in this story that starts with 3 women being stood up by the same guy on Valentine’s Day.  I feel like there is something more to this one but I can’t quite put my finger on it yet! ⁣
⁣
Hoping to finish it this weekend! What are you reading this weekend? And do you have trouble picking your next read? How do you choose amongst all the options?
Sunshine on my face and a mass market fitting perf Sunshine on my face and a mass market fitting perfectly in my hands.⁣…
⁣
Truly felt like there were zero things more joyful than the warm sun on my face after colder, dreary days and remembering how much I love the feel of reading a mass market paperback. It’s probably a very specific little joy of mine and I definitely reveled in it today.⁣
⁣
But the real big joy has been rereading this book and experiencing it all over again before @bridgertonnetflix season 2 — especially the Pall Mall scene. And something to do with a 🐝 😅 iykyk⁣
⁣
With all the joy I’m getting out of this reread it makes me wonder why I don’t prioritize rereading like I used to before I started blogging 10 years ago.⁣
⁣
In my head I just want to experience all the new stories and try to make a dent in my TBR but I forget, until I do it, the genuine pleasure in revisiting old companions and how it’s a different side of reading one can experience — the nostalgia, the person I’ve become since reading the book and the way I approach a book already knowing what happens. Well the general sense of what happens because my memory is 💩!⁣
⁣
Anyways that’s what I’m up to currently. Trying to finish this up so I can pack my books for a short trip I’m going on later this week. My first ✈️ since 2019!⁣
⁣
Whatcha reading? Do you reread often? And tell me a little teeny tiny joy from your day.
If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow m If I was a person who made Reels I would somehow mash up the “screaming, crying”  Blank Space clip with the “emotional damage” refrain to the Bastille’s Pompeii to let you know how I feel after the last few chapters of #TheGildedCage !!⁣
⁣
And if you don’t understand what that means, I’m sorry 😅⁣
⁣
But woo boy do I need the third installment of this series!!! But I also think I’m going to be even more emotional damaged after that one soooo.⁣ 
⁣
Seriously, one of the best simple joys of my life is the feeling of being so wholly and totally invested in a series that you have to remind yourself it’s fiction lest you spend all day in bed crying about the devastated look a character had on their face — a face you didn’t even see with your own two eyes but you are so invested that you feel nauseous and gutted like you sure did.⁣
⁣
Just me orrrrrr?⁣
⁣
No but for real. If you love YA fantasy, go start #theprisonhealer so you can be caught up when The Blood Traitor comes out in June (and be my emotional support person for the duration of reading it). I love these characters and I dying to see what happens next. 

Have you read this series yet? Last book series that had you SCREAMING CRYING THROWING UP because of the EMOTIONAL DAMAGE it inflicted?
A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be A real life reading photo because I couldn’t be bothered to make it pretty — mismatching fuzzy sucks, coffee almost gone and Christmas pajama pants that are super old.⁣
⁣
But y’all Black Cake is so good!! I’m almost halfway through and I know it’s A Choice to declare it one of the best books I’ve read all year but I’m feeling bold based on how it’s going.⁣
⁣
I love a good family story (especially one with a family secret!) and this is top notch. The writing is 👌🏻 and I know I’m going to be screaming when the pieces come together!⁣
⁣
In other news, I’m 65% of the way through The Dry by Jane Harper and I’m enjoying it so much that I ended up staying on the treadmill twice this weekend after my allotted time was over just so I could keep listening.⁣
⁣
Will and I FINALLY started Ted Lasso this weekend. It is a damn delight!! For all the hype and praise, it has overdelivered for me which is kind of shocking because normally hype is scary. I told Will that I feel like all the praise hasn’t even come close to how much I could love it. We are only 7 episodes in so no spoilers!⁣
⁣
I’m kinda mad we sat on starting it for so long but at the same time I think the timing is right to help me see my way out of this February funk I have found myself in the past couple weeks.⁣
⁣
Anyways, hope everyone is having a good weekend! Have you read Black Cake or The Dry? Where are my Ted Lasso fans at? I’m happy to join your ranks! Also please tell me your fave character bc I am finding it impossible to pick this far!
No but seriously every year I contemplate organizi No but seriously every year I contemplate organizing a search party for one Katjay Millay who wrote one beautiful and amazing book and then...vanished.

Like for real. She wrote a tweet in 2015 that she was taking a few weeks off and then.... no tweets, no new books. Radio silence.

I hope she’s okay, for real, and that she knows I obsessively stalk Goodreads/Twitter/the internet to make sure I haven’t missed new book news from her at least twice a year. 🥺

Is there any author who you’ve been waiting forever for a new release from??

I’d also like to add YA author Sarah Ockler to this list! Last release was 2015 😭😭
Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are Ahhh some of my absolute OG young adult faves are becoming movies/tv shows soon! And one of them is out TODAY!⁣
⁣
The Sky is Everywhere — it’s out today on AppleTV+ and I can’t wait to sob my brains out. One of my absolute most favorite books ever by one of my all time favorite authors. It’s gorgeous and heartbreaking in its poignant depiction of grief, first love and healing — all woven together in Jandy’s signature gorgeous, lyrical writing.⁣
⁣
Along For The Ride (out April 22) — one of a handful upcoming @sdessen books being adapted in the near future and I can’t wait! These books are so near and dear to my heart.⁣
⁣
No release dates yet for The Summer I Turned Pretty tv series (the ultimate coming of age summertime story!) or The Statistical Probability of Love at First Sight (the cutest meet cute of all meet cutes all set in 24 hours) but I am HYPED and have all my fingers crossed for 2022 🤞🤞

Have you read any of these? Anyone else hyped for these adaptations.

Also, for the past few years, I’ve kept a running list of books becoming movies/tv shows for the year. Head to my bio to check out the list! I try to update it weekly and keep on top of it all but life ya know 😆 but I try!
Is this a book club? I think we just started a boo Is this a book club? I think we just started a book club. Or maybe just a @jenniferesmith appreciation club?? (partner @randomhouse )⁣
⁣
Either way, after loving Jennifer E. Smith's YA books for years, it's been a real treat to also read her debut picture book with Riley (we loved!!) as well as her adult debut out in 3 weeks!⁣
⁣
⁣So let me tell you about that adult debut — The Unsinkable Great James!!

This one just was the perfect warm-hearted read for a cold and gloomy January.

A perfect setting to escape into (Alaska), a tender-hearted meet cute and a poignant look at the shared grieving experience of those left behind.

I was initially drawn, like I always am, to the daughter losing a mother storyline and an exploration of that grief but I was so taken by the father/daughter relationship between two people who were left untethered by losing the person who held their family together.

Greta and her father don't see eye-to-eye on basically anything when they are thrown together on this Alaskan cruise, a trip Greta's father and mother were supposed to take, and you can feel the tension of their long-standing tumultuous and fractured relationship -- a relationship that feels like its hanging in a balance and could not recover.

The two are both hurting so much from this loss  and it took my breath away at times in how true it rang to be in your own grief bubble and feeling like the loss is yours and yours alone while forgetting about the others shouldering their own piece of this loss. I loved watching them very slowly SEE one another.

I can't say enough good things about this one -- great setting, Greta's music, the meet-cute, the messy and imperfect nature of family and love. Definitely recommend!⁣

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